I can tell you just about anything you want to know about transsexuals in Nuevo Laredo boys town. I used to go there a lot, almost every week because of work (trucking), for years. I haven't been recently, and only a couple of times in the past several years, but things haven't changed much.
Now, I am a ladies man, I love the girls, but here's how I crossed the line. I went into a bar, the old Dallas Cowboys, that I thought was mostly women, with a few transies, something that I was used to being around because of their presence and prevalence in bars in the far east when I was in the Navy.
Nowadays, I think the bar is called the Western, but just walk around to various bars on the back streets and you will find what you're looking for if you have the eye for it...I could mark a map and post it, but I'm not current. I am thinking about driving down soon from Dallas, anyone want to share gas?? I have taken many newbie truckers across; so if you've never been it's a good chance for you. I will post updated info if anyone wants it when I get back.
Anyway, I was more naive than I thought I was, because it gradually dawned on me after observation that night that there were less women and more trans than I originally thought. But I stayed because I was in the midst of some really friendly, fun loving, and interesting people. I found many trans to be intelligent, opinionated, interesting, and usually very good natured and good hearted.
Now, were not talking about some fucking hairy guy with a wig. Were talking about delicate little things that never would have made a decent man anyway, who are female in their brains, live as women full time, take hormones for breast growth, and love to be with stinky men like you and me. They come in various shapes and sizes, but I'm only interested in the ones that could pass for a woman in any situation.
I was having a real good time, drinking and talking to the girls in English and Spanish, buying a few drinks and soft tacos from a vendor who came in, watching the "floor show" as it was weekend, and generally passing a very pleasant evening. As time passed, it became evident thru more observation and conversation that there was only one real woman in the whole fucking bar...but many there were completely passable, no matter how sharp you think your eyes are. Unbelievable but true.
Well, I ended up staying all night and into the next day with a couple of very attentive beauties. I think I did it because I have always flaunted the rules of society, if not the law. Next time I went down, I went back to the same bar and passed another great evening talking and joking and laughing and drinking, in the low-rent surroundings that I love, with the same friendly and attractive bunch of "girls".
Later, back in a girl's private room, I broke out several bottles of various liquors from a handmade leather bag I had also purchased along the way to boy's town, and many of the ladies snuck back to my companion's room on the quiet by ones and twos, had a few shots, and showed me their charms as well as the top of their heads, if you know what I mean and I think you do. It was like everyone wanted to kiss the Blarney Stone. The word spread up front and everyone wanted a shot and a suck. I was a popular boy on a slow night. What can I say, it's a gross understatement to say that I had a roaring good time...I had a fucking great time that I'll never forget.
Afterwards, it was whatever I was in the mood for...girls one trip and trans the next, or maybe both on the same night. Let me tell you, I always liked to hit girls in the back door, and what's the difference, really. Except the bj's are usually better from someone who understands perfectly what to do. Anyway, if you use a condom you haven't touched anything anyway, it "didn't happen", so it's just the idea that bugs some people. Who cares?
Like many who do it with transies, including probably the originator of this thread, it's less a "why" and more of a "why not". Get 'er done!!
The beauty and the femininity are there to trip your trigger, plus the charge of doing something that is "so wrong". It's more of a change of pace for me, and a matter of opportunity. May I also say that, at least in the 90's, it was also about half or less as expensive as the girls in the better bars, and a better bet than those dismal door girls with their shitty attitudes.
Anyway, that's it. I could have gone into a lot more detail about the fun times I had and will have with both girls and transies, but I'll save it for another time.