Golden Rules of Hobbying

[Barney_B]

I know that some of you have many more years at hobby than me. And by no means am I an expert. However after successes and failures, triumphs and tribulations, great sessions and epic duds, I have created my own set of Golden Rules that I try to follow when it comes to this hobby. I wish to be clear that these are my rules and some may find some or all stupid. Just sharing mine and curious if anyone wishes to share theirs?

My rules are:

1. Always follow the rating system: I have posted my own personal rating system of expected outcome vs price. It is a rarity to find any young, spinner SP that offers mileage @ 200/hour. I am never disappointed if I stay within the "Swim lane" of each range and sometimes surprised if the session exceeded my expectation.
2. In for the kill and not the chase: I prefer to spend my time and money with ladies that are known and well reported. Tried, tested and true always wins out over the thrill of the hunt.
3. Experience vs drama: I am paying for GFE or PSE session, noting the experience. I need no drama or baggage. Once I get a sense that things are getting complicated, it is time to cull the herd and drop that lady from the rotation.
4. YMMV doesn't work: A lady has all of the power within the SP/MPA and client relationship. However I don't like when there is a range in services offered. If I am looking for PSE that includes DT/FF, that goes in to my selection process and what I plan to pay for. I get that there is the magical connection at times and sometimes it is just meh. Regardless, I am expecting a DT/FF.
5. Never negotiate or haggle: Like movies, SPs are paid in advance for services rendered. A lady's performance may be impacted if 10 minutes before you are haggling for $50. Like that ads states, "Know your limit and stay within it".
6. Client/Vendor relationship: Although ladies never ask, at times gents show up with a special something for a special lady. She is a SP, selling her service (vendor) and I am the person purchasing the service (client). It is an uncommon practice for the client to purchase gifts or meals for the vendor. If a SP is appreciative of a gesture, then my gesture is picking her, not haggling, showing up clean, following her rules, behaving like a gentleman and departing on time.
7. Exclusiveness don't equate to a great session: I don't get the concept of Sugar Daddies from a male PoV. If that's what one is in to, great. Just not me. This applies to the ladies that market themselves to come pre-book, state they are around for a short time, limit their appointments or have outrageous screening or fees. I find this off-putting .
8. Tit for tat: It has been suggested that ladies don't like the "R U free?", "Rates?" or "What's your menu?" text. I completely understand. So if I acknowledge a lady by her SP name and introduce myself with my OP name, I wish not to be called "Hun" or "Babe". Let's treat each other with the same level of respect.
9. Think before dick in hand: I have made some poor in game adjustments when she has my dick in her hand (mouth, etc). Clearly I am at a disadvantage. Of course I want her naked and of course kissing and of course... In the end, I paid an extra $100 for the same amount of time and outcome.
10. Keeping it Legal: This is more of a peace of mind thing in the event I lose my phone or security gets compromised. No email or text has any mention of service, menu or rates. I do my research up front so no surprises. All that I tend to text/emails post introduction are meeting requests and day of confirmations. Nothing that gets communicated is illegal. And clarification is needed, a call leaves less a digital bread crumb, ruling out recording of calls.

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[tnycman]

I know that some of you have many more years at hobby than me. And by no means am I an expert. However after successes and failures, triumphs and tribulations, great sessions and epic duds, I have created my own set of Golden Rules that I try to follow when it comes to this hobby. I wish to be clear that these are my rules and some may find some or all stupid. Just sharing mine and curious if anyone wishes to share theirs?

My rules are:

