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Heh guys,
My experience and history with service providers...
I have been reading stuff on this site since last spring and I am pretty inexperienced with service providers. I in total have seen two independent escorts and had a great time with both and left them both a generous tip at the end.
Now for the advice part
I went to my first MP tonight and had a horrible time. I found the MP on CL and it was pretty close to where I live so I decided to go in for a 30 minute hand job. I called ahead and was told just to drop by as they were not busy. I was greeted by a middle aged BBW who had a pretty face and smelled quite nice. I went into the room with her and she told me that for a 30 minute massage that it would cost 40.00. I gave her 40.00 cash and then she left the room for 5 minutes and came back and laughed at me because I was in my boxers. She then told me that I had to get naked. So I did. I went down to my boxers because I was very nervous being in a MP for the first time and I didn't know what standard procedures were. She then asked me exactly what I was looking for and I told just a hand job. She then told me well my services start at 60.00. I then told her that I thought the 40.00 for the room was for the massage. She then told me no, that the 40.00 covers the room rental and that the owner gets all of that money. I then told her I was embarrassed as this was my first time at a MP and that I only brought 75.00 in total with me. She then said well we take debit. I replied and said that I would be honest with her and that I was very nervous of bringing in my wallet because I didn't know who may be going through my pockets so that was why I brought cash. I then told her, well I live pretty close and I will go home bring in the 60.00 extra. She then said well how much extra do you have on you now? I then said 35.00. She then said well I suppose that will do. I said to her are you sure, because I would go home and get the extra money first. She then assured me it was all right. I then got on the table and she rubbed my back with a bit of oil and then told me to turn over. She then told me as I was on my back as she was rubbing my legs up and down and lightly rubbing her finger nails over the tip of my penis that she would need the full amount and that she wanted me to go home after and bring her the extra 25.00. She then tried to up sell me a topless massage for another 20.00. I told her no thanks... I am not into BBW's and I am not much of a breast man. She asked me a few more times and I replied no a few more times. She then started to give me a hand job while pinching my nipples... I then asked her if she would rub my balls instead of her pinching my nipples and she said sure. As she was stroking me I asked her if she could lightly hit my balls at the same time. She complied and did about 10s of dirty talk... then she immediately kept asking me if I was close. I was very close to finishing until she started asking me if I was close. She sighed a few times and asked again if I was close. I felt so rushed and anxious to perform that the opposite happened... I lost the closeness as I was feeling really rushed. She then told me to stroke myself while she rubbed my balls. I took over and she still kept on saying are you close are you close. She then left me started walking around and started cleaning the room. She then looked at me and said well that is enough. I looked at my watch and I was in there for a total of 20 minutes. I thought 30 minutes meant 30 minutes? The 20 minutes was actually about 10 minutes of back massage and and hand job as her disappearance out of the room for 5 minutes at the beginning and the negotiations and me offering to come back took about another 5 minutes or so. I was there at 8:30PM in the room, she left and came back at 8:35PM, negotiated for 5 minutes and then she told me I was done at 8:50PM.
I didn't say anything, I was thinking whatever.... and that I would not go back there. She then said, you need to pay me the other 35.00 now and you have to leave your cell phone as collateral until I came back and paid her the rest. I gave her the 35.00 and told her that I would give her the other 25.00, but I was not leaving my cell phone with her. I am a teacher by profession and I have all my personal contacts, emails, work numbers, and other sensitive information on my phone. I told her she would have to trust me. She then insisted that I leave my phone and I told her no... she yet insisted again and started to get aggressive. I told her that I would still pay her but that I would never come back there again. I told her I felt rushed and that the 30 minute massage we agreed on was only 10 minutes and that I was only there in total for 20 minutes. She then said that when I asked her to massage and squeeze my balls that is considered kink and that is why it was ending early. I then told her well I wish you would have told me that when before hand. I then told her I was going to write a review on my experience there and she then got really mad. She threatened me by saying that she would remember what I looked like and that she would phone every mp out there and get me banned. She finally moved outside the door and swore and yelled at me on my way out.
I am not sure what to do here. Part of me is feeling like, a deal is a deal and I should go back and pay her the 25.00 that I agreed on. At the same time, I am scared to go back there and I don't like how I was treated and I didn't like the service and she didn't keep her part of our deal. Part of it was my fault because being my first time at a MP, I really thought the advertised price of 40.00 was for a hand job. I offered to leave immediately more than once to go and get the extra 25.00 and come back, even before we started. I was also serious about returning with the money until she got nasty. Also, at the very end when I mentioned to her that I would leave and come back before we started she said to me, you wouldn't have come back and I wanted the money. Little, does she know I would have came back with it before we started.
So my question for experienced guys is what should I do? Should I go back and pay her the 25.00??? I am honestly torn. 25.00 to me is pocket change and very insignificant, so it is definitely not about the money. Please give me some advice. I left the name of the place and the girl out of here because I am not sure if it is right to post that information. All I know is I would never ever go back there.
Thanks for any advice that you guys can give me.
Mark
Ps... I accidently posted this first in the Edmonton review thread... this happened in Calgary.
