Chat After a few years of hobbying, I opened up to some old friends about it...

[LittleCarrot]

you guessed it. they were disappointed and withholding of disgust.

lets ask the question;
which is worst?

- a dirty police officer paid 85k a year of tax money to sit in a car with a running engine blasting A/C hiding behind a secluded building doing nothing,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone?

- legally becoming a "successful businessman" in the legal business of enslaving, torturing, and exploiting animals for their flesh to sell while producing the leading amount of pollution,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- manufacturing/selling of drugs (legal and illegal) that cripple individuals, families, and communities, while producing a byproduct that is dumped into forests and oceans illegally destroying mass ecosystems and life,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- legally becoming a "successful businesswoman" in any industry that extracts and exploits its resources from the land, oceans, seas, or forests (killing countless lives and ecosystems in the process) to manufacture a product to sell for self profit,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

the list goes ON. really question the sigma of these women (mothers, sisters, friends) who are actually trading their time and body for an earning rather than exploiting it by most other truly destructive capitalistic means, what is so bad or shameful about selling her body?
the only thing disgusting about a clean healthy women selling her body, is the dirty unshaven, bad breath unshowered dirt bag who takes advantage of these services and feels the NEED to get their every pennies worth by absolutely ravaging and fucking the shit out of the girl treating her as just a sack of meat to fuck because he paid for it...

you dont abuse your barber, or mechanic, taxi driver, or restaurant cook just because you paid them and feel to get every pennies worth? do you?
these women actually "work" and get abused, and subconsciously traumatized - but they dont need to, why would there be a need to abuse and traumatize your barber or taxi driver? why the poor girl allowing you sex then?

why so selfish of you? intercourse for the woman is painful if you go from 0 to 100 and ravage the shit out of her... thats actually scary, sad and evil.
this isnt porn, porn is fake and designed to be extreme.
feel the womans body and speak its language, ease into her and allow her to gradually adjust to your rhythm before you go from 0 to 100... when shes ready at 100, and you ravage her thats when she truly enjoys it and like you, making the experience better for you too

 

[Dotanuki]

you guessed it. they were disappointed and withholding of disgust.

lets ask the question;
which is worst?

- a dirty police officer paid 85k a year of tax money to sit in a car with a running engine blasting A/C hiding behind a secluded building doing nothing,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone?

- legally becoming a "successful businessman" in the legal business of enslaving, torturing, and exploiting animals for their flesh to sell while producing the leading amount of pollution,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- manufacturing/selling of drugs (legal and illegal) that cripple individuals, families, and communities, while producing a byproduct that is dumped into forests and oceans illegally destroying mass ecosystems and life,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- legally becoming a "successful businesswoman" in any industry that extracts and exploits its resources from the land, oceans, seas, or forests (killing countless lives and ecosystems in the process) to manufacture a product to sell for self profit,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

the list goes ON. really question the sigma of these women (mothers, sisters, friends) who are actually trading their time and body for an earning rather than exploiting it by most other truly destructive capitalistic means, what is so bad or shameful about selling her body?
the only thing disgusting about a clean healthy women selling her body, is the dirty unshaven, bad breath unshowered dirt bag who takes advantage of these services and feels the NEED to get their every pennies worth by absolutely ravaging and fucking the shit out of the girl treating her as just a sack of meat to fuck because he paid for it...

you dont abuse your barber, or mechanic, taxi driver, or restaurant cook just because you paid them and feel to get every pennies worth? do you?
these women actually "work" and get abused, and subconsciously traumatized - but they dont need to, why would there be a need to abuse and traumatize your barber or taxi driver? why the poor girl allowing you sex then?

why so selfish of you? intercourse for the woman is painful if you go from 0 to 100 and ravage the shit out of her... thats actually scary, sad and evil.
this isnt porn, porn is fake and designed to be extreme.
feel the womans body and speak its language, ease into her and allow her to gradually adjust to your rhythm before you go from 0 to 100... when shes ready at 100, and you ravage her thats when she truly enjoys it and like you, making the experience better for you too

Unfortunately your post will be met by superficial ridicule by those who wish to show themselves to be something. However the silent majority understand the game and the rubric therein.

