Recommendations for a first timer?

[jonathan st.thomas]

Ok...I am again giving thought to "indulging" in aspects of the hobby beyond strip clubs (which I actually haven't been to in quite awhile...perhaps not in as much as a year...at least not apart from visits with out of town guests).

Based on the feedback from other subject matter experts in various threads at various times, I have sort of determined that escort encounters are not for me.

Yet, I find myself in a bit of a...dilemma. I am (again) going to make a passing effort at semi-monogamy as a result of some recent events in my life, which means I will need to find a source for "distraction" at times like these when my GF is out of commission, so to speak.

I am thinking the MPA thing might work. I am anticipating it being a bit more "at arms length" than an encounter with an escort, and as a result, I am less likely to be disappointed with not being able to really get the know the person, spend extensive amounts of time with them, etc. Plus...and no...I have no rational defense for this line of reasoning...I feel like it would be less of a violation of my latest attempt to give the person I most care for the type of relationship I know she actually wants (ie, it is less like cheating). If she found out I went to an MPA she'd be pissed as hell, angry, and probably would dump me. If she she found out I went to see an escort she'd be crushed and mortified.

So...with that said...

Can I get some recommendations on a place to go / MPA to see for my first time?

I am not looking for anything "extra"...just your basic rub and tug.

I would very much prefer that the person be very sensual, versus either mechanical or wild. I am looking for a nice...slow...gentle...easy...pleasant experience...with a nice, slow, easy extended "finish". Tantric, almost.

I honestly do not care what the person looks like beyond "attractive" and in reality I am more likely to "connect" with someone older versus younger, and more "average looking" than someone who is completely self absorbed in their good looks.

Lastly, while I do not think myself "cheap" value matters. I have concluded one of the reasons the escort thing wouldn't work for me is I would just be....frustrated? at the notion of that kind of outlay for something I typically would not have to pay for...I rather spend that money on a nice leisurely fine dining experience with an attractive woman than for the privilege of sleeping with her. By the same token...if the outlay for my first foray into the MPA world leaves me thinking "I can't believe I just paid that much for a hand job", then I will have buyers' remorse.

Any and all assistance appreciated....

 

[Callie]

One word, Changs. Definitely seems to fit most if not all of your criteria for an MPA.

 

[Renolouie09]

I was going to suggest the same things.

Shirly and Julie(tte) are both very good in all aspects of massage, tease, and release.

They are definitly not "eye candy", and are well on the milf side of the age scale but do have a beauty that is easy to discover.

You're not going to get any extras there, and it has even been reported that some first timers don't even get a release (but that never happened to me, and it does seem to be pretty rare thing to happen, but if it does, don't be too dismayed, come back again and that should clear up any shyness on their part.)

Usually the session starts off with a very nice massage (I'd suggest the hard massage,) interrupted by a short break while they get out the hot towels, followed by some more massaging, and then on to the "tease" part where your important parts get some welcome attention ... then comes the flip, and a very skilled release.

Total cost for an hour is I believe $80, plus tip ... you can get a $40 1/2 hour, but I think they put a little extra into the effort if you go for the hour session.

You might also try Alisha at Camery Spa 25 Glen Watford Dr Unit #2 ... she's a bit younger than Shirly, and cuter IMO, but once again, she is no dig deal in the eye candy department. You'll get a decent massage, not as good as Changs, but then again whose is, and if she is in the mood a very nice sensual and controlled HJ release. Again, you're not likely to get any extras there either (although it's been known to happen, but AFAIK she no longer goes in that direction any more, so you should be safe from any attempts at "sexual assault".)

 

[hot lips]

Is $130 or $150 for 40 minutes beyond what you want to pay?

 

[carebearnmbr46]

...30 to 50 dollars better than what the others have suggested so far?

It does strike me as a lot for a "hand job", but I am presuming there is (FAR) more involved...

 

[debabrata h]

I'm just giving you the cost for the higher end of the spectrum, to see if it is reasonbale for you or not. Not at all trying to degrade what others enjoy (and there are gems at lower prices spas too) and people focus on different things.

Typically, a higher end spa will have
- hotter girls
- cleaner and nicer establishment
- less language barrier.

You get nude reverse for #130 (you massage the girl) and body slide for $150 (she massages and slides all over you)

SRM. Allure, HFH would fit this description.

 

[Pompal 09.]

..in massaging the girl, or a "body slide". And on some level (believe it or not) I would consider younger and "hotter" to be negatives...I really DO NOT care for twenty something females as a general rule.