1. Always follow the rating system: I have posted my own personal rating system of expected outcome vs price. It is a rarity to find any young, spinner SP that offers mileage @ 200/hour. I am never disappointed if I stay within the "Swim lane" of each range and sometimes surprised if the session exceeded my expectation.
2. In for the kill and not the chase: I prefer to spend my time and money with ladies that are known and well reported. Tried, tested and true always wins out over the thrill of the hunt.
3. Experience vs drama: I am paying for GFE or PSE session, noting the experience. I need no drama or baggage. Once I get a sense that things are getting complicated, it is time to cull the herd and drop that lady from the rotation.
4. YMMV doesn't work: A lady has all of the power within the SP/MPA and client relationship. However I don't like when there is a range in services offered. If I am looking for PSE that includes DT/FF, that goes in to my selection process and what I plan to pay for. I get that there is the magical connection at times and sometimes it is just meh. Regardless, I am expecting a DT/FF.
5. Never negotiate or haggle: Like movies, SPs are paid in advance for services rendered. A lady's performance may be impacted if 10 minutes before you are haggling for $50. Like that ads states, "Know your limit and stay within it".
6. Client/Vendor relationship: Although ladies never ask, at times gents show up with a special something for a special lady. She is a SP, selling her service (vendor) and I am the person purchasing the service (client). It is an uncommon practice for the client to purchase gifts or meals for the vendor. If a SP is appreciative of a gesture, then my gesture is picking her, not haggling, showing up clean, following her rules, behaving like a gentleman and departing on time.
7. Exclusiveness don't equate to a great session: I don't get the concept of Sugar Daddies from a male PoV. If that's what one is in to, great. Just not me. This applies to the ladies that market themselves to come pre-book, state they are around for a short time, limit their appointments or have outrageous screening or fees. I find this off-putting .
8. Tit for tat: It has been suggested that ladies don't like the "R U free?", "Rates?" or "What's your menu?" text. I completely understand. So if I acknowledge a lady by her SP name and introduce myself with my OP name, I wish not to be called "Hun" or "Babe". Let's treat each other with the same level of respect.
9. Think before dick in hand: I have made some poor in game adjustments when she has my dick in her hand (mouth, etc). Clearly I am at a disadvantage. Of course I want her naked and of course kissing and of course... In the end, I paid an extra $100 for the same amount of time and outcome.
10. Keeping it Legal: This is more of a peace of mind thing in the event I lose my phone or security gets compromised. No email or text has any mention of service, menu or rates. I do my research up front so no surprises. All that I tend to text/emails post introduction are meeting requests and day of confirmations. Nothing that gets communicated is illegal. And clarification is needed, a call leaves less a digital bread crumb, ruling out recording of calls.

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Good post, waiting for 1-10.....

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[Arioch83]

I know that some of you have many more years at hobby than me. And by no means am I an expert. However after successes and failures, triumphs and tribulations, great sessions and epic duds, I have created my own set of Golden Rules that I try to follow when it comes to this hobby. I wish to be clear that these are my rules and some may find some or all stupid. Just sharing mine and curious if anyone wishes to share theirs?

My rules are:

1. Always follow the rating system: I have posted my own personal rating system of expected outcome vs price. It is a rarity to find any young, spinner SP that offers mileage @ 200/hour. I am never disappointed if I stay within the "Swim lane" of each range and sometimes surprised if the session exceeded my expectation.
2. In for the kill and not the chase: I prefer to spend my time and money with ladies that are known and well reported. Tried, tested and true always wins out over the thrill of the hunt.
3. Experience vs drama: I am paying for GFE or PSE session, noting the experience. I need no drama or baggage. Once I get a sense that things are getting complicated, it is time to cull the herd and drop that lady from the rotation.
4. YMMV doesn't work: A lady has all of the power within the SP/MPA and client relationship. However I don't like when there is a range in services offered. If I am looking for PSE that includes DT/FF, that goes in to my selection process and what I plan to pay for. I get that there is the magical connection at times and sometimes it is just meh. Regardless, I am expecting a DT/FF.
5. Never negotiate or haggle: Like movies, SPs are paid in advance for services rendered. A lady's performance may be impacted if 10 minutes before you are haggling for $50. Like that ads states, "Know your limit and stay within it".
6. Client/Vendor relationship: Although ladies never ask, at times gents show up with a special something for a special lady. She is a SP, selling her service (vendor) and I am the person purchasing the service (client). It is an uncommon practice for the client to purchase gifts or meals for the vendor. If a SP is appreciative of a gesture, then my gesture is picking her, not haggling, showing up clean, following her rules, behaving like a gentleman and departing on time.
7. Exclusiveness don't equate to a great session: I don't get the concept of Sugar Daddies from a male PoV. If that's what one is in to, great. Just not me. This applies to the ladies that market themselves to come pre-book, state they are around for a short time, limit their appointments or have outrageous screening or fees. I find this off-putting .
8. Tit for tat: It has been suggested that ladies don't like the "R U free?", "Rates?" or "What's your menu?" text. I completely understand. So if I acknowledge a lady by her SP name and introduce myself with my OP name, I wish not to be called "Hun" or "Babe". Let's treat each other with the same level of respect.
9. Think before dick in hand: I have made some poor in game adjustments when she has my dick in her hand (mouth, etc). Clearly I am at a disadvantage. Of course I want her naked and of course kissing and of course... In the end, I paid an extra $100 for the same amount of time and outcome.
10. Keeping it Legal: This is more of a peace of mind thing in the event I lose my phone or security gets compromised. No email or text has any mention of service, menu or rates. I do my research up front so no surprises. All that I tend to text/emails post introduction are meeting requests and day of confirmations. Nothing that gets communicated is illegal. And clarification is needed, a call leaves less a digital bread crumb, ruling out recording of calls.