 

[bumzbumz]

LOL funny thing is I had a random guy talk to me about this hobby a few days ago and was trying to brag about his "conquests". I just pretended to be ignorant on the whole SPA thing.

guy was looney

 

[snoopdoggie]

you guessed it. they were disappointed and withholding of disgust.

lets ask the question;
which is worst?

- a dirty police officer paid 85k a year of tax money to sit in a car with a running engine blasting A/C hiding behind a secluded building doing nothing,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone?

- legally becoming a "successful businessman" in the legal business of enslaving, torturing, and exploiting animals for their flesh to sell while producing the leading amount of pollution,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- manufacturing/selling of drugs (legal and illegal) that cripple individuals, families, and communities, while producing a byproduct that is dumped into forests and oceans illegally destroying mass ecosystems and life,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- legally becoming a "successful businesswoman" in any industry that extracts and exploits its resources from the land, oceans, seas, or forests (killing countless lives and ecosystems in the process) to manufacture a product to sell for self profit,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

the list goes ON. really question the sigma of these women (mothers, sisters, friends) who are actually trading their time and body for an earning rather than exploiting it by most other truly destructive capitalistic means, what is so bad or shameful about selling her body?
the only thing disgusting about a clean healthy women selling her body, is the dirty unshaven, bad breath unshowered dirt bag who takes advantage of these services and feels the NEED to get their every pennies worth by absolutely ravaging and fucking the shit out of the girl treating her as just a sack of meat to fuck because he paid for it...

you dont abuse your barber, or mechanic, taxi driver, or restaurant cook just because you paid them and feel to get every pennies worth? do you?
these women actually "work" and get abused, and subconsciously traumatized - but they dont need to, why would there be a need to abuse and traumatize your barber or taxi driver? why the poor girl allowing you sex then?

why so selfish of you? intercourse for the woman is painful if you go from 0 to 100 and ravage the shit out of her... thats actually scary, sad and evil.
this isnt porn, porn is fake and designed to be extreme.
feel the womans body and speak its language, ease into her and allow her to gradually adjust to your rhythm before you go from 0 to 100... when shes ready at 100, and you ravage her thats when she truly enjoys it and like you, making the experience better for you too

That's why I do plenty of fondling her breasts and some DATY, to get her ready for the nitty gritty.

 

[dirtyoldman]

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you guessed it. they were disappointed and withholding of disgust.

lets ask the question;
which is worst?

- a dirty police officer paid 85k a year of tax money to sit in a car with a running engine blasting A/C hiding behind a secluded building doing nothing,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone?

- legally becoming a "successful businessman" in the legal business of enslaving, torturing, and exploiting animals for their flesh to sell while producing the leading amount of pollution,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- manufacturing/selling of drugs (legal and illegal) that cripple individuals, families, and communities, while producing a byproduct that is dumped into forests and oceans illegally destroying mass ecosystems and life,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- legally becoming a "successful businesswoman" in any industry that extracts and exploits its resources from the land, oceans, seas, or forests (killing countless lives and ecosystems in the process) to manufacture a product to sell for self profit,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

the list goes ON. really question the sigma of these women (mothers, sisters, friends) who are actually trading their time and body for an earning rather than exploiting it by most other truly destructive capitalistic means, what is so bad or shameful about selling her body?
the only thing disgusting about a clean healthy women selling her body, is the dirty unshaven, bad breath unshowered dirt bag who takes advantage of these services and feels the NEED to get their every pennies worth by absolutely ravaging and fucking the shit out of the girl treating her as just a sack of meat to fuck because he paid for it...

you dont abuse your barber, or mechanic, taxi driver, or restaurant cook just because you paid them and feel to get every pennies worth? do you?
these women actually "work" and get abused, and subconsciously traumatized - but they dont need to, why would there be a need to abuse and traumatize your barber or taxi driver? why the poor girl allowing you sex then?

why so selfish of you? intercourse for the woman is painful if you go from 0 to 100 and ravage the shit out of her... thats actually scary, sad and evil.
this isnt porn, porn is fake and designed to be extreme.
feel the womans body and speak its language, ease into her and allow her to gradually adjust to your rhythm before you go from 0 to 100... when shes ready at 100, and you ravage her thats when she truly enjoys it and like you, making the experience better for you too

Money is money paid for services you have to be satisfied

 

[LazyBoy]

you guessed it. they were disappointed and withholding of disgust.

lets ask the question;
which is worst?

