Chat Can you trust spa girls...

[Satchmo]

My problem sometimes is I go in there with a positive attitude hoping on a good experience, more than willing to roll with the punches and it makes me a little naive. After the fact big picture, I forgive if she has redeemable qualities, otherwise I swear against her since it is a chunk of change to hopefully get good treatment. As far as lieing go-s, I can expect lieing but I need some level of honesty like first off not ripping me off.

I can see that...it can get a little routine and then you hear about others and the service they get. I get YMMV as it goes with the territory but eventually you feel taken advantage of. And from purely a business transaction perspective ripped off.

 

[ppc]

My girl quit. I couldn't be with her otherwise.....jerking off dozens of guys per week plus whatever else happened behind closed doors...

Trust but verify proved she is out of the business

Young heart how’s life with your girl now ?

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

I can see that...it can get a little routine and then you hear about others and the service they get. I get YMMV as it goes with the territory but eventually you feel taken advantage of. And from purely a business transaction perspective ripped off.

Me too, my regular girls are great. Then I try a spa girl it is like omiting services, also I am spoiled. I get excellant blowjobs and such for which I have only reached slightly average at a spa and usually not. I think some of these girls are bipolar. They call a girl great on this board and she has crepey skin,stretch marks, acne pocks and open scabs on body, so what is good to some is not to me but particulary service wise. As far as a business transaction I can be a great friend but I pay my ticket I want my ride. Is a friend supposed to take advantage. It is a job I do not need to believe they have to be highly finicky at those prices. It is a bit of a scam to say paid milage is up to them. Otherwise I like the hobby and I do well with frequency and my girls are good for my confidence I get plenty. Some of these girls can take the wind out of my sails but some guy on the board likes he is getting it at all or some weird extra.

 

[Itsmeagain]

There is greed and then there is ruthlessness. Most of us do not like greed in others, but at least we understand it. But ruthlessness is quite shocking. What makes an SW ruthless? It could be drug addiction, it could be acquired bitterness and cynicism that result doing sex work and never having real relationships that work out as a consequence - sometimes we want to date SWs, but we do not want them to meet our families. My guess is the most common cause of ruthlessness is having dependents. The needs of her family far outweigh any guilt she may have about deceiving and using clients and coworkers. A primal drive. Whether in the world of paid sex or in real life, beware of Mama Bears!

Well said!!

 

[kittyhound69]

Try and understand any woman, regardless of vocation lol.

 

[Ambler]

I can see that...it can get a little routine and then you hear about others and the service they get. I get YMMV as it goes with the territory but eventually you feel taken advantage of. And from purely a business transaction perspective ripped off.

Comparison is the thief of joy. Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear. Lot of guys flex, you decide whether the time you spend is equal to the expense.

 

[I❤️SPAs]

Comparison is the thief of joy. Believe half of what you see and none of what you hear. Lot of guys flex, you decide whether the time you spend is equal to the expense.

So true.

Also, it will serve everyone to remember this:

The SEX WORKER you are receiving service from will occasional get extremely turned on by a beautiful sexy male they encounter in their working life.
And at that very moment EVERY RULE THEY NORMALLY FOLLOW WILL DISAPPEAR!!! poof* out the window!
Next thing you know the girl that would NEVER do full service is straddling a cock and riding it like she is attempting to escape the gravitational pull of the earth

 

[Johnjoebowler]

So true.

Also, it will serve everyone to remember this:

The SEX WORKER you are receiving service from will occasional get extremely turned on by a beautiful sexy male they encounter in their working life.
And at that very moment EVERY RULE THEY NORMALLY FOLLOW WILL DISAPPEAR!!! poof* out the window!
Next thing you know the girl that would NEVER do full service is straddling a cock and riding it like she is attempting to escape the gravitational pull of the earth

Yes and for this I do apologize

 

[OG_funguy]

@Liaable - I see you lurking, care to share some of those interesting stories you have (without mentioning names of course )

 

[Liaable]

Lol nothing much to talk about, i had disagreement w/ long time regular so moved on to different spas since it broke whole sensuality.

I was kinda pissed for a moment then realized i was just attaching myself too much or/and had too much expectations, so it is what it is i guess.