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Excellent write up.

The 10 Commandments of Hobbying

 

[newtothis82]

I have one general rule when hobbying:

1. I do whatever the fuck I want, when I want with who I want and don’t give a fuck about etiquette.

Like it or love it lol

 

[Barney_B]

I know that some of you have many more years at hobby than me. And by no means am I an expert. However after successes and failures, triumphs and tribulations, great sessions and epic duds, I have created my own set of Golden Rules that I try to follow when it comes to this hobby. I wish to be clear that these are my rules and some may find some or all stupid. Just sharing mine and curious if anyone wishes to share theirs?

My rules are:

1. Always follow the rating system: I have posted my own personal rating system of expected outcome vs price. It is a rarity to find any young, spinner SP that offers mileage @ 200/hour. I am never disappointed if I stay within the "Swim lane" of each range and sometimes surprised if the session exceeded my expectation.
2. In for the kill and not the chase: I prefer to spend my time and money with ladies that are known and well reported. Tried, tested and true always wins out over the thrill of the hunt.
3. Experience vs drama: I am paying for GFE or PSE session, noting the experience. I need no drama or baggage. Once I get a sense that things are getting complicated, it is time to cull the herd and drop that lady from the rotation.
4. YMMV doesn't work: A lady has all of the power within the SP/MPA and client relationship. However I don't like when there is a range in services offered. If I am looking for PSE that includes DT/FF, that goes in to my selection process and what I plan to pay for. I get that there is the magical connection at times and sometimes it is just meh. Regardless, I am expecting a DT/FF.
5. Never negotiate or haggle: Like movies, SPs are paid in advance for services rendered. A lady's performance may be impacted if 10 minutes before you are haggling for $50. Like that ads states, "Know your limit and stay within it".
6. Client/Vendor relationship: Although ladies never ask, at times gents show up with a special something for a special lady. She is a SP, selling her service (vendor) and I am the person purchasing the service (client). It is an uncommon practice for the client to purchase gifts or meals for the vendor. If a SP is appreciative of a gesture, then my gesture is picking her, not haggling, showing up clean, following her rules, behaving like a gentleman and departing on time.
7. Exclusiveness don't equate to a great session: I don't get the concept of Sugar Daddies from a male PoV. If that's what one is in to, great. Just not me. This applies to the ladies that market themselves to come pre-book, state they are around for a short time, limit their appointments or have outrageous screening or fees. I find this off-putting .
8. Tit for tat: It has been suggested that ladies don't like the "R U free?", "Rates?" or "What's your menu?" text. I completely understand. So if I acknowledge a lady by her SP name and introduce myself with my OP name, I wish not to be called "Hun" or "Babe". Let's treat each other with the same level of respect.
9. Think before dick in hand: I have made some poor in game adjustments when she has my dick in her hand (mouth, etc). Clearly I am at a disadvantage. Of course I want her naked and of course kissing and of course... In the end, I paid an extra $100 for the same amount of time and outcome.
10. Keeping it Legal: This is more of a peace of mind thing in the event I lose my phone or security gets compromised. No email or text has any mention of service, menu or rates. I do my research up front so no surprises. All that I tend to text/emails post introduction are meeting requests and day of confirmations. Nothing that gets communicated is illegal. And clarification is needed, a call leaves less a digital bread crumb, ruling out recording of calls.

