.......Have been sailing around e blue region for e past 4-5 years...its time i seriously consider switching to semi-retired mode already once i got my Ba Xa ready to be. Have gained a lot of good and bad experiences around e blue region and therfore collected tons of information on vietnamese girls mindset and many other things. I hereby hopes e informations below will do most of e bros good...ofcos de informations might not be 100% correct. The tips below are specially subjected to viet lover and bros searching for a viet wife.......
Helpful Tips on meeting up with vietnamese gal...by GS. (Part One)
Be patient. Try not to get to Reviewustrated because of the time it takes for the ladies to reply. Vietnam is still learning to do the regular things we take for granted such as mailing a letter. It takes time to send and receive post to and Reviewom Vietnam. If you think you have lost communication with a lady try sending her a message telling her you know the message takes a long time sometimes and you just want to let her know you are still thinking about her.
Love at first sight: Vietnamese women DO NOT believe in love at first sight. This is a purely western phenomenon. Be careful not scare the lady by telling her you love her or that she is definitely THE ONE only. There are ways to let the women know that she is special and that you have a good feeling about her by her without coming on too strong. If you do make this mistake you will spend forever trying to explain to her why you fell this way about her. Because she will definitely question your sincerity and motives, and most likely be quite blunt about it. Or she will be so overwhelmed by you she won’t reply you back. Take your time and as i have said and will say again, these women most of all want understanding. Vietnamese women look for men that pay attention to the way they feel and the way they think. The ladies of Vietnam know this takes a little time and will not over look their beliefs on the matter.
Taboo subjects: Here a few subjects to be avoided the start of correspondence. Death in the family, if a lady mentions that her mother or father has passed away, in your reply let her know you are sorry to hear this and leave at that. Don’ ask why, or ask what happened or she will you are very impolite if you continue the subject. Your past love life, Be honest with her if you are divorced and or have children, but the ladies won’t want hear the details of your past romances. Sex, Please avoid this topic at all costs in the beginning of correspondence this is an embarrassing subject that can easily make the lady feel uncomfortable.
The little things: Vietnamese women can easily feel appreciated by the little things that you do for her. This does not mean she is small minded it means she knows that she is not forgotten or neglected. We know men can get very busy in their work life and these women know this also. The difference between these women and women Reviewom the west is that most will be very supportive of your work life as long as she knows you still think about her. During the Vietnam War Vietnamese women faithfully waited literally years for their loved ones too come home. During this time they kept their families together and in many cases had to provide for their families just as the man would. You might think this is an extreme example but the point is that they know their responsibility as a partner.
They won’t forget you so don’t forget them!
Small things: learn 20 words in Vietnamese and you will be very surprised by her reaction and will have just put yourself 20 steps in Reviewont of the guy who didn't learn any words.
Good luck and bad luck: Vietnam is a very superstitious country and relies on luck as their guide to a brighter future. I suggest that you read a little about the Chinese Calendar ,which is the calendar the Vietnamese follow. This is a subject that all the ladies will enjoy.
Handsome men: If you ask a Vietnamese woman about handsome men they will tell you that they would much rather have an honest and faithful man. So don’t worry about how you look to them concentrate on making the lady feel secure in the fact that you won’t leave her for another woman. I try to say this in all honesty and confidence. It may sound like a sales tactic to some, but I encourage you to ask anyone who has had any dealings with Vietnamese women and they will confirm what I have just told you. Or read the bios and count how many request handsome men, or ask just ask her yourself.
Money: Money can’t buy love we all know this, but these women are not rich by any means. We can’t guarantee some won’t ask for money so just be careful and use common sense. If you feel comfortable sending money to her, vietnam ladies will not tell you not to do this. I will tell you to be aware and take care. There are many ways to show your support without sending money, and If you send gifts try to make them functional and appropriate. But don’t forget the
flowers and chocolate they are still women and love the same things as most other women love.
Language barriers: If some sort of misunderstanding arises during correspondence it is most likely due to a language barrier. So sometimes you might have to be very patient and try to be as clear as possible as to your intentions. Don’t give up on her because it takes a little work to understand each other. You might have to tell her the same thing, you might have to ask to please be patient with YOU and not to give up on YOU. If you can do this gently and sincerely you have a 1000 times more of a chance to patch up any rocky moments in the beginning seforum.xxxes of correspondence.
I hopes this information will be helpful to you. If you have any questions I will be glad to answer them as best I can. But truly the best advice I can give is “BE YOURSELF”. That might be exactly what she is looking for!
GS
Take Care & Lan Sau Gap Lai !