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Saw Kassondra Jordan's ad on craigslist a while back "Tantra / Deep Massage" and decided to check her out. There are several people on CL who offer this type of service (Katrine for eg) who have actually trained in erotic massage at Osho's ashram/ centre in india. So this would be my first time with someone who had actually taken the trouble to get training in this area.
It was pretty easy to set up a date (email [email protected]). She's located in yaletown in a small apartment. However, I think she lives outside of vancouver so you have to look for her ads (or email her) to see when she's here.
She actually looked better but older than her pics on craigslist. She has a deep tan and alot of laugh lines which give her a wise appearance. She's in amazing shape for someone who is in her 40s. Rather petite with a beautiful face.
The damage was $$ for 90 min. Contact during the massage was limited but the massage / release included "male g-spot" (ie prostate) massage. Ok, I'll admit prostate massage is a guilty pleasure. Its not painful at all and seems to have an interesting emotional effect on me. I hadn't had this service in a long time so I thought it would be worth trying out.
Kassondra gives a great, very physical, massage which relies heavily on lomi-lomi (hawaiian style using forearms). She's super strong so she can get to many places that other masseuses can't. The massage included a full body slide which was interesting. She was a bit stubbly which was distracting but I still enjoyed it.
One thing that was different about this session is that there was hardly any chit-chat or talking. Instead I breathed deeply and focused on feelings and sensations. She seemed to be able to tell when I was paying attention or not. I think I overdid the deep breathing as I had pins and needles sensations (from too much oxygen). However, I held my breath for a bit and they went away.
On the flip she continued with the full body massage leading up to hand stimulation to get me fired up. She has extensive training in dance so it wasn't like your run of the mill r&t hj. However, I was having difficulty getting hard so we went on to the "male g-spot" massage (done gloved). Her technique felt great. She used 3 or 4 different techniques including "vibrating" her finger. She seemed to get into this part of the massage and even incorporated sound (humming) as she worked on me.
However, the most interesting part of the session was my reaction to the prostate massage. I experienced what Wilhelm Reich called the "orgasm reflex." Its basically an involuntary body wave. It wasn't scary as I'd heard of this happening before (tho not from prostate massage specifically). When that peaked I also had an emotional release as well. I'm reluctant to say "tears" although that was involved because it wasn't painful or sad. If anything the exact opposite. Its almost as if a weight is lifted off of you emotionally - at least temporarily. Kassondra was great throughout this and stayed with me.
The other interesting thing was that when I was getting the prostate massage I looked up to see what she was doing and noticed that she's totally pumped. Huge biceps, huge chest muscles. That was a definite turn on and not what I expected from such a petite woman. I asked her after how she got so built up, was she a body builder? She said that she did "scarf dancing" (where they do mid-air dance not unlike cirque du soleil) which requires a great deal of upper body strength.
The session, once I was finished my second shower, was well over the 90 min mark (probably getting warm on 2 hr).
My only complaint was that it wasn't interactive which definitely affected my ability to get aroused. Nevertheless Kassondra was very professional and delivered as promised. She offers a more interactive session for $$.5 only to those who have already done a previous session with her.
I may repeat in a while. It takes time to digest an intense experience like that and anyway I'm taking a break.
L 7.5-8
A 9
S you'll love it if you like prostate massage, but contact is limited in the first session.
Other reference: Secrets of Western Tantra, particularly the preliminary exercises in Chapter 6. I've used these before and they really do work provided you follow the instructions faithfully.
It was pretty easy to set up a date (email [email protected]). She's located in yaletown in a small apartment. However, I think she lives outside of vancouver so you have to look for her ads (or email her) to see when she's here.
She actually looked better but older than her pics on craigslist. She has a deep tan and alot of laugh lines which give her a wise appearance. She's in amazing shape for someone who is in her 40s. Rather petite with a beautiful face.
The damage was $$ for 90 min. Contact during the massage was limited but the massage / release included "male g-spot" (ie prostate) massage. Ok, I'll admit prostate massage is a guilty pleasure. Its not painful at all and seems to have an interesting emotional effect on me. I hadn't had this service in a long time so I thought it would be worth trying out.
Kassondra gives a great, very physical, massage which relies heavily on lomi-lomi (hawaiian style using forearms). She's super strong so she can get to many places that other masseuses can't. The massage included a full body slide which was interesting. She was a bit stubbly which was distracting but I still enjoyed it.
One thing that was different about this session is that there was hardly any chit-chat or talking. Instead I breathed deeply and focused on feelings and sensations. She seemed to be able to tell when I was paying attention or not. I think I overdid the deep breathing as I had pins and needles sensations (from too much oxygen). However, I held my breath for a bit and they went away.
On the flip she continued with the full body massage leading up to hand stimulation to get me fired up. She has extensive training in dance so it wasn't like your run of the mill r&t hj. However, I was having difficulty getting hard so we went on to the "male g-spot" massage (done gloved). Her technique felt great. She used 3 or 4 different techniques including "vibrating" her finger. She seemed to get into this part of the massage and even incorporated sound (humming) as she worked on me.
However, the most interesting part of the session was my reaction to the prostate massage. I experienced what Wilhelm Reich called the "orgasm reflex." Its basically an involuntary body wave. It wasn't scary as I'd heard of this happening before (tho not from prostate massage specifically). When that peaked I also had an emotional release as well. I'm reluctant to say "tears" although that was involved because it wasn't painful or sad. If anything the exact opposite. Its almost as if a weight is lifted off of you emotionally - at least temporarily. Kassondra was great throughout this and stayed with me.
The other interesting thing was that when I was getting the prostate massage I looked up to see what she was doing and noticed that she's totally pumped. Huge biceps, huge chest muscles. That was a definite turn on and not what I expected from such a petite woman. I asked her after how she got so built up, was she a body builder? She said that she did "scarf dancing" (where they do mid-air dance not unlike cirque du soleil) which requires a great deal of upper body strength.
The session, once I was finished my second shower, was well over the 90 min mark (probably getting warm on 2 hr).
My only complaint was that it wasn't interactive which definitely affected my ability to get aroused. Nevertheless Kassondra was very professional and delivered as promised. She offers a more interactive session for $$.5 only to those who have already done a previous session with her.
I may repeat in a while. It takes time to digest an intense experience like that and anyway I'm taking a break.
L 7.5-8
A 9
S you'll love it if you like prostate massage, but contact is limited in the first session.
Other reference: Secrets of Western Tantra, particularly the preliminary exercises in Chapter 6. I've used these before and they really do work provided you follow the instructions faithfully.