Question How Long Will You Wait?

[xtc27]

If you texted her within an hour of the appointment, there's no excuse for you to wait 40 mins. Using your timestamps, that essentially boils down to her accepting a customer at 1:40 pm (assuming massage was for 1 hr) which is greedy on her (or the owner's) part.

At the very slow places, I understand the MPA's desire to not lose a walk-in customer but there's other ways to go about it. What my fave has done in the past is tell the customer straight up that she's expecting me but can massage him up until I arrive (and maybe go 5-10 minutes longer but that's it). She'll also tell the guy he doesn't have to tip as much. Then it's up to the guy to decide whether he wants to stay or not. In my case, it's only happened a couple of times but both times, the guy decided to stay.

But for her to short change you by 15 mins doesn't even make sense, are you sure you didn't piss her off somehow? : )

Dunno... our connection=her effort. Never been tip hungry w/me. Wasted $$$ on me. Texted me if away too long...

...tried to figure out how I was forgotten... some kinda demons I guess...but she was just wandering, not heading for my room...

...lots of dark speculation why that happened...whatever, she was not going “OMG! I’m so happy to see XTC27!”

I started this thread cos...do we all flip out if the wait gets that long? Sounds like we do.

...most not as bad as me... I’m close to psychotic after 30...after 40, good thing wasn’t behind the wheel...

In future, I walk much faster.

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

That sucks! - You know what though - maybe try reverse engineering and tell them you will be there at 12 noon but show up at 11 am - thats kind of how I do it.
but usually I just text her and let her know Im coming - nbot sure you have any ladies numbers but I have a few and it works better for me that way

I'm always 10 mins. early regardless of who I see because I always respect her time and I feel the less time we delay, the earlier she can see her next client or maybe get ready to go home. I have some numbers but I only text for extreme situations.

Spas are the opposite of restaurants, hotels and airlines. They don't value regulars. They prioritize non-regulars by putting their best foot forward for them to make sure they come back. Once they've come back quite a bit, they jerk them around. Ah what the hell? He's coming back anyway. Let him wait another 45 minutes!

 

[WachuGonnaDo]

The more you repeat, the less you and your time are valued by your regular or the spa.

Agree. As if repeat clients, all of a sudden have the word SUCKER pasted on their foreheads!

 

[OG_funguy]

Spas are the opposite of restaurants, hotels and airlines. They don't value regulars. They prioritize non-regulars by putting their best foot forward for them to make sure they come back. Once they've come back quite a bit, they jerk them around. Ah what the hell? He's coming back anyway. Let him wait another 45 minutes!

It's true they can get 'comfortable' with regulars...luckily, I haven't experienced anything too bad yet (knock on wood). There was one 'misunderstanding' last year which I got pissed about but that quickly got cleared up and my fave showed true remorse and was very apologetic (it never happened again either).

BMC - if it was me, I would tell her how I feel and that she's jerking me around because I'm a regular and she's taking advantage of that. Hopefully she listens and smartens up, otherwise time to find a new fave...

 

[Hangdai]

Agree. As if repeat clients, all of a sudden have the word SUCKER pasted on their foreheads!

We are all suckers, believe me.
They have the goods we want, and they know how men are wired.

The best we can do is not put all your eggs in one basket, so to speak.

 

[xtc27]

That sucks! - You know what though - maybe try reverse engineering and tell them you will be there at 12 noon but show up at 11 am - thats kind of how I do it.
but usually I just text her and let her know Im coming - nbot sure you have any ladies numbers but I have a few and it works better for me that way

... booked for 2, showed up 1:45...texted her directly while OTW... confirmed.

...even with a fave, never gonna wait like again...

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

Agree. As if repeat clients, all of a sudden have the word SUCKER pasted on their foreheads!

Sadly that's the nature of the business. The quality of the sessions determine whether you continue to put up with all the other crap that comes with it or not.

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

It's true they can get 'comfortable' with regulars...luckily, I haven't experienced anything too bad yet (knock on wood). There was one 'misunderstanding' last year which I got pissed about but that quickly got cleared up and my fave showed true remorse and was very apologetic (it never happened again either).

BMC - if it was me, I would tell her how I feel and that she's jerking me around because I'm a regular and she's taking advantage of that. Hopefully she listens and smartens up, otherwise time to find a new fave...

These women are practically part of your life. The dinner dates, hotel getaways, the dates in the car under the stars etc. If you met her elsewhere other than the spa, your "honey" would've been completely at your disposal. I don't have nor want any of that. Just a little professionalism from the spa. Already gave her some attitude last weekend. She was apologetic. I wasn't shorted on time and got a great session as always. She made me forget how angry I was for awhile but unlike the past sessions where I just let it go, this time I'm hanging on to this grudge. I'll take your advice.

