Let me try.........
Conference in San Diego is always very motivating, esp since TJ is round the corner
. Considering your background here is what I would suggest. You have one big advaneforum.xxxe since you speak Spanish, you should feel at "home"
Hotel:
I would recommend Hacienda, this is on Nino Heroes, opposite La Tropa. Just make sure you make it clear to the Cab driver the specific hotel. The rates are between 45 to 65, clean big rooms with refrig/microwave. It is just a block away from the action area. You can take the girls with you to the room no problem.
Entertainment Mix
You can hit the Adelitas for fast forward, super variety, acts. You can spend most of your time in Chavelas, Tropical, where your Spanish skills and dancing would be fun for you, just keep track of the fichas expense. Then you can stroll in and out of HK, just to feel the strip club type of fun. Most of the girls in all these bars go upstairs, it may be to lesser extent in HK, and full extent in Adelitas.
You can strike a deal with a girl would be interested to spend the nigh with you in the hotel. The girls work in shifts generally 12 am to 8 pm, and then from 8 pm onwards to sunrise.
Happy fun !