First Time @ Perla

[Jmac]

She could also be restrictive with a guy who she thinks is a sucker who takes whatever. There are girls who say next time everytime. Then there are girls who actually want to keep clients satisfied. Take it slow if that makes you feel better but eventually tell them what you want. Personally I've had a better success rate telling the girl to start sucking early in the session. It's not the first thing I do but if the girl knows what will make you happy she'll probably oblige. It's part of her job and she wants to make money.

100%.

Case in point, S. at Pure. First session I lay down for the bs, she took off her bra I flipped myself quick and got Russian finish fsog. I asked for bj she says 60 for cbj, next session I was hoping for more but didn't say anything and got nothing more than bs with Russian. She's got the looks I go for and that's why I'll see her again. But maybe take your advise.

 

[Whiteboy]

First time using this forum but looking for some advice. I have an appointment at Perla this week with Jennifer and it's my first time ever going to any massage place. Anything important I need to know when I get there I'm extremely nervous because I don't know what to expect.

How was your experience with Jennifer? Did she make you feel comfortable like some of us said she would?

 

[NoSkillz]

Hello, it's been awhile and I appreciate all the feedback. To be honest I pussed out of my appointment because I was so incredibly nervous, I suffer from pretty bad social anxiety and stepping out of my comfort zone can be tough at times. This is however a "fantasy" I have always wanted to live out so I made another appointment for this week with Jennifer and I hope I can muster up the courage to follow through on it.

 

[PrimeRib]

Hello, it's been awhile and I appreciate all the feedback. To be honest I pussed out of my appointment because I was so incredibly nervous, I suffer from pretty bad social anxiety and stepping out of my comfort zone can be tough at times. This is however a "fantasy" I have always wanted to live out so I made another appointment for this week with Jennifer and I hope I can muster up the courage to follow through on it.

Hang in there, man. Try to relax and know that these girls are there to make you feel good.

 

[msgme]

good luck... the first time i went to one of these places i pussed out too but it had more to do with me dropping in and being self conscious about walking into the spa and ppl watching. the next time i dropped in there i was in a sour mood and didnt care about if people saw me going inside or seeing people in there. i just needed something to brighten up my day and getting a body slide with a handjob from a hot girl definitely helped. now i dont give a fuck about people seeing me.

 

[NoSkillz]

Appreciate the kind words. I feel the same way when it comes to just brutal insecurity not only with myself but insecure what others are thinking. I tip my hat to everyone that posts and reviews because it really helps. I wasn't as nervous this time making an appointment so that's a good sign because last time I thought my heart was going to beat out my chest.

 

[young-gun]

Hello, it's been awhile and I appreciate all the feedback. To be honest I pussed out of my appointment because I was so incredibly nervous, I suffer from pretty bad social anxiety and stepping out of my comfort zone can be tough at times. This is however a "fantasy" I have always wanted to live out so I made another appointment for this week with Jennifer and I hope I can muster up the courage to follow through on it.

NoSkillz, I understand where you are coming from, I was, and at times still am, a shy and self conscious guy. I have yet to meet Jennifer but through the conversations I have had with one of her good friends she seems to be a spectacular woman. She doesn't post much on the forum and stays out of a lot of discussion but defends herself gracefully when need be. From what I understand she is a marvellous, beautiful, intelligent woman and she has a way with clients to make them feel extremely comfortable.

One thing i realized 2 years back is I fucked up hard by not taking a chance in life, and when i mean i fucked up hard i mean i will never live it down, i will regret not taking this chance for the rest of my life. I can't handle that feeling, i let it go a bit but it will always be in the back of my mind. From that I told myself I will never do that to myself again and i will always take the chance. Courage is relative, there will always be someone to poke away at the little things, just calm yourself, and analyze what you want to do. If you truly want to do it you WILL do it, don't make excuses just focus on you and what you truly want and life will follow. One day I want to see @SweetCheeks (aka Leela), however at times I begin to psych myself out by thinking about the "what if's", if she'll like me, if we'll click, if the session will go well or if it will all somehow be a shit show. At the end of the day, I just think about it more logically, realistically what could she hate about me, I feel as though I'm respectful, and extremely hygienic, I may not be a movie star in the looks department or a Greek God in the body department but so what, not all the men who see her are either. We may not click, okay well from what I have heard from her and others who have had good sessions I'm not only attracted to her physically or else I wouldn't be so crazy about seeing her. She seems like a sweetheart, a real gem of a girl which in my eyes is extremely attractive, some may only look at the physical and I don't have anything against that, but for me i need more than that. And last but not least, what if the session goes to shits ... realistically it won't ever go to shits unless you were to do something extremely offensive or push boundaries that make the mpa feel uncomfortable. At the end of the day if you don't have the session of your dreams so what? Yes financially you lost some money and time wise you lost at most an hour of your time but in the grand scheme of things its so menial it does not matter at all. The potential positives outweigh the potential negatives in my eyes.

I know it was a long post and i know I'm new to the scene but if you could take anything away from this its that the feeling of regret, in my eyes, is the worst feeling in the world.

Y.G
- p.s ready for the mangina responses whenever lolol

 

[Sammitt]

To be honest I pussed out of my appointment because I was so incredibly nervous, I suffer from pretty bad social anxiety and stepping out of my comfort zone can be tough at times. This is however a "fantasy" I have always wanted to live out so I made another appointment for this week with Jennifer and I hope I can muster up the courage to follow through on it.

I can empathize with your social anxiety, I used to struggle with it too. You don't get over it overnight, it happens with baby-steps. The only way we grow is to put ourselves outside of our comfort zone and become comfortable in feeling uncomfortable. Eventually the uncomfortable goes away. Just do whatever it takes to get yourself in the room, you won't regret it. Honestly, no one there is going to be judging you. The receptionists are always easy to talk to and accommodating. You'll be greeted with a warm friendly smile, they're happy to see you, they want you to be there and they want to make you feel comfortable. It's not likely you'll see any other men, unless you have the first appointment of the day; but if you do, know they're there for the exact same thing, no big deal, just like passing a stranger on the street.

Once you get in the room she will handle everything (literally and figuratively). You don't have to be charming or create witty small talk, you don't need to "have chemistry". She's been with shy self-conscious guys before. She knows what to do/say she knows how to direct the session and all you have to do is relax and enjoy. If you're worried about asking for extras, don't be. It can be as simple as asking, "do you do extras?" She gets it from almost every guy in there, she'll be expecting it. She may even bring it up for you, though if it's something you really want don't wait for her to bring it up. Most girls want to do extras because it ups their income. I like to talk business during the initial greeting period to get it out of the way. You don't need to get in depth or talk details just say you want oral or FS. You can also wait for "the flip" to ask, if you want her to massage you.

Everything is worse in your mind where the worst of the worse is a possibility. The reality is never that bad. Here are some inspirational cliches:

Failure is part of life, better to take a chance and fail than live with the regret of not even trying.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
Nothing to it but to do it.

 

[Timmy45]

Jolie at Flirt spa is good. She is young, fresh lol
So good for first timer

 

[despite_the_love]

I fuck girls I date much better thanks to the experiences with the MPs.