Kijiji Creeps

[EnjoyingLife]

The reality is that the "happy ending" being illegal or immoral or whatever is ridiculous. Sexual service should be completely legal, and not forced into some dark corner because some people are stuck in the religiously dominated past.

It should be prefectly legal for even an RMT to offer a sensual massage as part of their services to consenting adult customers.

I so agree with you dude, but I think some RMT ladies here are afraid that some dudes do such graphic reviews that could result in their license to get reviewed and flagged for misconduct.

https://www.nhpcanada.org/files/nhpc-position-statement-appropriate-professional-touch.pdf​

The NHPC Code of Ethics states that members must maintain appropriate boundaries with a client and refrain from initiating or engaging in any sexual conduct, any sexual activities, or any sexual behaviour involving a client.​

I have been offered more before, but it was on the condition that I never say anything or do any reviews. Some of the RMTs ask me if I write any public reviews, and I say "No" prior to like possibly offering a little bit more. I think those RMTs hate when guys write graphic public reviews as that puts them in the spotlight for their RMT licence to get reviewed for misconduct.

I think the guys who made graphic reviews generally get cut off by some of the popular ladies. I read some guys actually got cut off a bit here and say it is impossible to book with some ladies or get a little wee bit more. This wasn't the case for me, probably because I don't say anything or spread rumors or just keep things quiet in PMs.

If lady doesn't have RMT licence, then I think it is fair game to be more graphic in what is offered and all in the private place. Many guys want to book insurance claims through the RMT's licence.

 

[Spexx]

I so agree with you dude, but I think some RMT ladies here are afraid that some dudes do such graphic reviews that could result in their license to get reviewed and flagged for misconduct.

https://www.nhpcanada.org/files/nhpc-position-statement-appropriate-professional-touch.pdf​

The NHPC Code of Ethics states that members must maintain appropriate boundaries with a client and refrain from initiating or engaging in any sexual conduct, any sexual activities, or any sexual behaviour involving a client.​

I have been offered more before, but it was on the condition that I never say anything or do any reviews. Some of the RMTs ask me if I write any public reviews, and I say "No" prior to like possibly offering a little bit more. I think those RMTs hate when guys write graphic public reviews as that puts them in the spotlight for their RMT licence to get reviewed for misconduct.

I think the guys who made graphic reviews generally get cut off by some of the popular ladies. I read some guys actually got cut off a bit here and say it is impossible to book with some ladies or get a little wee bit more. This wasn't the case for me, probably because I don't say anything or spread rumors or just keep things quiet in PMs.

If lady doesn't have RMT licence, then I think it is fair game to be more graphic in what is offered and all in the private place. Many guys want to book insurance claims through the RMT's licence.

But that doesn’t negate their voices being heard.
I’m just imploring those who practice, to give their opinion or even educate us single minded men on the trials they face.
We so often comment on a pro or con without giving the practitioner the benefit of the doubt. I’ve shit down a contractors throat for no reason other than the fact that something went wrong elsewhere in my day 5min before. Yah I felt like crap, but it didn’t change that situation, nor their impression of me.
My point in this post was to express how very judgemental I’ve been. A revelation that has changed my mindset towards this industry.

 

[Spexx]

A revelation that has changed my mind set is.... at times MP is quite toxic and I actually tried and requested more before from ladies based on rumors here and failed miserably and looked like a complete "creep".

A revelation is that... generally a young hot RMT female would not need to sell her body which is a presumption that some members made here.... and if they are young hot RMT, they would have lots of clients willing to go see them for massage and chat with them pretty much. Some of these ladies can easily make like $80,000k+ a yr just by doing massage, why sell their body? Tell me how a fucking normal guy wouldn't love to spend an hour massage with a nice eye candy RMT regardless if anything further is provided?

Ok Poncho.
Ride that horse then. We’ll see you at pass.
Night and goodbye.

 

[m694ever]

 

[Deleted member 72001]

another revelation is that... money isn't everything to some of these ladies, and to them it is also self respect. respect the ladies and keep it private between you guys and generally they may provide more

Have you thought about giving CAF a try? I think you would do awsome over there.
I believe they are looking for Jesus on that site too.

