Accidental or is it a signal? Does it mean anything?

[hectorc]

So there is this place I go to for regular RMT massage. No hanky panky, a proper massage and it's all covered by insurance. I always see the same woman and we have a good rapport.

So the last time I was there, after the flip she actually massaged my thighs quite high up, and obviously I started to get a boner. Then she ran her hand up my legs, brushing past my soldier, and on to my tummy, and then down again, several times brushing me, and smiling. I was wearing an underwear.

After that she moved to my neck and then the massage was over.

I didn't know how to react. She doesn't speak very good English but she said I was a good looking man. When I said no, I am slightly overweight she said no, you are big all over and smiled again.

If it happens again, what should I do? I don't mind getting a HE (and not looking for anything more) but I don't want to jeopardise my massage. It's hard to find an RMT that is great and hits all the nice spots, but I would be foolish not to follow up IF that's what she wanted. I have been going to her for a while and while she has been close a couple of times she has never handled me like that before.

Please give suggestions, thanks.

 

[ChaosFactor]

In that situation if I was you I would book back sooner and lose the underwear next time to show her you are intrigued from the last session and comfortable around her and if she runs her hand up your thigh again I would make a specific comment of either how good that feels and then follow up with a humorous comment like "obviously you can tell by looking at my reaction!" Then you could either follow up with a "shame you can't do anything to help me out" or blame the reaction on how attractive she is.
If you have been seeing her for awhile and you have a good rapport I seriously doubt she will offended, plus you could just position the comment as playful banter or flirting..
Let us know what happens the next time.

 

[Nanziqi]

So there is this place I go to for regular RMT massage. No hanky panky, a proper massage and it's all covered by insurance. I always see the same woman and we have a good rapport.

So the last time I was there, after the flip she actually massaged my thighs quite high up, and obviously I started to get a boner. Then she ran her hand up my legs, brushing past my soldier, and on to my tummy, and then down again, several times brushing me, and smiling. I was wearing an underwear.

After that she moved to my neck and then the massage was over.

I didn't know how to react. She doesn't speak very good English but she said I was a good looking man. When I said no, I am slightly overweight she said no, you are big all over and smiled again.

If it happens again, what should I do? I don't mind getting a HE (and not looking for anything more) but I don't want to jeopardise my massage. It's hard to find an RMT that is great and hits all the nice spots, but I would be foolish not to follow up IF that's what she wanted. I have been going to her for a while and while she has been close a couple of times she has never handled me like that before.

Please give suggestions, thanks.

I don't know,I use to go to a legit spa and see the same girl for a long time and she massage my tights very close to my soldier and one day I ask her if I can get something else,but she got offended and told me she do only professional massage,if I want other kind of massage I should go somewhere else,I never ask again and I am still seen the same girl,for her excellent massage. Your case look more promising I think you should try and follow the suggestions from C.F.and see how is go.Good luck

 

[bbtpongs]

She's an RMT and "doesn't speak very good English"? Becoming an RMT in Ontario requires a fairly rigorous course, given in English (or French), and an equally rigorous series of examinations, also in English (or French). Outside-Ontario credentials are accepted but there is a mandatory English (or French) language assessment. Is she listed at the CMTO website?

If it's a holistic place, particularly if it's an Asian or Eastern European one, and there are never any women customers, then a HE is available, insurance or no.

 

[hectorc]

It's an Asian massage place, but with other spa services. I have seen some women customers as well and the place prides itself on being a legit place. I get RMT receipts.

 

[bbtpongs]

It's an Asian massage place, but with other spa services. I have seen some women customers as well and the place prides itself on being a legit place. I get RMT receipts.

If it's a genuinely legitimate place, then stop thinking about a happy ending. If you like the lady, ask her out.

However, I'd still have some doubt the specific lady in question is herself an RMT if, as you say, her English is not good given the English language requirements of the college-level courses and qualifying examinations. If, like a number of Asian places, they have one RMT and are re-using the number, then I'd question the place's legitimacy. (You can look up the RMT number on your receipt at the CMTO website.)

 

[leebog]

Take off ur underwear next time....

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[ChaosFactor]

Hector when is your next appointment? I am interested to hear what happens.

 

[hectorc]

I have a massage next week. Still debating how to proceed. I always wore an underwear ever since I started here last year, so it may look odd if I suddenly show up on the table without an underwear. I don't know how other clients are dressed.

 

[ChaosFactor]

I always go sans underwear just because many RMT's style includes massaging near the groin and inner leg ligaments so it is quite normal.

 

[ChaosFactor]

Hector what was the outcome are you willing to share?

 

[Nanziqi]

Hector what was the outcome are you willing to share?

Yeah me too I would like to know.

 

[hectorc]

So I went back recently and I only wore a small underwear. I had also pulled down the underwear to show (very little) crack. I was lying face down on my belly. She laughed when she removed the covering drape and pulled my underwear up. After a good massage on the back, it was time for the flip.