 

[thunderfromdownunder]

15 min max

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[Boston Man Chowder]

ha HA HA - I know that feeling - its a game they play - but to be honest - if she really screws me over - then I will go elsewhere - Ive told her Im hooked on her and she knows it!! - when she works at the other spa she seems less hurried but Ive been with her once where we talked for an hour naked before the massage - that day was great! our finish was fantastic and really felt her gush more than ever - lets hope things change for the better for you

I don't think she'll ever mean to screw you. It's just the complacency that comes with comfort but you and kl have that way around your faves that I don't. I try so hard to stay detached from her personal life and keep everything in the room. Maybe I'll text her or just see other girls to blow off some steam. Thanks man!

 

[xtc27]

I'm always 10 mins. early regardless of who I see because I always respect her time and I feel the less time we delay, the earlier she can see her next client or maybe get ready to go home. I have some numbers but I only text for extreme situations.

Spas are the opposite of restaurants, hotels and airlines. They don't value regulars. They prioritize non-regulars by putting their best foot forward for them to make sure they come back. Once they've come back quite a bit, they jerk them around. Ah what the hell? He's coming back anyway. Let him wait another 45 minutes!

...my booked apptmt delayed for a walk-in... or whatever...

...good catch... humiliation of being bumped,..crazy wait...girl actually forgot me... then session cut short...then ghosted...

...from a fave...

...ego boost 2ndary but fun aspect of spas...

..if I ever hobby again, gonna walk lots faster. Appmts sh/b respected, walk ins can wait, waiting over 15, I’m outta there, walking to nearest rival.

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

...my booked apptmt delayed for a walk-in... or whatever...

...good catch... humiliation of being bumped,..crazy wait...girl actually forgot me... then session cut short...then ghosted...

...from a fave...

...ego boost 2ndary but fun aspect of spas...

..if I ever hobby again, gonna walk lots faster. Appmts sh/b respected, walk ins can wait, waiting over 15, I’m outta there, walking to nearest rival.

That is such bullshit on their end. How you waited that long, I have no idea. You should be transparent with your displeasure and stick it to them.

 

[xtc27]

That is such bullshit on their end. How you waited that long, I have no idea. You should be transparent with your displeasure and stick it to them.

...driving for 45 min in snowstorm Sunday...Lots closer spa exist...to see her.

...delays our lil date to wank some clown...or deal with something personal...40 min wait...forgets about me.

...Stick it to them? ...they read my posts.

...me= great client IMHO...weekly... good tips...clean... always nice...extremely loyal... punctual...

...& pretty decent friend... Surprised how little value this has.

 

[Vince44]

I never book appointments - just walk in. That said I always just see who is available and if I do not like the available. I am off. I almost never wait. Maybe 5 Minutes at most if she is desirable. I almost never comeback later as well - maybe the next day or week

 

[Buzzkill]

Dunno... our connection=her effort. Never been tip hungry w/me. Wasted $$$ on me. Texted me if away too long...

...tried to figure out how I was forgotten... some kinda demons I guess...but she was just wandering, not heading for my room...

...lots of dark speculation why that happened...whatever, she was not going “OMG! I’m so happy to see XTC27!”

I started this thread cos...do we all flip out if the wait gets that long? Sounds like we do.

...most not as bad as me... I’m close to psychotic after 30...after 40, good thing wasn’t behind the wheel...

In future, I walk much faster.

Ya, 30/40mins is way too long to wait...I find because we are horny we tend to wait longer than we should, you’ve gone through the whole effort to get undressed, shower and sit patiently waiting...

I’ve had a couple of times where I’ve waited longer than I think I should have, but in the end it was worth it, cuz the girls were gorgeous and gave great service.

Question: I was always under the assumption that your time doesn’t start until the girl enters the room...am I wrong about that.

 

[xtc27]

Ya, 30/40mins is way too long to wait...I find because we are horny we tend to wait longer than we should, you’ve gone through the whole effort to get undressed, shower and sit patiently waiting...

I’ve had a couple of times where I’ve waited longer than I think I should have, but in the end it was worth it, cuz the girls were gorgeous and gave great service.

Question: I was always under the assumption that your time doesn’t start until the girl enters the room...am I wrong about that.

Totally correct.

 

[Buzzkill]

Totally correct.

I always make a note of when they enter so I can gauge the time correctly.

Had a girl tell me to hurry up my time was almost done, which I knew it wasn’t but I wasn’t having a good time so shot my load and left.

 

[cupcrazy]

Totally correct.

that depends how busy the spa is. If the spa is busy, a lot of them will shorten the session. One attempted to shorten to 5 minutes and ask me to flip. I told her if she fucking wants tips, she better gave me more than 5 minutes of massage. She said it is over 20 minutes. I said I don't want anything and left without tipping just to teach her a lesson.

 

[xtc27]

that depends how busy the spa is. If the spa is busy, a lot of them will shorten the session. One attempted to shorten to 5 minutes and ask me to flip. I told her if she fucking wants tips, she better gave me more than 5 minutes of massage. She said it is over 20 minutes. I said I don't want anything and left without tipping just to teach her a lesson.

True....some don‘t follow this rule...

 

[Barney_B]

I wait about 10 minutes and as I am leaving say that I am going to another spa.

My time is worth something until I throw down the cash.