- a dirty police officer paid 85k a year of tax money to sit in a car with a running engine blasting A/C hiding behind a secluded building doing nothing,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone?

- legally becoming a "successful businessman" in the legal business of enslaving, torturing, and exploiting animals for their flesh to sell while producing the leading amount of pollution,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- manufacturing/selling of drugs (legal and illegal) that cripple individuals, families, and communities, while producing a byproduct that is dumped into forests and oceans illegally destroying mass ecosystems and life,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- legally becoming a "successful businesswoman" in any industry that extracts and exploits its resources from the land, oceans, seas, or forests (killing countless lives and ecosystems in the process) to manufacture a product to sell for self profit,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

the list goes ON. really question the sigma of these women (mothers, sisters, friends) who are actually trading their time and body for an earning rather than exploiting it by most other truly destructive capitalistic means, what is so bad or shameful about selling her body?
the only thing disgusting about a clean healthy women selling her body, is the dirty unshaven, bad breath unshowered dirt bag who takes advantage of these services and feels the NEED to get their every pennies worth by absolutely ravaging and fucking the shit out of the girl treating her as just a sack of meat to fuck because he paid for it...

you dont abuse your barber, or mechanic, taxi driver, or restaurant cook just because you paid them and feel to get every pennies worth? do you?
these women actually "work" and get abused, and subconsciously traumatized - but they dont need to, why would there be a need to abuse and traumatize your barber or taxi driver? why the poor girl allowing you sex then?

why so selfish of you? intercourse for the woman is painful if you go from 0 to 100 and ravage the shit out of her... thats actually scary, sad and evil.
this isnt porn, porn is fake and designed to be extreme.
feel the womans body and speak its language, ease into her and allow her to gradually adjust to your rhythm before you go from 0 to 100... when shes ready at 100, and you ravage her thats when she truly enjoys it and like you, making the experience better for you too

That was really brave of you. I don't think I could have told any of my friends that I hobby. I have one friend who does know about my hobby and I'm grateful for her understanding and acceptance of it. It took me forever to accept myself for hobbying. It's the world's oldest profession and yet it seems it will never gain social acceptance.

Oh, BTW, off topic, but you really shouldn't brush your teeth before you see a MPA or SP. Rinsing with strong mouth wash is good enough. The problem with brushing is that it can open micro cuts on your gums which can expose you to the risk of infection while you DFK or DATY.

 

[Hornet]

Just follow this rule: Unless under advice from your lawyer, or unless your friends are all Catholic priests, don’t confess about your hobbying.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

you guessed it. they were disappointed and withholding of disgust.

lets ask the question;
which is worst?

- a dirty police officer paid 85k a year of tax money to sit in a car with a running engine blasting A/C hiding behind a secluded building doing nothing,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone?

- legally becoming a "successful businessman" in the legal business of enslaving, torturing, and exploiting animals for their flesh to sell while producing the leading amount of pollution,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- manufacturing/selling of drugs (legal and illegal) that cripple individuals, families, and communities, while producing a byproduct that is dumped into forests and oceans illegally destroying mass ecosystems and life,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- legally becoming a "successful businesswoman" in any industry that extracts and exploits its resources from the land, oceans, seas, or forests (killing countless lives and ecosystems in the process) to manufacture a product to sell for self profit,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

the list goes ON. really question the sigma of these women (mothers, sisters, friends) who are actually trading their time and body for an earning rather than exploiting it by most other truly destructive capitalistic means, what is so bad or shameful about selling her body?
the only thing disgusting about a clean healthy women selling her body, is the dirty unshaven, bad breath unshowered dirt bag who takes advantage of these services and feels the NEED to get their every pennies worth by absolutely ravaging and fucking the shit out of the girl treating her as just a sack of meat to fuck because he paid for it...

you dont abuse your barber, or mechanic, taxi driver, or restaurant cook just because you paid them and feel to get every pennies worth? do you?
these women actually "work" and get abused, and subconsciously traumatized - but they dont need to, why would there be a need to abuse and traumatize your barber or taxi driver? why the poor girl allowing you sex then?

why so selfish of you? intercourse for the woman is painful if you go from 0 to 100 and ravage the shit out of her... thats actually scary, sad and evil.
this isnt porn, porn is fake and designed to be extreme.
feel the womans body and speak its language, ease into her and allow her to gradually adjust to your rhythm before you go from 0 to 100... when shes ready at 100, and you ravage her thats when she truly enjoys it and like you, making the experience better for you too

It is a lonely hobby, I only have you guys to talk to about it. My younger self would not have had a good opinion of what I am doing now. My friends would not approve or they would be jealous. Kudos to you to advocating respect for MPAs, they are human beings. These days I am down to fuck, but I am always respectful, always a gentleman, always respect boundaries.

