How do you stop guys on dating sites chatting u up & promising u the world...

[Cienna Clarke]

...,then turn into someone their not?s? I was recently on Facebook & I ended up on a dating site which I logged into by mistake via a pop down, my picture had already been loaded & I started to receive hits but mostly from US military including a Colonel & a Captain! I chatted to the Captain & he was more charming then prince charming!
How quickly smitten I became with his beautiful words were truly captivating me & I was caught,hook,line & sinker,I did have some reservations as he truly was too good to be true! All this happened in the space of a week & I felt as though I'd known him for years!
I can honestly say I was close to falling in love with him & it felt great However I still had the niggle at the back of my mind all wasn't what it seemed!
After having an extensive chat with him one evening he seemed quite moody & cold, he proceeded to log off for half an hour to calm down, I didn't expect to see hear from him again given his mood & that we had argued! I felt lost distraught & betrayed
Exactly 30 mins after he said he'd be back he logged on, well how happy was I & his mood had certainly improved,we chatted for a while then he queried a name I was using on my mail box, I explained I had triplets 3months early & one of my girls had passed away causing me to deliver all 3 babies prematurely, we named my daughter that died the name of my mail box!
All this seemed to go over his head as I had expected him to feel bad & offer me compassion, he said he had to go to work, so he clearly didn't care about me or the loss of of my baby, I was extremely shocked said a quick goodbye & logged off before him! I then received an email from the dating site with a keen contact, I decided to delete myself & just forget any of this happened it had all been a waste time .
I logged in & to my surprise my man was online browsing & had been there since he supposedly logged off for work! I was furious, not only was he leading me on but he was searching for more victims I also just realised he may also be married with children & he was possibly cheating on her too!

I'am not sure how to stop guys doing this to vulnerable women, particularly single mums, what right do they have to take our hearts fill them with hope, love & false dreams only to be stringing along several other unsuspecting women, this type of behaviour can possibly lead a women to have suicidal tendencies particularly if they are just recovering from a broken heart in which they had attempted suicide!

Not only that but someone in a high ranking position in society who should know better,I'am still at a loss how he gets away with it & doesn't feel any compassion for the women & how he has hurt & possibly scarred them!

I plan to report him to the dating site & also his superiors,Ive even noticed a Colonel on the same site so perhaps I should inform him too & have a higher rank aware of what their soldiers are doing!

THANK U, any in put will be valuble.