Would this flirtatious chat between your partner and a friend bother you?

[non]

I found this chat on my wife's FB chat:

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wife: ... and yes there will be nice boobs, like mine...

male friend: and thanks for the rub yesterday...

wife: for you, anytime!

friend: wow should I have squeezed..lol

wife: lol... gently at first
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The dude is someone she worked with for years and has referred to him (I thought jokingly) as "her work boyfriend".

I didn't even know they still talked, since they haven't worked together for about 2 years.

I'm very upset. Am I blowing this out of proportion?

 

[Pompal 09.]

No you are not! And yes this would pi$$ me off!!

You need to confront her and find out what she was "rubbing" and what she should have "squeezed"

Then, LEAVE her!!!

 

[Jenel]

i don't think so, but don't freak out about it. Wait to find more if possible. She might just want attention. So compliment her often and take her out more, Honestly, if it was me I would freak out. I'm pretty sure that's sexting. I sexted one time, but i did't do anything about it, i just liked hearing how sexy i was and knowing someone wanted me. It could be innocent, but if it continues leave her bc shes probably cheating. That sounds to me like she already did, but it could be like theyre fantasising about eachother....which i know isn't that much better, sorry. Anyways, good luck!

 

[rorjenni]

i dont think you are blowing out of proportion, ask her about it, she might be mad because of the privacy invation but i dont think its appropiate

 

[=) Cowgirlbby]

That is very inappropriate, you're def not blowing it out of proportion I'd confront them about it.

 

[Chris]

Sounds pretty serious to me. I would expect my husband to be furious if I did this. I would be furious if I found a chat like this on his e mail. You have every right to be upset, it sounds like an emotional affair, if not more! Very in appropriate.

 

[dvnt1]

It does sound very inappropriate to say the least. I would never disrespect my partner that way. Hard to tell without knowing if there was more to the conversation.

 

[Candee]

No you are not blowing it out of proportion. This is very inappropriate. You need to talk to her and tell her that you know the two of them have been talking. Tell her how it's making you feel and it needs to stop. As a wife, she has no reason to be behaving this way with any ANYone.

 

[Common]

Is there more? can we read the begining?