 

[Massage Me Yeg]

Wow, how a post can go sideways.
I was hoping that some of the ladies who follow this forum might chime in. Especially those that do advertise whether it be Kijiji or elsewhere online and give their opinion of how they handle us Creeps and still open the door with a smile.
The emotional fortitude of women always amazes me.

Haha. Not a woman but if I was posting a massage ad on kijiji I would write "NO EXTRAS" very clearly at the top and bottom of the ad. Anyone looking for more isn't likely going to waste their time n money going to a legit RMT I would think if it's made very clear there or when guys text n ask say no or ignore.

Also wouldn't post any pics of myself ever cuz seeing what a therapist looks like would encourage creep responses a lot.. as well depends what kind of pic is posted.. or the wording.. or lack of.

How many of the guys from here created a stampede for Laura's house after 1 reviewer posted an opinion? Her ad had no pic. 6 words. That's all it took. She's not an RMT so her situation is different but it's true how many guys prey daily on kijiji ads looking for more when leolist has tons of ready and willing chics/prostitutes. I think it's a guys hope of finding an rmt who gives a great massage and a HE.. maybe more that keep a them searching.. or maybe to be the first to post about a new out of the blue pop up shop provider.

The body rub parlours have ruined the line of work it seems for rmts who try to be professional. They have to have a thick skin n not feel or act victimized. Your rmt is drawing the wrong ppl to herself with her thoughts ..It's the nature of the biz n guys are always going to ask.. yes for the weak at heart.. it's best to work in a non Asian professional clinic. It's a tough world out there.. you can either get beat up n stepped on or kick ppl out of your way as u climb up the ladder.

There are many therapists who have been posting on kijiji for years and years.. if what your friend felt was actually the consensus for majority of rmt posters, they wouldn't still be advertising.

 

[Rubmegood]

A female RMT going into the business should be aware of what's going on and what to expect- I would think it would be part of the curriculum.

I agree, if posting on kijiji, if you clearly put "NO EXTRAS" at the beginning and end of your post it should weed out the more respectful customers. Blocking or ignoring the creeps should stop them, too. Eventually I would think word would get around that your place is legit.

Interesting observation: TCM Natural Health and Beauty comes up in a search for massage. When I stopped by to ask/check-out I noticed a sticker in the window that was a police emblem with "agent" under it. That, in itself, told me everything I needed to know!

 

[ChaosFactor]

I wasn’t sure what to expect as every place I’ve ventured through Kijiji until then, have always been “happy” places. Regardless of my expectation, every single place!

So I just caught this after rereading your post. So every place you have gone to via Kijiji has always been a "happy place" whether expected or not.
If this is the case the RMT who complained to you about creeps seriously needs to look at her industry and the way they have trained men to expect more or you chose her (unconsciously perhaps) with the thought/hope she offered more and if so it was something in her ad that gave you that impression.

 

[Spexx]

So I just caught this after rereading your post. So every place you have gone to via Kijiji has always been a "happy place" whether expected or not.
If this is the case the RMT who complained to you about creeps seriously needs to look at her industry and the way they have trained men to expect more or you chose her (unconsciously perhaps) with the thought/hope she offered more and if so it was something in her ad that gave you that impression.

Yes, every place. Having said that, I’ve never ventured to a Kijiji RMT who strictly indicated “no extras”.
And yes, that’s my point. As wholesome as Kijiji tries to be, the massage section is 90% or more places and people who offer extras, they just don’t advertise as such, because they’d get flagged and removed.

The only legit RMT’s advertising regularly strictly indicate no extras or fully draped. The legit ones who don’t post these restrictions pull their ad’s fairly quickly after receiving the barrage of texts looking for additional services.
My assumption why those that are legit and don’t name their restrictions, is probably because they consider themselves professionals and don’t believe they should have to. But they misjudge how many “Creeps” troll Kijiji for a rub n’ tug.

 

[LittleBlakey]

Have you thought about giving CAF a try? I think you would do awsome over there.
I believe they are looking for Jesus on that site too.

lol this el guy trying to convert us not to be pervs? what a poncho... just ignore him... i would never refuse service if a massage lady offered me massage with bbbj afterwards....

hey can someone msg me the list of ladies that provide good massage and bbbj that provide receipt..... now that is what i am talking about on who jesus is!!!! lol.....