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I wish to add another golden rule. NEVER, NEVER, EVER, befriend a PSE escort. I have a few PSE regulars and regretfully, I have created a friendly relationship with one. When the door opens, hugs, kisses and then she starts telling me about her day/week/month, stuff around the hour. By the time the session begins, it is more of a cuddle/GFE than PSE. I can't do what I plan to do to a friend. Can I?

I never noticed this until I visited another regular, who was on her knees, gobbling cock before the door shut. Nothing beyond pleasantries with her.

And I anchor this observation based on my sessions with Cat. After a sound pounding, she settles to talk about sports or the weather before a second shot. Nothing personal. Nothing of interest. Like two guys at a bar, watching tv and talking. NOTHING of value being shared. I've seen Cat many, many times and she behaves more like the second escort than the first.

So rule 11. A PSE is not your girlfriend. Keep the illusion that she is a porn star and only horny for you. Don't establish any rapport beyond sex.

 

[therealcole]

Meh. Just do what you want when you want and how often you want. We don't need no stinking rules.

 

[Pay2Play]

I wish to add another golden rule. NEVER, NEVER, EVER, befriend a PSE escort. I have a few PSE regulars and regretfully, I have created a friendly relationship with one. When the door opens, hugs, kisses and then she starts telling me about her day/week/month, stuff around the hour. By the time the session begins, it is more of a cuddle/GFE than PSE. I can't do what I plan to do to a friend. Can I?

I never noticed this until I visited another regular, who was on her knees, gobbling cock before the door shut. Nothing beyond pleasantries with her.

And I anchor this observation based on my sessions with Cat. After a sound pounding, she settles to talk about sports or the weather before a second shot. Nothing personal. Nothing of interest. Like two guys at a bar, watching tv and talking. NOTHING of value being shared. I've seen Cat many, many times and she behaves more like the second escort than the first.

So rule 11. A PSE is not your girlfriend. Keep the illusion that she is a porn star and only horny for you. Don't establish any rapport beyond sex.

Nice promo asshole.

 

[Barney_B]

Haha, I know "exactly" what you mean. With a couple of my faves, they spend the first 10 minutes or so telling me about their week, the latest spa gossip and even showing me their pictures. Oh well, what am I going to do, they do make up for it in other ways

It is time for me to cull the lady from the herd or at least make her a semi-reg. I work too hard for my money and except the same from her.

 

[Barney_B]

Nice promo asshole.

Wow, that's random. And thank-you for the promo of a promo. Not sure who I am promoting. But then again, thanks for your sage observation.

 

[Barney_B]

Meh. Just do what you want when you want and how often you want. We don't need no stinking rules.

Do what you want and how often you want is a rule. Well, at least I think so.

 

[newtothis82]

Do what you want and how often you want is a rule. Well, at least I think so.

Please refer to post #4

 

[xtc27]

Haha, I know "exactly" what you mean. With a couple of my faves, they spend the first 10 minutes or so telling me about their week, the latest spa gossip and even showing me their pictures. Oh well, what am I going to do, they do make up for it in other ways

Part of GFE foeplay=value-add time

 

[krayjee]

Wow, that's random. And thank-you for the promo of a promo. Not sure who I am promoting. But then again, thanks for your sage observation.

He is a good promoter himself. He helps bumped lots of my threads with his short jabs...

 

[krayjee]

Haha, I know "exactly" what you mean. With a couple of my faves, they spend the first 10 minutes or so telling me about their week, the latest spa gossip and even showing me their pictures. Oh well, what am I going to do, they do make up for it in other ways

Your's is nothing. One of my fave became a close friend with me a few yrs back and one day in the middle of pounding she laughed and told me she felt so funny and weird fucking a friend. That kills my mood and my little guy right away. We never make out any more after that. We are still good friends till now. I become friends with lots of girls where I have been working and had worked and they all refused to play with me..lol.

