MPAs dating clients.

[Ashton L]

Just thinking back about a relationship I had with an MPA years ago and about NYE and his brave attempt to win Sarah's heart.

NYE, I know that you had a difficult time after being turned down by Sarah. Most of us have been through this before and I empathise with your hardship.

What about the MPAs? My ex did not have fun when we broke up in the end. Hearing of other massageplanet.netites dating MPAs from time to time, it makes me think that MPAs are human too, and they have their hearts broken by men. There must be insecurities from meeting a guy from their workplace. Worries and doubts are common and in the end, (unless you are still together) your heart is broken.

For all you nice girls out there that took a chance with assholes like me, I appologize. And please know that we aren't totally heartless, just human.

I wonder what goes through your minds regarding relationships with cliets.

We need some replys from MPAs. Let us hear your side of the story.

 

[nadia ? ...xx]

These girls are as human as anyone else.
If the only guys they meet are on their massage tables, then the chances are that a temporary "Mr Right" will come along.

I've also had some terrific relationships that stem from these meetings, and have never regretted them for an instance.

Remember, that getting that close to someone so early any relationship tends to lead to an overheated, even firey time for both parties. They can burn bright for a time, but after the smoke clears, so do some of the illusions.

 

[Jizzflakes Jr.]

I was passing through B.C. once and while I stayed in a Kelowna hotel I got bored and called an agency. The girl they sent me was very cute, young and had just started in the business. She didnt only like me but hopped in the car with me and we wound up spending 2 weeks in Vancouver together. A really cool girl, easygoing and very adventurous. She then decided that she wanted to come back to Toronto with me and maybe strip here or work as an escort. While driving back to Toronto somewhere in the middle of the prairies we got into a huge fight and I thought to myself maybe I should just kick her out in Winnipeg?? Cooler heads prevailed however, and we wound up dating for a few weeks when we got back to T.O. All in all I found it very hard to really fall in love with a girl that has this lifestyle. This was a few years ago and I havent seen her since and its probably for the better.

 

[BiancaC]

flyingdn, thank you for the support. I must admit that it's been harder than I thought, since Sarah turned down my invitation to become my everything. I'm just now starting to feel back to my old amorous self.

I plan on returning to HFH sometime next week, in hopes of finding love with another one of the beautiful young women that work there. Based on the pictures, I find myself leaning towards a romantic hour of blissful bodysliding with Natasha.

I just hope she's the quiet type who enjoys spending a quiet night in listening to the likes of Doris Day, Nat King Cole, etc.


Gentlemen, let's hope second time is a charm for the erotic Eggy.

 

[Pompal 09.]

I think a lot of the MPA's that work in a spa are good friends, and if you started to date a particular MPA, they would find it weird, especially if they knew that you had sessions with their good friends. Also, it would be tough to find that chemistry right off the bat.

Then again, what the hell. If two people meet, and they end up having great chemistry, then what is the big deal? Sure, you may have had some sessions at the spa with other girls, but she has been an employee there, so in reality, any perceived "no no's" would apply to both people. Any possible relationship should focus on the future, and not what happened in the past.

 

[allenrubink]

Most MPAs will never date a client
because going out with them could cause them loss
of income potentially. If they lead them on it is because
they need to keep them coming back for their handsome
tipping. I doubt such tactic has much to do with being
a control freak.

Being not a MPA I hope my view is nonetheless more accurate than yours. Those I've seen are the emotionally honest type. One of them even sternly reject my proposal
to make her my mistress outright instead of leading me on.

 

[pinky]

NYE bro, don't look for love. You'll never find it while you are looking.
Look back to your youth when you went out to the malls to check out girls. They never give you any hint of interest when you are out looking. But when you are out with your Mom or your Girlfriend, they always check you out.
MPs especially are not a good place to look for love. It's a good place to look for lust.

Miss Triss. Thank you so much for your input. I wasn't sure If I was going to get any responses from the ladies. But don't you think that most women in general (even if they are not an MPA) will gladly lead you on (ie: mind fuck) you, just to get the control freak part of them out. Also 98% of us clients are working just for the $$
I guess my purpose in posting this thread was so that we can look at MPAs with a humanistic perspective. As tough as they appear, they can be more fragile inside than other women just because they have to give that much more to get into a relationship. Maybe I'm just a softy but when I read stories of clients who dated MPAs I think how difficult it must have been for the ladies to give that emotional part of themselves to a client.
The one I dated had a difficult time when we broke up (more than my other relationships) and that has given me more respect towards MPAs and their feelings. And maybe a bit more guilt.

