How do you ask for extras?

[shitforbrains]

Some girls go right for it without asking (love it!)
Others (who I know do extras) are either YMMV or maybe they want you to ask for it. Because I often don't get extras from these girls..

 

[BBlurker2018]

Stop being a pussy and ask if they want to fuck.
I have never been turned down being straight with these bitches.

 

[JaimeWolf]

Some girls go right for it without asking (love it!)
Others (who I know do extras) are either YMMV or maybe they want you to ask for it. Because I often don't get extras from these girls..

Just ask.
"Do you do extras?"
"Do you do blowjobs?"
"Do you do full service?"
"How much?"

Ask at the beginning of the session and you can even choose to see a different girl if she doesn't offer a wide enough menu.

The girls are professionals and will be very comfortable telling you about their menu of services and pricing. It only gets uncomfortable if they say no to certain services and you keep pressuring them, or if you try to bargain down the price.

 

[freewilly416]

Fair question.

I find it a bit weird to ask for extras - I have only asked once and the girl said next time.

If I’m in the mood for more than a rub and tug I’ve decided to forgo the MP and go to SP. About the same cost - less hassle since we know why I’m there in the first place.

 

[snoopdoggie]

I read a tip someone wrote on here a while back. He said he leaves a few red bills or a stack of greens on the table next to his keys. If the mpa notices it, she's more likely to offer a wide menu. So I tried this method, and I think it works. One mpa actually said to me during the session, "Oh, if I noticed earlier that you had left some money on the table, I would have offered you fs right away." So it goes to show you, money talks, even if you don't say a word.

 

[GordianKnot]

I read a tip someone wrote on here a while back. He said he leaves a few red bills or a stack of greens on the table next to his keys. If the mpa notices it, she's more likely to offer a wide menu. So I tried this method, and I think it works. One mpa actually said to me during the session, "Oh, if I noticed earlier that you had left some money on the table, I would have offered you fs right away." So it goes to show you, money talks, even if you don't say a word.

That tip was by me (you are welcome )

Has worked like a charm for me all these years. A wad of dollar bills never goes unnoticed. The offer for extras keep pouring in. Cash rules, period.
But, don't get carried away, remember its a prop. so i stick to the 20 bucks for enthusiastic within limits sessions. and 50/100 for other acronyms.

 

[Sethman]

Be polite and a gentleman to begin with. Read her body language and listen to her; But be firm and take the lead if you can. These girls are pros in reading men so talk less and and get to the point. Above everything else don't treat her like a piece of merchandise you just bought.

If you make it fun and easy for her, she will likely respond better. Money is the language she understands better so act like you have money and never bargain.

Initiate but never ask. Like, don't ask if you can kiss her as she most probably say no because she is programmed to say no. So try gently and if you get rejected don't overreact it is just a game.

Some of the pros will ask u if you want extras so don't say ok right away because she will upcharge you.

Since every girl, every situation is different and most of these girls have mood swings, sometimes you get lucky if she is horny and other times you strikeout because she doesn't feel like it.

Generally, money will solve most of your problem but you need to learn how to use it wisely when it comes to this hobby or it will run out quickly.

Some of the sp girls are very hot and you may not get a chance to fuck them even after offering money. As your competition is the other moron that walks in there every minute by the hour, dress properly, be clean and try to smell good; money is no substitute for class.

In the end if everything else fails you, and you really want to fuck her, just offer her some money and once she agrees, negotiate your ass off upto the point where you can bare the after fuck regrets.

 

[rhuarc]

I find it a bit weird to ask for extras - I have only asked once and the girl said next time.

I also find it weird to straight up ask. I've done it a few times, but it always feels wrong. I prefer to work it into the flow of things. Say, you're going down on her...you could joke about her owing you one or returning the favour. Most MPAs get what you're after at that point. That particular example works quite well, in my personal experience, probably because getting eaten out tends to put women in a good mood! lol

Dropping hints is far less abrasive than asking outright. Like Sethman says, it's a game.

 

[Rhillguy]

Hey all, I am also wondering what semi legits and spa's offer more than just HE. I used to go to full service a lot but now i like the semi's preferably Just Relax and I can't remember the name of the other one lol. But I'm wondering if any of them offer BJ etc. I have had good experiences at JR and a few others I found from this forum and to give you an idea i'm 27 average size and I like hot girls dont we all.

