Chat At crossroads with hobbying...what should I do?

[Boston Man Chowder]

Can you think of anything new that involves pussy

Just kidding, you raise a good point...

You're at a crossroads and feel like you've done it all? I'd say quit while you're ahead. For all this talk about how this is an expensive addiction that nobody could get out of, you on the other hand have the opportunity to walk away. I envy you for feeling that way.

 

[Lukierjack]

I have really gotten into the Club Dynasty groove. Super low mileage and that is good for me. The girls I have seen there are super nice and cute and good at what they do. The STD risk is eliminated. It’s perfect for me. But for the record I am 60.

 

[Bigusdickus]

Take up shilling for your favorite spa but make sure you abstain from temptation.

 

[Bustanut]

Very good post. I can relate in my younger days I was the same. I found my gems and would basically hit up clubs and smash them after.

Maple spa was my go to back in the day they were open till 4 am and sometimes take people till 5am. Damn I miss that place.

To your point I get what you’re saying. I have had a couple of times this year where I’m like hmmmm what’s going on here....my most recent one being a chick on Monday. She is bomb I dont need to get into details you can go see for yourself. Tattoos, good shape, very nice like too nice. I can say however it did take me awhile to get into it.

I think it’s like what you said I know what to expect. So I thought to myself.....I’m getting way more turned on when the unexpected happens at semi legit places.

For example at the semi legit places where the girls come out in non skank clothing. I’m never tuned on initially but when I get the unexpected it turns me on big time. Like all of a sudden they go from rmt wannabes to whores underneath what a turn on.

Like sexy sexy lingerie under their clothes that you would never expect gets me Fkn rock hard. Some of them I didn’t even smash. I didn’t even need to was so turned on by eye contact, them touching me and me touching them, undressing them , pure tease mode type of thing going. Initially they pretend like they don’t want it then they do. They give in nice and slow holy.


I have been going to more semi legits lately. Use this board when I’m too tired to go canvassing on my own.

I did take a break for a year but the itch always comes back. I prefer semi legit over a hoelistic these days.

I used to hobby quite a bit in my younger days. Then after a long hiatus, I ventured back in probably around 3 years ago. As many on here know, I mainly stick with semi-legits as I do appreciate a nice massage and the more casual (i.e. less transactional) atmosphere.

However, lately I'm not enjoying my sessions as much. Mileage is at all time highs so that's not the issue but something is definitely lacking...maybe it's because although I'm getting high mileage at semi-legits, the ladies just aren't that experienced (or good) at these higher level services and I can no longer rely on that 'surprise' experience anymore to get me excited.

The way I see it, I have a couple of options...start venturing into the holistic / SP world with younger, hotter chicks that know what they're doing or just stick with a good massage and basic hj at semi-legits and forgo the higher level stuff. By not being concerned with the mileage I get, it would also allow me to explore and visit more new places (since I would only be expecting a hj anyways). Of course, I could mix it up and do a bit of both too...

Has anyone else found themselves in a rut before and what did you do about it? I'm very interested in hearing other's experiences with this...

 

[krayjee]

Holy crap, too funny,

I thought you like KL?

As long as he's prepared to lose some hairs, lol

LMFAO...Nothing much to worry. He is already half bald and with his existing issue with little KL, I don't think he will last too long with her. Thank God I was able to get out before I lost all my hair...lol. Sometimes I wonder how the fuck a few guys are still on her leash? Some over 4-5 yrs.

 

[Buzzkill]

You got tired of the holistic scene? So even hot sex with gorgeous women doesn't last long? I like your comment about just letting whatever happen, happen and not let it be a focus of the session.

Yeah, your statement that I highlighted is exactly where I'm at. Everything is down to the T now...I know precisely when their clothes are coming off, which minute I will bust and what candies to select on my way out.

I’ve been hitting it hard for the 3 yrs as well and am starting to find it hard to get excited lately, I find it takes longer for me to bust...I’m starting to think, instead of driving the session which I usually do, let it unfold in its own....also thinking of taking a break...like you I used to only visit a few times a year, but all this wild extra stuff got me going a lot...trying to slow it down to get back some excitement

 

[Pay2Play]

I used to hobby quite a bit in my younger days. Then after a long hiatus, I ventured back in probably around 3 years ago. As many on here know, I mainly stick with semi-legits as I do appreciate a nice massage and the more casual (i.e. less transactional) atmosphere.

However, lately I'm not enjoying my sessions as much. Mileage is at all time highs so that's not the issue but something is definitely lacking...maybe it's because although I'm getting high mileage at semi-legits, the ladies just aren't that experienced (or good) at these higher level services and I can no longer rely on that 'surprise' experience anymore to get me excited.

The way I see it, I have a couple of options...start venturing into the holistic / SP world with younger, hotter chicks that know what they're doing or just stick with a good massage and basic hj at semi-legits and forgo the higher level stuff. By not being concerned with the mileage I get, it would also allow me to explore and visit more new places (since I would only be expecting a hj anyways). Of course, I could mix it up and do a bit of both too...

Has anyone else found themselves in a rut before and what did you do about it? I'm very interested in hearing other's experiences with this...

What ever level you hobby at you will eventually get bored.

Try dating East Indian men.

 

[OG_funguy]

LMFAO...Nothing much to worry. He is already half bald and with his existing issue with little KL, I don't think he will last too long with her. Thank God I was able to get out before I lost all my hair...lol. Sometimes I wonder how the fuck a few guys are still on her leash? Some over 4-5 yrs.

Haha, me? No, I still have a full head of hair but I can tell it's starting to thin out and it doesn't grow back as fast.