Don't date MPAs if you can help it, and if by chance you do, appreciate the fact that they are taking a bigger chance than you.

 

[Elijah]

Guy's in the end you have to remember that this whole thing is just a game. If you play the game right the girl goes out with you and you can see what she is really like (there are always two different personalities, one for inside the room and one for outside of work). If you still like each other after she dropps her guard then great, if not then you have to move on.

For me I always set personal tests. If a girl gives you her phone number or email address, try to contact them three or four times (but not in the same day I'm talking over the course of a couple of weeks). If they don't reply then move on. This works the best with email and has never let me down. After all how hard is it to hit the reply button and say I got your email thank you?

If you don't move on then your caught in their trap. After all why should they call, etc when they say that they will when they now know that you'll keep coming back no matter what......

As I said it's just a game.......

 

[Negeshia]

I honestly can't believe guys who "fall in love" with an MPA. This seems crazy to me.

The reference above to "playing a game" applies to all of us, including the MPA's. The more they act like they like you, the better chance of you returning and them getting more of your $$$. That's it.

I remember that HumbleD guy who fell in love with Tarah... it happens way too often. I do believe that it could be possible for a client and MPA to fall in love - of course, anything is possible - but I would imagine the signals would be pretty clear if that were the case.

As for NYE... I've been of the impression all along that he has been joking about his obsession, supported by the fact that he intends to find someone else to fall in love with at HFH based on their pictures. I took it all with a grain of salt, similar to the threads by Ref and Rusty that are clearly in jest (and normally VERY funny). Am I wrong, or do the guys who are responding with advice just not see it???

 

[bradley]

For the MPA, it's all about security, being with a guy in the "normal" world (i.e. non sex-trade-related), and probably good sex as well if she's attracted to him. If the sex was not good with the MPA, the guy would have gone to the next MPA.

Let's face it, like one female MP owner said, "Guys get horny and want to get their rocks off by sexy women." Guys think about sex at least 10 times more often than women.

 

[Donta]

I've been going out with an ex-MPA for some 6 months now.
She was relatively well-known on this board, but quit work
last year. Sometime after that, we started up our
relationship. I would say that both are very happy with it,
and their have been discssions of kids/marriage.

I don't worry about her past, and that is actually the
only topic that she never wants to discuss.

In my mind, what happened before was in the past, as long
as it stays there.

 

[WindMiller]

Congrats montrealvisitor. It looks like you have the right attitude.

This is what I am talking about. I hope guys out there are not looking for a relationship when they walk into a MP, but if it happens, consider the feelings of the MPA. They have more to be insecure about and more to lose.

I started this thread because I was thinking about my past relationship with an MPA and remembering how hurt she was when we broke up. And now that time has passed, I realize how difficult it was for her to start a relationship with me.

BTY it had nothing to do with her work, I was just an asshole in the boyfriend kind of way.

 

[johnny1]

any mp will tell you that dating clients is a risk, they normally end up wanting you to quit, or get jealous. There are girls who wil use clients as well... There are girls i know who have dated clients and ended up happily married to them. So i guess you date at your own risk. But don't get angry if it doesn't work out. You should know the risks.....

 

[LittleCarrot]

I think a lot of the MPA's that work in a spa are good friends, and if you started to date a particular MPA, they would find it weird, especially if they knew that you had sessions with their good friends. Also, it would be tough to find that chemistry right off the bat.

Then again, what the hell. If two people meet, and they end up having great chemistry, then what is the big deal? Sure, you may have had some sessions at the spa with other girls, but she has been an employee there, so in reality, any perceived "no no's" would apply to both people. Any possible relationship should focus on the future, and not what happened in the past.

"Then again, what the hell. If two people meet, and they end up having great chemistry, then what is the big deal? "

wise words man.. yeah my dad said something similar "love just happens between two people, there are no explanations, just take it a go"

 

[Whitesnake1987]

There that little thing about her sucking and fucking any random dude that comes off the street for a few dollars.

These chicks are fucked up in the head.

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[cupcrazy]

if you met your mpa girl friend outside of the spa, it may work. However there will be a lot of trust issues

 

[WhacksOnWhacksOff]

What's with all these necrobumps recently?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

What's with all these necrobumps recently?

Very creative, did you make up that term?

 

[Old No. 7]

Very creative, did you make up that term?

That term has been around for ages.

 

[Sybarite]

There that little thing about her sucking and fucking any random dude that comes off the street for a few dollars.

These chicks are fucked up in the head.

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And yet here you are... every day. Obsessed with these women who disgust you.

Since that's the way you feel, who is truly fucked in the head?