What constitutes gay?

[IJR]

: i say thats a top level gay!

 

[Olga]

I consider it insulting when people refuse my right to identify myself in the way that I feel is appropriate. I also consider intentional use of improper pronouns to be insulting as well. The mods on the other board (as well as this one) are inclined to agree. To state I am something other than what I identify myself as suggests that you know me better than I know myself, and would be very insulting to anyone.

That said, I'm not here to dig up old graves; I'm here to understand "what consitutes gay."

So, I'll ask again:

a: A guy (who identifies as straight) has had sex with 100 women, decides he'd like to try sucking a dick, and does so.
b: A guy (who identifies as gay) has had sex with 100 men, and decides he'd like to try licking a pussy, and does so.

Who counts as what, and why?

 

[Ked misybeer]

Funny how bullshit tends to spread, huh? :


1) The so-called "good guys" (though you'll have to forgive me if I don't share the sentiment) weren't banned for defending their positions; they were banned for blatantly insulting an advertiser. This is a critical difference, which I hope is understood by those who are participating in this thread.





Really . Well being one of the good guys please quote exactly what it was that I said that insulted you or keep your cheap shots to yourself .

The reason for the ban is " crossing the line " whatever that means . If it hurts your feelings to entertain others opinions then maybe this isn't the topic for you on a public forum.

I said sucking cock and enjoying that activity is not a straight male activity . That's my opinion . You made it about you and your "friend " took a couple of us out of the discussion . Nice job .

I expect this board is actually interested in opinions even if an advertiser doesn't share it or particularly like it .

Yes I corrected your post to reflect reality .

.

 

[jak.]

As most of you know by now, I do enjoy reading different topics on different boards. I would like to bring another topic from another board to this group of members to see what the feel and mind set is here, which to me seems like a very light hearted group of members.

I hope this is not frowned upon by the MODS or the other boards, as I do not want to step on anyone

 

[??? cam ???]

Your opinion is the typical male chauvinist way of thinking. Isn't being gay a person that only has one preference of gender. I was curious and got over it, I am sure some of you have had those thoughts but never did anything about it.

 

[Mr Chill]

 

[David H]

What do you mean the mods here are inclined to agree. What did Mods say to you.

 

[Vitric]

I am sorry, let me correct myself, you sir have bi-sexual tenancies!

I for one have never had those thoughts, another mans penis does absolutely nothing for me. If it does for you, have at it and knock yourself out with it, just do not try and tell me I should enjoy it as well.

 

[Lover of Life]

Did not say you did, some men do have those thoughts. Many well written articles about that subject, why you being so defensive.

 

[Irohekedire]

Nothing wrong with being Gay dude. Don't qualify it by saying you like ladies. You are attracted to dudes. You are very very gay.

 

[Salerio]

Ray is so gay! :

As for the question of fondling another man's or whatever's privates, gay, or possibly bi-sexual I would think.

 

[Revanus D]

On a lighter note . Here's a little movie I did last year after reading a review where the hobbyist got penetrated by a dildo . I pictured two mature gentlemen discussing the topic and came up with this .

Careful there is sound .

http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/1769601

 

[:bbq:]

I hope you are not to angry with me Gen for bringing this thread here. I do not think of engorged cocks on a daily bases, except for when I have a hard on and look down at my magnificent specimen. Honcho, don't you dare get any ideas!:

In all seriousness I only brought this here for further debate. A proper debate cannot be had when people are so quick to being banned for just having an opinion.

Smylee and Great Bear were banned for what exactly Nikki? I wasn't going to bring your name into this but you have decided to do so yourself. Banned for not seeing the world through your own colored glasses and not going along with your mantra?

I for one firmly believe what one does behind closed doors providing that both parties are consenting is none of my business, but when we get asked a question on a board, question being "does sucking cock make a male gay?", i then believe freedom of speech gives us the right to speak our opinion.

BTW Smylee, that movie is hilarious!!:

 

[MICHAEL D]

Nikki, I dont think mods are inclining to agree anything. Because i dont think there is any post that directly insulting you. You are here and expressing yourself freely as much as other members.

 

[dustin]

Guilty he is gay no need for debate.

 

[lois]

Fuck you guys!


I am not gay. My boyfriend is :razz:

 

[Kasey]

Jawbone you drove Honcho away. Redlight give him the benefit of the doubt, experiencing a one time deal with another man does not make him gay.

 

[junebug493]

I see it as individuals doing what suits their needs no need to label anyone. Sex is sex

 

[Kamukhamopwetko]

I don't get it isn't it obvious he is at least Bi?. Am i missing something here.

 

[happygirl52409]

That's between me and the mods, I will not repeat what was said in private conversation. Nobody has yet been banned for anything said in this thread, and we all hope that continues to be the case. Nor will anything said on other boards lead to consequences on this one; let's move forward with the question at hand, shall we?

I'll ask again:

a: A guy (who identifies as straight) has had sex with 100 women, decides he'd like to try sucking a dick, and does so.
b: A guy (who identifies as gay) has had sex with 100 men, and decides he'd like to try licking a pussy, and does so.

Who counts as what, and why?