 

[snoopdoggie]

That tip was by me (you are welcome )

Has worked like a charm for me all these years. A wad of dollar bills never goes unnoticed. The offer for extras keep pouring in. Cash rules, period.
But, don't get carried away, remember its a prop. so i stick to the 20 bucks for enthusiastic within limits sessions. and 50/100 for other acronyms.

Hey thanks. That trick worked for me the first time I tried it. How many 20s do you put on the table? I'll do it again. I'll put about 10 out and fold them in half with an elastic. It will look bigger that way.

 

[Sybarite]

Good advice in general Sethman, although this was a little confusing...

never bargain.

just offer her some money and once she agrees, negotiate your ass off upto the point where you can bare the after fuck regrets.

 

[ApoloniaFan]

Thanks for the info, guys. Newbie just getting into the hobby in Toronto (aiming to hit one of the Premier spas first, probably Studio 9 given my tastes ... see my intro here) ... more interested to know if a HJ/HE is included usually in the basic door + rate price. Confused about that aspect of the hobby, although trying to learn. Assuming LFK/DFK is part of extras offered? Thanks.

 

[freewilly416]

Thanks for the info, guys. Newbie just getting into the hobby in Toronto (aiming to hit one of the Premier spas first, probably Studio 9 given my tastes ... see my intro here) ... more interested to know if a HJ/HE is included usually in the basic door + rate price. Confused about that aspect of the hobby, although trying to learn. Assuming LFK/DFK is part of extras offered? Thanks.

If you’re going to a Premier spas - HE/HJ is bare minimum as to whats included. No need to ask for those. In my experience, most of the girls will give BBBJ without even asking. I tip generously, at least $50 if I walk away happy with the service. FS is not included or should be expected. I personally don’t partake in MP FS - seems that is better served by a full service provider.

 

[ApoloniaFan]

Thanks for the information! I hope to see one of the Premier attendants next weekend.

 

[fsmassage]

I usually just tell the girl that I'm looking for more fun.

 

[Robert N]

Thanks for the information! I hope to see one of the Premier attendants next weekend.

Good luck with that.

 

[JaimeWolf]

Thanks for the info, guys. Newbie just getting into the hobby in Toronto (aiming to hit one of the Premier spas first, probably Studio 9 given my tastes ... see my intro here) ... more interested to know if a HJ/HE is included usually in the basic door + rate price. Confused about that aspect of the hobby, although trying to learn. Assuming LFK/DFK is part of extras offered? Thanks.

At Premier, the "inclusive" rate includes bodyslide and HJ. Kissing usually doesn't cost extra - some girls kiss, some don't at all, some are selective.

 

[Robert N]

At Premier, the "inclusive" rate includes bodyslide and HJ. Kissing usually doesn't cost extra - some girls kiss, some don't at all, some are selective.

I don't think anyone at anywhere charges extra for the kissing.

 

[Sybarite]

I don't think anyone at anywhere charges extra for the kissing.

I used to think the exact same thing, but I was mistaken. Sweet Baby Jamie, for example, considers kissing to be a paid extra.

http://massageplanet.net/sweet-baby-jamie-looks-sexy.t148560/page-4

It does not include dfk. Thay is a extra service some MP’s provide

 

[sweetbabyjamie]

I used to think the exact same thing, but I was mistaken. Sweet Baby Jamie, for example, considers kissing to be a paid extra.

http://massageplanet.net/sweet-baby-jamie-looks-sexy.t148560/page-4

Kissing is included in my GFE service I provide. I don’t kiss everyone because if we are going to be engaging in GFE type things I would expect us both to be using mouthwash and being transparent & on the same page. I offer extras at sunshine spa due to the fact of sunshine spas VIP service is very standard and minimal. For those who wish for something a little more intimate they can opt for gfe type services. .

I provide gfe services with no additional charge with my Allegera rates at my incall however it is a higher rate.

And regarding the questions on this post on how to poleitly ask a MP or someone for extras. I feel like a MP who knows what she’s doing would already ask, So their is transparency and no hidden agendas and so that they both are aware for what is coming. Nothing worse then being super horny and wanting one thing and not getting it. However with that being said their are MP’s who don’t care to ask about what you would like, in that case I would suggest JamieeWolfs suggestion of asking those questions right at the beginning because if it is the beggining of the session you certainly can opt out and chose another girl if she is not offering the services you are looking for!