 

[SumYang_KUM]

Guys! NO RULES! these are all behaviors. Either everything goes or nothing and all between. Suck, lick, fcuk or just relax. It takes two to tango

 

[therealcole]

I know that some of you have many more years at hobby than me. And by no means am I an expert. However after successes and failures, triumphs and tribulations, great sessions and epic duds, I have created my own set of Golden Rules that I try to follow when it comes to this hobby. I wish to be clear that these are my rules and some may find some or all stupid. Just sharing mine and curious if anyone wishes to share theirs?

My rules are:

1. Always follow the rating system: I have posted my own personal rating system of expected outcome vs price. It is a rarity to find any young, spinner SP that offers mileage @ 200/hour. I am never disappointed if I stay within the "Swim lane" of each range and sometimes surprised if the session exceeded my expectation.
2. In for the kill and not the chase: I prefer to spend my time and money with ladies that are known and well reported. Tried, tested and true always wins out over the thrill of the hunt.
3. Experience vs drama: I am paying for GFE or PSE session, noting the experience. I need no drama or baggage. Once I get a sense that things are getting complicated, it is time to cull the herd and drop that lady from the rotation.
4. YMMV doesn't work: A lady has all of the power within the SP/MPA and client relationship. However I don't like when there is a range in services offered. If I am looking for PSE that includes DT/FF, that goes in to my selection process and what I plan to pay for. I get that there is the magical connection at times and sometimes it is just meh. Regardless, I am expecting a DT/FF.
5. Never negotiate or haggle: Like movies, SPs are paid in advance for services rendered. A lady's performance may be impacted if 10 minutes before you are haggling for $50. Like that ads states, "Know your limit and stay within it".
6. Client/Vendor relationship: Although ladies never ask, at times gents show up with a special something for a special lady. She is a SP, selling her service (vendor) and I am the person purchasing the service (client). It is an uncommon practice for the client to purchase gifts or meals for the vendor. If a SP is appreciative of a gesture, then my gesture is picking her, not haggling, showing up clean, following her rules, behaving like a gentleman and departing on time.
7. Exclusiveness don't equate to a great session: I don't get the concept of Sugar Daddies from a male PoV. If that's what one is in to, great. Just not me. This applies to the ladies that market themselves to come pre-book, state they are around for a short time, limit their appointments or have outrageous screening or fees. I find this off-putting .
8. Tit for tat: It has been suggested that ladies don't like the "R U free?", "Rates?" or "What's your menu?" text. I completely understand. So if I acknowledge a lady by her SP name and introduce myself with my OP name, I wish not to be called "Hun" or "Babe". Let's treat each other with the same level of respect.
9. Think before dick in hand: I have made some poor in game adjustments when she has my dick in her hand (mouth, etc). Clearly I am at a disadvantage. Of course I want her naked and of course kissing and of course... In the end, I paid an extra $100 for the same amount of time and outcome.
10. Keeping it Legal: This is more of a peace of mind thing in the event I lose my phone or security gets compromised. No email or text has any mention of service, menu or rates. I do my research up front so no surprises. All that I tend to text/emails post introduction are meeting requests and day of confirmations. Nothing that gets communicated is illegal. And clarification is needed, a call leaves less a digital bread crumb, ruling out recording of calls.

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I just go and have fun. Seems kind of anal to have some type of lame ass list. You should make version for your phone and send it out to the girls before you see them. Let them know what your demands and standards are. I am sure that your are the perfect client to them. They probably pay you because you make them up their game.
On behalf of everyone here I would like to thank you for blessing us with your list and forcing the girls to up their game. We all win with your dedication and thoroughness.
Wanker.

 

[cupcrazy]

Never give your number to mpa. Depends on how desperate she is, she will flood you will texts asking why you havent visit her for a long time

 

[Pay2Play]

Never give your number to mpa. Depends on how desperate she is, she will flood you will texts asking why you havent visit her for a long time

You must frequent less desirable lady’s. The good ones don’t need to self market. Expand your horizons.

 

[Pay2Play]

Where on earth is Barney_B these days?

 

[cupcrazy]

I’m texting 3 faves as we speak. they all want to know wheni come see them. And one did a face chat which surprised me. She looked great in regular street clothes.

I am surprise they face chat you. technically you can download their face images via screenshots