A lack of language barrier would be nice however.

Just a "sensuous massage"...an exploration in human touch conducted by someone who knows what they are doing.

On some level you might could say I am not interested in the "sex" part at all...that would be a lie, mind you because I am expecting a "happy finish"...but really...I just want to enjoy the sensation of knowledgeable female hands on my body...

The woman I am looking for will count her knowledge of the mind set of men and the male anatomy as her greatest professional assets, not her looks or lack of limits.

 

[360]

that's going to be tough. i've yet to meet a mpa who knows how to give a proper massage. great body slides sure but a great massage is another story. it's been almost 2 years since my last visit so who knows what new talent abounds.

 

[Kratnoff]

...which is why I was looking to tap the collective knowledge of the massageplanet.net universe.

Though to be clear I am not looking for the perfect (technical) massage so much as just someone who knows what they are doing, and who provide a sensual touch, versus something either very clinical or very perfunctory ("umm...yeah..rub here...rub there...rub, rub, ok...turn over I know you don't give a shit about that...you want me to just jerk you off")

Ohyesuare and Woolf seem to know exactly what I am looking for and have made a great recommendation (thanks guys), but if others have something they want to chime in with, please do...

 

[alekssebasstrs]

Well no one is forcing you to get a body slide or a nude reverse at the spas I have mentioned.

You can get a sensual basic, topless or nude session for 80-100 (including door fee). Most experienced girls in the biz that have been there no how to tease and elongate the process with there hands quite well.... some of the younger ones probably not as well..


The issue if you go to a higher end spa is that some girls aren't happy with the lower end option and may be cold and do the jackhammer approach (so keep that in mind if some suggestions are made) ....

 

[Pompal 09.]

I have heard good things about Sara from Studio 9 from a member who is all about touch, that you might be interested in as well.

http://www.studio9spa.com/sara.php

http://www.massageplanet.net.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=2108747#post2108747

 

[Marc]

...that is EXACTLY what I don't want...and EXACTLY the sort of response I'd expect from some so skinny but not so bright fake blonde with fake tits who thinks she is so much better than her clients because they have to "pay for it".

I MUCH rather spend some time with a MILF who makes her living making men happy, and has gotten very good at it through the years via experience and the feedback of repeat customers.

 

[eastwoods]

...for the recommendation.

I went to the "rate" page and it was not clear...I've read things on here that referenced a "door fee" and a "girl fee" or whatever. How do I figure out what is what? Has anyone seen Sara able to comment on exactly what they paid?

 

[sublimebch]

independent sarah is fun

 

[Tango & Amber]

...on this person? A URL perhaps?

 

[Kathleen from Germany]

http://www.massageplanet.net.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=184306&page=2&highlight=Independent+Sarah

...and I have no problem admitting that 3 bills is more than I am looking to pay for a "hand job".

I'd much rather have 3 bills worth of dinner with Sarah an spend 3 plus hours flirting and getting know her (while enjoying what would presumably be a world class meal) than spend an hour with her getting a "massage".

I am sure she is FABULOUS...she'd have to be for $300.

But unless someone is going to make a case that she is 3 times better than the ladies referenced at Chang's, I will have to pass....

 

[Pompal 09.]

Chang's is probably your best bet.

I'm still not exactly clear what your expectations are though. Basic rub 'n tug, plus something more sensual but definitely not extras like NR or body slide. Have you considered prostate treatment? http://prostatemassage.blogspot.com/ She is supposed to be quite good and seems to put a lot of emphasis on sensual experience etc.

Also, Nikki, who advertises on this board might be a good option.

 

[wadeypops]

...I am not interest in "extras". I just want someone who knows wha they are doing to touch me all over in a way I would never let a man and make me feel good. And then do something about the fact that they spent 45 minutes arousing me....

And yeah, the prostate thing is definitely on the table for someone who KNOWS WHAT THEY ARE DOING. Been there, done that, would not mind going back.

 

[Brad B]

http://www.erostoronto.com/files/to-sarah80-sarah1.htm
http://www.massageplanet.net.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=190619&highlight=sarah
Incall (downtown):
$130 /

 

[neuve1]

...that was....err....interesting.

My reaction could be best summed up by saying it appears she enjoys her work a bit TOO MUCH for my taste...because while nobody enjoys a finger up his ass more than I do, I am not a submissive, and she seems to prefer the men who pay her to be that way...

Strikes me as a lot of money to pay for something that seems likely to piss me off.

My guess is she and I would not particularly like each other.