There was a lot more touching and teasing than before but she told me up front that this was a proper health spa so she couldn't do much more. I had struck a good friendship and rapport with her so perhaps this was why. I know it's a legitimate spa as they had called the police on some clients who wanted more (and harrassed the RMTs) and I was there for RMT massage.

 

[wagamama]

Where is it? I'd like a good RMT massage too. What's her name?


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[RMT]

I am going to this place for a while now, Golden Phoenix at 126 Clark Ave.E. in Markham,so if you want an excellent RTM massage go there,they also do Acupuncture.No funny stuff, only professional massage.
Lisa ,the owner is a very nice lady.(905-482-2881)

 

[bbtpongs]

I am going to this place for a while now, Golden Phoenix at 126 Clark Ave.E. in Markham,so if you want an excellent RTM massage go there,they also do Acupuncture.No funny stuff, only professional massage.
Lisa ,the owner is a very nice lady.(905-482-2881)

Finally, a genuine, legitmate RMT place.

Fellows, if it's not listed at the CMTO site, it's not an RMT place.

This place *is* indeed listed and what is more, there is more than one licensed attendant working there.

(If the attendant who actually ends up giving you a massage is not an RMT, the spa is not allowed to give you a receipt with an RMT number. Province of Ontario regulations mandate that "Receipts issued for Massage Therapy treatment also require that the name of the therapist is printed or stamped on the receipt along with the Massage Therapist’s registration number and signature.")

 

[lifestyle50]

In my experience, I don't find RMT to be consistently any better than a Holistic massage. Some of the most blah massages I've ever had came from RMT. Don't get me wrong, I've had some very good quality massage from RMT as well, but I've had as good or better from Holistic practitioners at about 2/3 the price of RMT. I've seldom had a massage that did me harm from either, so I try different places until I find a good attendant and stick with them once I find them as long as I can. The whole RMT industry is a bit of a scam, charging outrageous fees for the courses, exams and licenses. Then the attendants have to charge more to pay for all that, and the customer gets little from it.

Don't be afraid to try a Holistic spa. Odds are higher you will get a good massage if you stick to a more legit place. If the girl is wearing lingerie or mini skirt, lower odds of a good massage. Go somewhere legit, where they serve female clients as well, and do things like Mani/Pedi and waxing. There is a good chance for a good quality massage for only $60 an hour vs. $85 for RMT.

 

[bbtpongs]

Don't be afraid to try a Holistic spa. Odds are higher you will get a good massage if you stick to a more legit place. If the girl is wearing lingerie or mini skirt, lower odds of a good massage. Go somewhere legit, where they serve female clients as well, and do things like Mani/Pedi and waxing. There is a good chance for a good quality massage for only $60 an hour vs. $85 for RMT.

I concur whole heartedly @lifestyle50. The key is "somewhere legit, where they serve female clients as well". That's pretty much the hallmark of a legit place.

Still, I've even had great massages at a body rub place - as I've mentioned before, Anna at Asia Studios is superb!

And for that matter, I've had a few decent massages at rub 'n tug "holistic" places as well.

In my post above I just wanted to clarify what an RMT actually is as some on these boards use the term quite loosely.

 

[Burlington06]

I frequent this "legit" place that has been giving me all the signals

- the lady that I've had the most massage with always dresses up scantily. Last time I had massage with her she rode my back and did that butterfly thing that hockey goalies too and her vagina was just pushed up way too many times

- once I went and saw a younger attendant. Skirt was on the short side, looked like wanted to play. I think she's still "new" to the business but what do I know.

- also had an older lady graze on the boys on purpose after a session and gave me a great smile after. too bad she wasnt attractive at all

- last time I was there I had someone graze my hands with her breasts too many times it was hard to ignore. I asked if she did extra and asked "has someone done it for you here?". I played and said yes. Didn't believe me but was too happy to see my face with great satisfaction while massage my inner thighs. eager to see me "the next time"

So I don't know whether or not I should go back in the hopes of getting any. They do "as you ask" in terms of massages though, so if you're into deep tissue they'll be the place to go

What do you guys think?

 

[Nanziqi]

I frequent this "legit" place that has been giving me all the signals

- the lady that I've had the most massage with always dresses up scantily. Last time I had massage with her she rode my back and did that butterfly thing that hockey goalies too and her vagina was just pushed up way too many times

- once I went and saw a younger attendant. Skirt was on the short side, looked like wanted to play. I think she's still "new" to the business but what do I know.

- also had an older lady graze on the boys on purpose after a session and gave me a great smile after. too bad she wasnt attractive at all

- last time I was there I had someone graze my hands with her breasts too many times it was hard to ignore. I asked if she did extra and asked "has someone done it for you here?". I played and said yes. Didn't believe me but was too happy to see my face with great satisfaction while massage my inner thighs. eager to see me "the next time"

So I don't know whether or not I should go back in the hopes of getting any. They do "as you ask" in terms of massages though, so if you're into deep tissue they'll be the place to go

What do you guys think?

Can you give more details about this place?Or send me a PM if you are more comfortable.