you offer some great tips, Amigomio:
you make four helpful points: jale, flirting, kissing, and buying fichas all in effort to maintain control of the session.
The Jale techniques--tits in the face, sitting on a monger's lap, and the fanny in the face--are really interesting. On this trip, I was literally pushing one woman away, while the messero was taking her order! It wasn't until I got angry that both of them left me alone. What's up with that? I said 'no" politely 4 or 5 times before getting angry!
As far as the flirting goes, I would not allow it IF I knew she initiated it. But in my case, the younger guy raced up to her, put his arms around her, and whispered something. It looked like she was being polite. You gotta expect druken regulars to step on your toes every once in while. Maybe, if it happens in the future, I'll ditch the chick. but that was a first and it looked like a close call.
But it sounds like you're now affirming realphysical's Kiss Test?
anyway, I mean no offense to my fellow mongers who kiss prostitutes. One reason I don't is that want to minimize exchanging fluids in order to prolong my life as a clean monger.
the other reason is undoubtedly related to low self-esteem. I can't image why a hot 20 year old would want to kiss my aging face.