there seems to be many a thread containing the unending debate over who is an MP and who is an SP and whether the twain can meet. The purist school seems to hold that anything beyond a hand-release equals a ho in massuese clothing. As part of The liberal interpretation crowd, I've got other ideas.
Personally, I've always liked a good bj after a massage and that is what i seek... the thing is, I hate being short-changed on the massage. For me (and for many otheres, i suspect) its all about finding that perfect combo.
i like the way you state that....i feel the exact same way!