I think a lot of it too is that women love power, and every aspect of this industry can link them to more power if done right with the right people.
Having connections with multiple men likely allows them to feel all different forms of power.
Some men are really mentally tough.
Other men are rich.
Then there's guys who are naturally funny, and can make people laugh easily.
Men who are gentle, and quiet.
There are those that are physical specimens that can probably fuck them with piston powered pipe laying cocks when the rich guy above can't even get an erection.
^ and more, these are all traits that men have that we cannot appreciate in other men, because that shit is gay for most straight men, but women do appreciate that variety more easily, and we should be grateful for that truth in some ways.
One thing that I experienced with an EX from about 4 years ago is she would constantly hold me up to her other ex's and compare what was better about me, and what they did better then me,
I think both men, and women do this - but she was brazen enough to tell me directly about it, and she did it often enough for it to become annoying enough to be a factor toward breaking up, and moving on.
While some of her judgement was unfair, she was right about some other things too, and this allowed me to work on myself in those area's so I would feel less weak with the next ones.
So I'm grateful to her even though in some ways it was extremely insulting, and relationship ruining to be compared to other people as if I were just an asset when I am an existence, and try to treat others as such, but if the other person is more about money that sentiment will always ride back seat, and it will offend, and hurt you- if the other person can't see this, and you've tried to show it to them, give up.
(Most of my weakness came from not having enough money by the way, once I fixed the problems around that I had less problems shocker I know.)
^ to not have to be in a relationship with someone who judges me, and to go fuck whoever will fuck me back, and then leave is pure freedom compare to her anyway, I actually LOVE this- TAKE MY MONEY^
I think what a lot of women who get sucked in deeply to this industry by choice are more addicted to experiencing all the different individual power that every man has, which will give a different expression of 'love'& lust each time.
They love the money, there's no question about that, but they also love male power traits, and seeing what traits they can rule over, or break, and if a woman can break a trait you think is dear to you, it was probably a weakness, and you should show gratitude to her for exposing your fallacy to you,
It's a miniature soap opera for the guy, and probably the full blown season for the women who already love soap operas to begin with :')
Some are just bitches, and awful people yes, but others will teach you about yourself if you are willing to reflect after it well over, and you are no longer deluded by "love" or "hate"
There's nothing wrong with loving an MPA.
There's probably at least 4 that I can think of that I have feelings of love for - all for different reasons too.
One gives me the best massage I've ever had that I feel up to 3 days after I leave - there is nothing other then that between us - she's god damn beautiful, but I have no attraction to her what so ever probably because she's not putting that energy out there toward me, and I don't feel that pressure toward her - over all she is my favourite person.
One knows how to seduce me perfectly - she knows exactly what to do to flip the switches, and turn the mood on - I think about this person all the time - but this is also kind of annoying to me and makes me like them less oddly enough.
One lets me massage her back- it's important to me to be good at massage, and I have no one to practice on, so I'm glad I get to rub someone, and return love that I have learned through receiving I feel very connected to this person despite not being very romantically attracted to them, but it's easy to tell we both really enjoy massage.
One talks to me about things, and sometimes asks me things I would of never thought about even once unless I had met them -I almost never see this person because I prefer the best massage I can get, but I appreciate this person a lot as I don't care to talk to many people.
What is important is to not deluding yourself into thinking they are a "solution" to your life, or mating/partnership crisis.
If you treat them as an individual they will respond to you in their own way - so men are doing it too, and it's fun to experience.
If people have power they will almost always seek to use that power unless they have trained themselves to not, which can be attractive, but also perceived by others as weak.
If you've lived past grade 6 you're already damaged goods - everyone is fucked up in some fashion, it's better to not label people that way, and try to encourage what you love about them so they'll do that thing more - I encourage you to tell the person massaging you what feels good, and to thank them a lot while they're doing it in your kindest voice.
They will work way harder for you if they know you genuinely mean it, people aren't stupid, but if you treat them like they are they will be.
I wish I could go see one of the one's that I love right now - I really want the lock down to be over sooner, or for business's to some how consolidate against this oppression - so many people are forced to be unhappy right now, and I don't feel like that should stand.
Life is just way less worth living during all of this, especially when there is someone you specifically WANT to see.
Winter is already a depressing enough thing as it is, I genuinely can't believe the state we are all currently living in, and to those that are worse off mentally then I am:
Find something to distract yourself with.