 

[xtc27]

Just follow this rule: Unless under advice from your lawyer, or unless your friends are all Catholic priests, don’t confess about your hobbying.

... like Fight Club, where 1st 2 rules are “You don’t talk about Fight Club”...

FFS!

...if cop pulls me over 4 taillight, don’t tell him 5 k back, was CRUSHING speed limit ... don’t tell dentist I dint floss every day... sometimes I want local sports club 2 lose... no reward 4 sharing this...

...don’t tell my brother I got it w his ex-gf...

...don’t tell my fave loyal perverted MPA that I visited another spa few days ago...

... & don’t tell u guys ever who my fave MPA is...

...b4 I visited a spa 1st time decades ago, made a promise... never gonna tell anyone I was here, gonna lie till I die, use every story... now let’s begin!

 

[Hangdai]

.... don’t tell dentist I dint floss every day...

lol, I don’t know why they always ask that question, They can tell during the cleaning what the truth is.

as far as paying for sex? taking that skeleton to the grave Baby!

unless my tell-all book goes #1, then I’ll have to do the talk show circuit, lol.

 

[LittleCarrot]

and for you guys, dont be ashamed.
Which is worst?

- using cunning, deception, charm and sweet talking an unsuspecting nice girl into a relationship after spending hours and days of yours and hers time (and maybe lots of $$$ on meals and drinks) just to "get with her" to fuck her, and then begin to change your attitude towards her and distance yourself once you get what you wanted and break her heart,

or simply going to a MPA, paying, getting serviced, leave with mutual respect and no ones heart has to get used and lied to and broken, while both parties benefit?

us who hobby are thousands of times better than the dirt bags who "pick up" girls and mislead them into a "relationship" just for sex. fuck those guys

 

[mar91]

I have one friend who knows and asks me about it once in a while. He participates once in a while but he is married and I am not so he tends to only stray when having marital issues. He doesn't judge as like I said, he likes to dabble and sometimes he is jealous of my situation. The funniest part is, the friend who introduced me to the spa scene has almost turned into a reformed again Christian. So he is very down on the hobby and doesn't approve. I could care less if he does or not because I know what he was like not too many years ago so his trying to pretend he wasn't one of the biggest boozers and hounds chasing everything in a skirt doesn't fly with me and I let him know it anytime he tries to judge. Rest of my friends are mostly ignorant and I don't bring it up. I don't feel the need to brag about sex so when friends start talking about it I just stay quiet and mind my own business, only time I came close to breaking my silence was when the topic rolled around to threesomes, most of my friends have never been in one and I really wanted to tell about the two Colombian chicas I was with one time, it is actually a great story. The one friend who knows and I told the story nearly fell off his chair when I was telling him the story. He has been trying to figure out how to arrange it for himself but hasn't been able to sneak away from the wife long enough to leave the country for a week or so.

Best thing, keep it quiet and just enjoy the ride. If you have to get it out, come onto boards like this where you can anonymously post and get it out.

 

[snoopdoggie]

I don't see what the point is in telling anyone what you do in your personal life, unless you are going to the confession booth at your church on Saturday morning. Your personal business is your business only. It's the same as telling your friends your bank account number and how much is in it. It doesn't make sense. No one should know your personal details, not even your family.

 

[cupcrazy]

pretty sure we all have some bad habits that we are ashamed of. Friends don't always talk about their personal lives and why should I?

I wouldn't say it is selfish for me to visit a spa especially I am not committed to a relationship. The Mpa knows what she is going into, I don't make her do something that she doesn't do.

 

[xtc27]

...I think confession, if it has any value, should be like apology... even ant you stepped on, by accident, something got hurt, a life ended...

...mpa / sp visit... where the victim? Where's the damage? ... she & I both happy... (...not apologizing 2 bank account...) .