But yes, the issue with little KL is definitely real. If I told you guys under what situations it didn't work, you would never believe it...that's why I need a really horny chick...like the one in my daty thread. My god, she was something else. I even had a couple of follow on sessions with her that were even better. Then suddenly one day I found out she left for another spa and I never got her number (damn).

 

[OG_funguy]

Very good post. I can relate in my younger days I was the same. I found my gems and would basically hit up clubs and smash them after.

Maple spa was my go to back in the day they were open till 4 am and sometimes take people till 5am. Damn I miss that place.

To your point I get what you’re saying. I have had a couple of times this year where I’m like hmmmm what’s going on here....my most recent one being a chick on Monday. She is bomb I dont need to get into details you can go see for yourself. Tattoos, good shape, very nice like too nice. I can say however it did take me awhile goto get into it.

I think it’s like what you said I know what to expect. So I thought to myself.....I’m getting way more turned on when the unexpected happens at semi legit places.

For example at the semi legit places where the girls come out in non skank clothing. I’m never tuned on initially but when I get the unexpected it turns me on big time. Like all of a sudden they go from rmt wannabes to whores underneath what a turn on.

Like sexy sexy lingerie under their clothes that you would never expect gets me Fkn rock hard. Some of them I didn’t even smash. I didn’t even need to was so turned on by eye contact, them touching me and me touching them, undressing them , pure tease mode type of thing going. Initially they pretend like they don’t want it then they do. They give in nice and slow holy.


I have been going to more semi legits lately. Use this board when I’m too tired to go canvassing on my own.

I did take a break for a year but the itch always comes back. I prefer semi legit over a hoelistic these days.

I agree that the unexpected is so cool. But what can a girl 'realistically' do these days when you've already seen it all.

I guess the dream scenario would be a 10/10 chick who looks all innocent, initially refuses your advances, but then suddenly gets turned on and goes nuts on you...yeah, that would be nice.

 

[Hangdai]

Sometimes I wonder how the fuck a few guys are still on her leash? Some over 4-5 yrs.

You tease us dogs with that 4 lettered treat and of course we're happy to wag our tails and be on her leash.
Oldest trick in the book. We've all fell for it.

 

[krayjee]

I agree that the unexpected is so cool. But what can a girl 'realistically' do these days when you've already seen it all.

I guess the dream scenario would be a 10/10 chick who looks all innocent, initially refuses your advances, but then suddenly gets turned on and goes nuts on you...yeah, that would be nice.

I have found one. I am working on it, so far not much luck yet. This Friday will be my 3rd and last try.

 

[OG_funguy]

I have really gotten into the Club Dynasty groove. Super low mileage and that is good for me. The girls I have seen there are super nice and cute and good at what they do. The STD risk is eliminated. It’s perfect for me. But for the record I am 60.

Thanks for the suggestion and I do want to try this place one day. But correct me if I'm wrong, this kinda place is one where you'll want to spend at least a couple of hours at and right now, I usually don't have that much time.

 

[OG_funguy]

...my guess is yr not doing enuf outside yr comfort zone...

I hear you but what can I do outside my comfort zone "at the spa''? Any ideas?

Here's the stage I'm at. You know how much you enjoyed your sessions with Lucy and Coco. Well, if I'm keeping it real, my sessions with them did nothing for me. Don't get me wrong, the place itself was nice and clean, the ladies were pretty, friendly and definitely above average (for semis) but the experience was still very routine for me. Maybe folks are right and I should take a break to recharge...but I know myself. I might slow down for a bit but I doubt I'll exit completely.

 

[OG_funguy]

I have found one. I am working on it, so far not much luck yet. This Friday will be my 3rd and last try.

Nice...wish you all the best. If there's anyone on here who's seen it all, it should be you so I wonder what your secret is to keep going after all these years...

 

[pman]

I hear you but what can I do outside my comfort zone "at the spa''? Any ideas?

Here's the stage I'm at. You know how much you enjoyed your sessions with Lucy and Coco. Well, if I'm keeping it real, my sessions with them did nothing for me. Don't get me wrong, the place itself was nice and clean, the ladies were pretty, friendly and definitely above average (for semis) but the experience was still very routine for me. Maybe folks are right and I should take a break to recharge...but I know myself. I might slow down for a bit but I doubt I'll exit completely.

You got it. Its all about breaking the routine.
Imagine you see L or C at the right time/day and do something that really get her to the top of horniness...its the same as seduce the innocent one...

 

[TheKWguy]

I enjoyed this thread, great read!

If your getting bored do something else. Thats what this hobby is about. Always something new to try, new to see.

 

[Hangdai]

I see two possibilities: the novelty has worn off, so it is time to take a break or find a new obsession; other emotional needs are not being met, so it may be time for a real girlfriend.

If I recall, Ursus took up photography for a while.

Not sure if it's still substituting for this hobby.

 

[Kw1389]

If there's one thing that my recent MPA interactions have confirmed, it's that emotionally I'm fine and like most guys, get jittery as women become attached. So...definitely don't need a GF (but FWB would be nice).

It's the former...question is what should I do to enjoy hobbying again...sigh.

Start searching for independents. The quest for the needle in haystack is always fun. After a few duds I usually hit up something good. At worse you get some mediocre massages and a hj

 

[WizardofStyle]

Start searching for independents. The quest for the needle in haystack is always fun. After a few duds I usually hit up something good. At worse you get some mediocre massages and a hj

Far too frequently you end up with a mediocre massage, but I take your point. It's part of the game.

 

[OG_funguy]

You got it. Its all about breaking the routine.
Imagine you see L or C at the right time/day and do something that really get her to the top of horniness...its the same as seduce the innocent one...

That's it! If L or C did something out of the ordinary, that would be exciting as hell. But what are the chances of that and how many visits would it take to catch them in the 'right' mood?