I do get the feeling that some girls don't really care, while others think that John will come back regardless.

i was talking to one of the ladies i know and she was surprised i stopped visiting my old regular, saying she thought i'd go back eventually since men can't control the urge....kinda explains why some ladies at MP might give you trust issue since it needs to be more of mutual relationship/agreement rather than John being cash cow - i think it's possible up to certain degree but rare to reach to the point of friendship or professional relationship.

 

[Satchmo]

Lol nothing much to talk about, i had disagreement w/ long time regular so moved on to different spas since it broke whole sensuality.

I was kinda pissed for a moment then realized i was just attaching myself too much or/and had too much expectations, so it is what it is i guess.

I do get the feeling that some girls don't really care, while others think that John will come back regardless.

i was talking to one of the ladies i know and she was surprised i stopped visiting my old regular, saying she thought i'd go back eventually since men can't control the urge....kinda explains why some ladies at MP might give you trust issue since it needs to be more of mutual relationship/agreement rather than John being cash cow - i think it's possible up to certain degree but rare to reach to the point of friendship or professional relationship.

Well said! I felt like the cash cow as you say and for me it was best to discontinue seeing my MPA regular to keep any semblance of a friendship... as one-way as it is. I think I finally get it.

 

[hangul99]

I can see that...it can get a little routine and then you hear about others and the service they get. I get YMMV as it goes with the territory but eventually you feel taken advantage of. And from purely a business transaction perspective ripped off.

As the song goes.

"Hotel, motel, Holiday Inn!
Say, if your girl starts actin' up, then you take her friend"

I may have dated myself. Lol!

 

[Social-Misfit]

Yes and for this I do apologize

That yer a loser, apologizing is a start fuckwit

 

[Johnjoebowler]

That yer a loser, apologizing is a start fuckwit

It looks like it went over your head braniac!! After you finish the dishes, ask your mom to help you understand.

 

[Social-Misfit]

It looks like it went over your head braniac!! After you finish the dishes, ask your mom to help you understand.

Nah, admit yer a pathetic loser, much simpler that way you old fucking dick

 

[Johnjoebowler]

Nah, admit yer a pathetic loser, much simpler that way you old fucking dick

Back away with your tail between your legs as you did when you anandoned your Gunnar Id cockbreath.

Its very evident that you're clearly out of your league!!

 

[Social-Misfit]

Back away with your tail between your legs as you did when you anandoned your Gunnar Id cockbreath.

Its very evident that you're clearly out of your league!!

What league is that Johnny?..massage planet morons like you Johnny?
Dude, yer tail is permanently between yer legs, why, cause yer all mouth

 

[Spawarrior99]

I don't mind a nice semi girl - but holistic girls with knowledge and experience of their services, way more weighs of of differentials -
we be talking thousands of an inch now - labia crossings excepted and preferred - Most spa girls, AND HAVE SEEN MANY
make for a good spa experience. Grace and massaging her little bum - I took a good 20 minutes massaging her backside and it was it was so goooood.. fingers / hands massaging the ass of a massage girl.... good - less a little fungus review of lesser substance - makes for a grace day - at the ok coral
no English skills but passionate guys. turn the pages.

 

[Spawarrior99]

I don't mind a nice semi girl - but holistic girls with knowledge and experience of their services, way more weighs of of differentials -
we be talking thousands of an inch now - labia crossings excepted and preferred - Most spa girls, AND HAVE SEEN MANY
make for a good spa experience. Grace and massaging her little bum - I took a good 20 minutes massaging her backside and it was it was so goooood.. fingers / hands massaging the ass of a massage girl.... good - less a little fungus review of lesser substance - makes for a grace day - at the ok coral
no English skills but passionate guys. turn the pages.

The real question is if YO, can trust posters on massage like yourself? Keep up the deflection tactics fungus guy - you Korean ass, 5 foot 4 inch aint NUTHING - shit.... HEAD......
grow a pair why don't ya... - lame ass small of stature Korean dude...... unless you don't have the experience mf - state your ways.......
lees you be classified as less than......... massage planet is waiting...... PROVE IT MF, OR JUST SHUT THE FUCK DUMB ASS.....................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

 

[Young heart]

Young heart how’s life with your girl now ?

She is great!! Her and I are enjoying our time together!!

She is an absolute sweetheart!!