 

[Cabinmon]

lol this el guy trying to convert us not to be pervs? what a poncho... just ignore him... i would never refuse service if a massage lady offered me massage with bbbj afterwards....

hey can someone msg me the list of ladies that provide good massage and bbbj that provide receipt..... now that is what i am talking about on who jesus is!!!! lol.....

Yup we’ll get right on that

 

[Rubmegood]

This thread is about Creeps. Looks like we found one!

 

[Albertaman]

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Any rmts want the safest spot to work? .. Miracle Massage on whitemud n 50th. It's owned by Edmonton police chief n his girlfriend. They're both always around. ....

You mean YEG police chief does not have to work at police HQ office... wow, that is some revelation, I think I will apply for that job, and then hang around some mp's that I buy next. Which ones? Suggestions, guys? Getting ahead of myself, let me land that job first.



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[Old Fart]

You mean YEG police chief does not have to work at police HQ office... wow, that is some revelation,

Why would YEG be at city police HQ? City Police would be there. YEG (Code for EIA, NOT the CITY of Edmonton) has RCMP not EPS.
Or is referring to cities by their International airport codes supposed to make you sound cool now?
is age causing me to fall behind in being 'cool' ?
I can't be the only one finding this odd behaviour, can I?
Oh well, anyone interesting in town from YHM?

 

[Bullet]

Went for a massage with my regular RMT. . A Legit RMT.
she told me when she started she would get at least 3 to 4 calls every day. Some one wanting extras .
Some would Text and Some would just ask over the phone
So enough of Kijiji for her.
Generally I am a bit gutsy but not that. Text or over the phone

 

[Albertaman]

Jeez OF, bizarre comments, did not expect it from you. What's so cool or uncool about referring to Edmonton as YEG? If you are having a bad week, hope you find a good masseuse. Cheers


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[distinguished.gentleman]

I can't be the only one finding this odd behaviour, can I?

With all due respect, I believe you might be

 

[Old Fart]

With all due respect, I believe you might be

Fair enough. Guess I will have to get my mitts on a list of Airport codes then if we are going to busing them now instead of city names.
Anyway...Long weekend coming up. Getting ready for my trip to CJS4 !!! Hope it's nice there.
(WOOHOO, look at me. I'm cool now too!!!)

 

[Cabinmon]

Yup it’s gotten real weird with some multiple personality accounts. Real weird :-(

 

[Deleted member 72001]

Had a conversation with a few popular RMT ladies recently, and asked them what they thought about MP. Generally, I don't think they read MP, but they heard about what was written about them from other clients/patients. The general response I received was:

• Some men here are literally crazy (I think they meant that either some guys here are very lonely or have mild psychological issues/mental illness) as they are seeking some of these masseuses for intimate companionship/relationship.
• Told me some guys literally stalked them, and even asked them to marry for money or other very desirable substances.
• When the lady refuses to offer certain services or rejects offer, some guy would literally freak out and make threats of writing bad reviews or make false rumors to potentially damage a lady's reputation.

I read in the past, some guys said it is impossible to book with this lady or that lady, etc. Now I think I understand why.... (see the above points).

Treat these ladies with respect, and if more is offered, keep it private and share via PM with other trusted members. As I said, some of these RMTs have licences and it is their bread and butter to earn money to earn an income or pay for mortgage, etc. You guys don't want to make graphic reviews where it can potentially lead to some of these ladies to get their RMT licence reviewed for misconduct or something when they need to earn an income to pay for stuff.

I think the stalking thing is creepy and relates to this thread, and some guys here shouldn't wait in their car or whatever and stalk the ladies. In the past, one time, a lady has asked me to come by at the end of her shift just to make sure it is safe for her to leave, so now I understand why it was asked before. I also think a lot of these places now, if not all, install cameras, so it is hard to get away with stalking now.

Some ladies are attractive and desirable in this field, but if a lady says NO... don't take it personally, but take it as N.O. = "Next Opportunity". When I was younger, I got rejected by many very attractive girls, and I can use many negative words to describe the situation. In the end, just need to accept it and look for the next opportunity. If you a lonely dude, there are many avenues to meet other great ladies. If some guys want more, like myself sometimes, there are other places that do offer way more.

I thought you were just creepy before, now I honestly think you might be mentally unbalanced.
Get off your soap box and get a massage. Practice what you preach, and treat the girls nice like we do. And..........seek psychiatric help.