I will be posting this on a few of the boards I frequent and quite active with many of the members and hobbyists.
I would like to say first on a happy note that it is the men that keep this hobby going, fun and filled with great joy! I wouldn't still be here if it wasn't for the wonderful gentlemen I have met and entertained and many times entertained me!
I've known a hobby to be a fun event that people participate in and make new friends. Unforunately, for some of us girls the hobby is no fun. I'm not speaking for all the ladies out here but I know some have expressed dislike in the personal issues and drama that sometimes this hobby encompassing itself in.
I would like this message to be somewhat of an eye-opener. Quite frankly I don't know how else to put this but I am tired of what this hobby has evolved into with the drama and negatively that tears up peoples lives and many girls reputations.
Many of us girls are on here to meet new gentlemen and support ourselves in some shape or form. I am about sick and tired of the DRAMA AND BULLSH*T that goes on. I don't think many of these so-called gentlemen realize the hurt and the problems they create when they get on these boards, send emails and basically excuse my french "talk sh*t". And yes many of the ladies have been known to meddle in messes.
I am hoping as a New Years Resolution that the gentlemen think twice before posting about a provider or complain about a provider they haven't seen. I know that I'm sick and tired of the rumors and others are. I'm sick and tired of the men who evolve themselves in a mission to bring down and girl and hurt her as best as they can. Well, you think it doesn't hurt my feelings and you think it doesn't hurt my business...well buddies your lies and your bitching does to an extent and it hurts me. And I cannot speak for every provider but I'm about fed up with crap.
Us girls have to put up with enough dangerous situations and still on a daily basis I have to combat lies and destruction that started from wrenches and men who only wish they know what a true gentlemen was.
I truly hope for a New Year's Resolution that the focus in this hobby will go back to REVIEWS & SERVICE. Because if it doesn't many ladies are feeling the pressure to get out and move on from all the pressures in this biz. I am pretty spitfire of a girl and I've got my "tude" and my "sassy" but enough is enough of people just treating others like SH*T!
I hope people will stop bantering back and forth about this and that and about what has happened in the past and move on. People are people...we're human and we make my mistakes. We are all responsible for our actions and no one needs someone constantly posting about someone's flaws or mistakes. I never entered into this claiming I WAS GOD & PERFECT!!! I'm 24 years old , young and growing and still learning how to make it this crazy world.
If you have too much time on your hands and find it necessarily to negatively concern yourself with the lifestyle of a provider please do us all a favor and perhaps find another hobby you can contribute some positive light.
Last time I checked this hobby was suppossed to be about FEELING GOOD...unfortunately I and many others don't feel good from the B.S.
I wish everyone a safe and wonderful holiday and hope that my communication is clear and not misunderstood and I am not here to b*tch and moan but simply ask for the drama and stupidity to stop.
MAY PEACE BE WITH YOU! LEELA
http://www.redcross.org
DO SOMETHING GOOD!
I would like to say first on a happy note that it is the men that keep this hobby going, fun and filled with great joy! I wouldn't still be here if it wasn't for the wonderful gentlemen I have met and entertained and many times entertained me!
I've known a hobby to be a fun event that people participate in and make new friends. Unforunately, for some of us girls the hobby is no fun. I'm not speaking for all the ladies out here but I know some have expressed dislike in the personal issues and drama that sometimes this hobby encompassing itself in.
I would like this message to be somewhat of an eye-opener. Quite frankly I don't know how else to put this but I am tired of what this hobby has evolved into with the drama and negatively that tears up peoples lives and many girls reputations.
Many of us girls are on here to meet new gentlemen and support ourselves in some shape or form. I am about sick and tired of the DRAMA AND BULLSH*T that goes on. I don't think many of these so-called gentlemen realize the hurt and the problems they create when they get on these boards, send emails and basically excuse my french "talk sh*t". And yes many of the ladies have been known to meddle in messes.
I am hoping as a New Years Resolution that the gentlemen think twice before posting about a provider or complain about a provider they haven't seen. I know that I'm sick and tired of the rumors and others are. I'm sick and tired of the men who evolve themselves in a mission to bring down and girl and hurt her as best as they can. Well, you think it doesn't hurt my feelings and you think it doesn't hurt my business...well buddies your lies and your bitching does to an extent and it hurts me. And I cannot speak for every provider but I'm about fed up with crap.
Us girls have to put up with enough dangerous situations and still on a daily basis I have to combat lies and destruction that started from wrenches and men who only wish they know what a true gentlemen was.
I truly hope for a New Year's Resolution that the focus in this hobby will go back to REVIEWS & SERVICE. Because if it doesn't many ladies are feeling the pressure to get out and move on from all the pressures in this biz. I am pretty spitfire of a girl and I've got my "tude" and my "sassy" but enough is enough of people just treating others like SH*T!
I hope people will stop bantering back and forth about this and that and about what has happened in the past and move on. People are people...we're human and we make my mistakes. We are all responsible for our actions and no one needs someone constantly posting about someone's flaws or mistakes. I never entered into this claiming I WAS GOD & PERFECT!!! I'm 24 years old , young and growing and still learning how to make it this crazy world.
If you have too much time on your hands and find it necessarily to negatively concern yourself with the lifestyle of a provider please do us all a favor and perhaps find another hobby you can contribute some positive light.
Last time I checked this hobby was suppossed to be about FEELING GOOD...unfortunately I and many others don't feel good from the B.S.
I wish everyone a safe and wonderful holiday and hope that my communication is clear and not misunderstood and I am not here to b*tch and moan but simply ask for the drama and stupidity to stop.
MAY PEACE BE WITH YOU! LEELA
http://www.redcross.org
DO SOMETHING GOOD!