...those sperms, my kids, swimming in her tummy... must b confusing 4 them... nah, not apologizing...

... U guys feel guilty 4 NOT visiting an mpa (or SP)? I do, a bit... don't think it gets up 2 apology tho...

 

[Whitesnake1987]

Don't feel sorry for any of KJs Ho's.

Do you think they would go see a customer themselves at a place that put their health at risk. The answer is BIG NO BABY.

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[UsefulIdiot]

... U guys feel guilty 4 NOT visiting an mpa (or SP)? I do, a bit... don't think it gets up 2 apology tho...

Funny you should say that, I have had a couple of emails from a fave I have not seen in a while, and I do feel a tinge of guilt. I have a bruise on my dick (thank you for the squeeze, Farah!), and when that clears up I will see her.

 

[Pay2Play]

you guessed it. they were disappointed and withholding of disgust.

lets ask the question;
which is worst?

- a dirty police officer paid 85k a year of tax money to sit in a car with a running engine blasting A/C hiding behind a secluded building doing nothing,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone?

- legally becoming a "successful businessman" in the legal business of enslaving, torturing, and exploiting animals for their flesh to sell while producing the leading amount of pollution,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- manufacturing/selling of drugs (legal and illegal) that cripple individuals, families, and communities, while producing a byproduct that is dumped into forests and oceans illegally destroying mass ecosystems and life,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

- legally becoming a "successful businesswoman" in any industry that extracts and exploits its resources from the land, oceans, seas, or forests (killing countless lives and ecosystems in the process) to manufacture a product to sell for self profit,
or a women selling the labor of sex services with her actual time and body that dont harm anything or anyone but herself?

the list goes ON. really question the sigma of these women (mothers, sisters, friends) who are actually trading their time and body for an earning rather than exploiting it by most other truly destructive capitalistic means, what is so bad or shameful about selling her body?
the only thing disgusting about a clean healthy women selling her body, is the dirty unshaven, bad breath unshowered dirt bag who takes advantage of these services and feels the NEED to get their every pennies worth by absolutely ravaging and fucking the shit out of the girl treating her as just a sack of meat to fuck because he paid for it...

you dont abuse your barber, or mechanic, taxi driver, or restaurant cook just because you paid them and feel to get every pennies worth? do you?
these women actually "work" and get abused, and subconsciously traumatized - but they dont need to, why would there be a need to abuse and traumatize your barber or taxi driver? why the poor girl allowing you sex then?

why so selfish of you? intercourse for the woman is painful if you go from 0 to 100 and ravage the shit out of her... thats actually scary, sad and evil.
this isnt porn, porn is fake and designed to be extreme.
feel the womans body and speak its language, ease into her and allow her to gradually adjust to your rhythm before you go from 0 to 100... when shes ready at 100, and you ravage her thats when she truly enjoys it and like you, making the experience better for you too

Sounds like a lesson in economics from someone that doesn’t understand economics.

 

[johnbuyba]

the only place worth discussing this hobby is here, on massageplanet. i'm sure if you ever met any of us in person most of us would act like we have no idea of the hobby.. not something really to discuss in person

 

[OleDirtyBastard]

I have two friends who I can talk about this openly. In both of those friendships are a mix of addiction support group and rationalization/normalization. Basically telling each other "There's nothing really that wrong with it... But probably not a good idea to go too often from a financial and health perspective." I have hilarious stories that I can only share with those guys which sometimes seems like a shame because they're great stories.

I would never talk to anyone other than those two guys because we understand that it's a case of mutually assured destruction. No matter if we have a spiteful falling out at any point in the future, there is no situation where we would ever betray the other guy because they have as much dirt on me as I do on them.

In my younger days I went backpacking through Thailand and fucked my way across the country. When I came back home I had become so used to how normal it seemed there that I shared my exploits with some guys I thought were "cool" and they told me straight to my face that they were disgusted. Haven't made the same mistake again. Even in situations where I could sense a friend or co-worker was trying to let me know he was a hobbiest and could potentially become a fun partner in crime I've always played innocent/ignorant saying something like : "I don't judge anyone but it just never seemed worth the risk to me." I never trusted anyone enough to risk it outside of this anonymous forum. Just not worth it in my experience.