My experience and history with service providers...
I have been reading stuff on this site since last spring and I am pretty inexperienced with service providers. I in total have seen two independent escorts and had a great time with both and left them both a generous tip at the end.
Now for the advice part
I went to my first MP tonight and had a horrible time. I found the MP on CL and it was pretty close to where I live so I decided to go in for a 30 minute hand job. I called ahead and was told just to drop by as they were not busy. I was greeted by a middle aged BBW who had a pretty face and smelled quite nice. I went into the room with her and she told me that for a 30 minute massage that it would cost 40.00. I gave her 40.00 cash and then she left the room for 5 minutes and came back and laughed at me because I was in my boxers. She then told me that I had to get naked. So I did. I went down to my boxers because I was very nervous being in a MP for the first time and I didn't know what standard procedures were. She then asked me exactly what I was looking for and I told just a hand job. She then told me well my services start at 60.00. I then told her that I thought the 40.00 for the room was for the massage. She then told me no, that the 40.00 covers the room rental and that the owner gets all of that money. I then told her I was embarrassed as this was my first time at a MP and that I only brought 75.00 in total with me. She then said well we take debit. I replied and said that I would be honest with her and that I was very nervous of bringing in my wallet because I didn't know who may be going through my pockets so that was why I brought cash. I then told her, well I live pretty close and I will go home bring in the 60.00 extra. She then said well how much extra do you have on you now? I then said 35.00. She then said well I suppose that will do. I said to her are you sure, because I would go home and get the extra money first. She then assured me it was all right. I then got on the table and she rubbed my back with a bit of oil and then told me to turn over. She then told me as I was on my back as she was rubbing my legs up and down and lightly rubbing her finger nails over the tip of my penis that she would need the full amount and that she wanted me to go home after and bring her the extra 25.00. She then tried to up sell me a topless massage for another 20.00. I told her no thanks... I am not into BBW's and I am not much of a breast man. She asked me a few more times and I replied no a few more times. She then started to give me a hand job while pinching my nipples... I then asked her if she would rub my balls instead of her pinching my nipples and she said sure. As she was stroking me I asked her if she could lightly hit my balls at the same time. She complied and did about 10s of dirty talk... then she immediately kept asking me if I was close. I was very close to finishing until she started asking me if I was close. She sighed a few times and asked again if I was close. I felt so rushed and anxious to perform that the opposite happened... I lost the closeness as I was feeling really rushed. She then told me to stroke myself while she rubbed my balls. I took over and she still kept on saying are you close are you close. She then left me started walking around and started cleaning the room. She then looked at me and said well that is enough. I looked at my watch and I was in there for a total of 20 minutes. I thought 30 minutes meant 30 minutes? The 20 minutes was actually about 10 minutes of back massage and and hand job as her disappearance out of the room for 5 minutes at the beginning and the negotiations and me offering to come back took about another 5 minutes or so. I was there at 8:30PM in the room, she left and came back at 8:35PM, negotiated for 5 minutes and then she told me I was done at 8:50PM.
I didn't say anything, I was thinking whatever.... and that I would not go back there. She then said, you need to pay me the other 35.00 now and you have to leave your cell phone as collateral until I came back and paid her the rest. I gave her the 35.00 and told her that I would give her the other 25.00, but I was not leaving my cell phone with her. I am a teacher by profession and I have all my personal contacts, emails, work numbers, and other sensitive information on my phone. I told her she would have to trust me. She then insisted that I leave my phone and I told her no... she yet insisted again and started to get aggressive. I told her that I would still pay her but that I would never come back there again. I told her I felt rushed and that the 30 minute massage we agreed on was only 10 minutes and that I was only there in total for 20 minutes. She then said that when I asked her to massage and squeeze my balls that is considered kink and that is why it was ending early. I then told her well I wish you would have told me that when before hand. I then told her I was going to write a review on my experience there and she then got really mad. She threatened me by saying that she would remember what I looked like and that she would phone every mp out there and get me banned. She finally moved outside the door and swore and yelled at me on my way out.
I am not sure what to do here. Part of me is feeling like, a deal is a deal and I should go back and pay her the 25.00 that I agreed on. At the same time, I am scared to go back there and I don't like how I was treated and I didn't like the service and she didn't keep her part of our deal. Part of it was my fault because being my first time at a MP, I really thought the advertised price of 40.00 was for a hand job. I offered to leave immediately more than once to go and get the extra 25.00 and come back, even before we started. I was also serious about returning with the money until she got nasty. Also, at the very end when I mentioned to her that I would leave and come back before we started she said to me, you wouldn't have come back and I wanted the money. Little, does she know I would have came back with it before we started.
So my question for experienced guys is what should I do? Should I go back and pay her the 25.00??? I am honestly torn. 25.00 to me is pocket change and very insignificant, so it is definitely not about the money. Please give me some advice. I left the name of the place and the girl out of here because I am not sure if it is right to post that information. All I know is I would never ever go back there.
Thanks for any advice that you guys can give me.
Mark
Ps... I accidently posted this first in the Edmonton review thread... this happened in Calgary.