My little sisters teen babysitter massages her nude, skinny dips with her, and...

[Sharon]

...my mom thinks this is okay Help? I want your alls opinions. My 5 year old sister loves to be massaged by her 17 year old (male) babysitter who I will call "Norm". He takes her clothes off her when he massages her because he says its easier when shes nude. He massages her back, legs and butt. But then yesterday I come home nad they are both skinny dipping together. I feel this is horribly inappropriate but my mom and dad have no problem with it. They say Norm is a church going Christian who would never think of doing anything inappropriate to her. They say he is just having fun and its all innocent. So what should di do? Is it just me or is this wrong? Someone help me?

I am a 16 year old girl and I would babysit her myself if I wasn't always busy with my friends.

 

[â¢Â¥ sarah]

I'm a Christian too, and that is completely, utterly inappropriate. You need to report him. Or tell him not to do it anymore.

 

[SleepyJ]

Norm is a creep, I'd understand th massage thing if she was younger, and it's not ok to be skinny dipping with her.

 

[halifax666]

That is totally inappropriate.

So what if he is church going? There is no shortage of paedophilic priests and they are church going too!

You need to get authorities involved in this if your parents will not act.

 

[Emmys Mommy]

This is very inappropriate, if I were I would do what that other person suggested and report him to CPS what if he is doing something or is going to do something to her and you don't say nothing. Are your parents stupid I do not see anthing normal about this. If that was my sister I would stop ANYTHING I am doing so that creep would not have to babysit her. No way in hell are my friends more important than my family.

 

[sentenna]

OMG, he could be molesting her already and your excuse to not baby sit her is because your always busy? You don't even care about her. If you did, you would stop going out so much. You would take care of your sister because you love her very much and you don't want her to get sexually abused.

Call the police. Get CPS involved. You do not want your sister getting molested. It will f*ck her up for life. Research sexual abuse.

I can't even believe that you wouldn't take care of your sister, instead you let this monster baby sit her. Shame on you too. You aren't helping at all, either!

 

[luvrats]

That isn't right at all, it's very, VERY wrong. If your parents really do think it's OK (and I find that HARD to believe) then you need to tell someone else. Tell one of your teachers or someone from your church and see what they say.

And maybe spend a little less time with your friends and more time with your sister. She NEEDS you right now.

 

[Couman]

Some people don't make that big a deal out of nudity. Maybe he's a nudist or something. It's *definitely* weird though.

I think you should talk to her (your little sister) and find out if if he's done anything else weird. Don't be graphic or put ideas into her head though. Just ask what kind of things they do together.

 

[Michelle =)]

whoa do your paresnts even care?
because if i were them i would fire him immediately

 

[â„“Ã…â„“Ã…â„¢]

holy moly, he sounds like a creep. 17 year olds dont just get 5 year olds naked for fun..

 

[Victoriaaa.]

If I were her parents that boy would have a stick shoved so far up his a s s it would be coming out his mouth.

 

[Bride2be]

Yes, it is highly inappropriate. I would recommend you make a report with CPS or child protective services. Their main goal is to educate parents, not remove the child from the home. You can do this anonymously. The local police might also be a resource. Has anyone asked her if Norm has ever touched her private parts, etc. This needs to be acted on NOW!

 

[LeslieSexxyPants!]

thats weird...

 

[Rachael E]

omg thats really creepy n i think your completely right that thats just plain wrong!! even if he is a christian its not right. i have a friend that was sexually abused n trust me it will be best for your poor lil sister if you get this stopped asap!! talk to his parents??

 

[Shayy <3]

soo ridiculous! report his ass or something freaking creeep!


if i were you, instead of hanging out with friends all the time, take some concern for ur sister and babysit her yourself after all, family comes first!.

 

[letmeowt1]

so you seen him naked? did he have an erection? if he was 6 or 12 it would be normal buy we all have to grow up and act grown up also, tell him IF he ever grows up what kind of job do you want to have .

 

[Liz]

well if your not willing to do the job to protect your sister than you should report this so called "church going guy" to the police! that is very inapropriate and adventually will lead to something worse!!!!!! REPORT it! and take action, if your parents are that blind and you think there is something wrong which by the sounds of it something majorly is wrong go to child services police something!

 

[[melissa] SC]

If you were that concerned you wouldn't be busy with your friends and would do something about it like take his place.

But, it must be hard to be concerned when you are a troll...

 

[Mariah]

call the cops immeadlty!!!!!
PEDOFILE ALEEEERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[matt89 veteran of yahoo]

If I was a parent and someone did that too my child, church or no church I would whip their asses!