MPAs or SPs in real life

[Boston Man Chowder]

Most are so use to lying about everything to every guy they like on the job that it must spill over to their real life. They can't help it, their job is their life.
Guys like ourselves want to believe and think the best of them, but in the end, it's a big game to them, and we're just the pawns on the board.

That's partially true but we can't paint every woman in this business with a broad brush. We're pawns on the board but we agree to it when we pay at the front desk for their service. Let's not act like all of them are malicious women who get off on lying to us. Remember, they're paid to be whoever we want them to be in the room. I'd rather hear sweet lies from her than the cold hard truth. After all, the spa is an escape from reality.

 

[therealcole]

Oh, I thought you were KJ...my bad

No, no, I am krayjee. Will the real krayjee please stand up. lol

 

[OG_funguy]

That's partially true but we can't paint every woman in this business with a broad brush...Let's not act like all of them are malicious women who get off on lying to us.

Completely agree but it seems any attempt to get this point across here is usually in vain...

I'm not suggesting these ladies are all angels but at the end of the day, they are human and have needs and feelings, just like us. Not all are hardened and tainted people out to squeeze every last cent from you.

 

[Ursus]

Krayjee, stop trying to be me.

I am no Hangdai.

 

[cupcrazy]

Completely agree but it seems any attempt to get this point across here is usually in vain...

I'm not suggesting these ladies are all angels but at the end of the day, they are human and have needs and feelings, just like us. Not all are hardened and tainted people out to squeeze every last cent from you.

they are there to make a living. If they are nice to you, stop being a dick to them.

 

[OG_funguy]

they are there to make a living. If they are nice to you, stop being a dick to them.

??? Who's being a dick to them?

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

That’s because I am Ursus.

No. I’m Ursus

 

[Ursus]

Completely agree but it seems any attempt to get this point across here is usually in vain...

I'm not suggesting these ladies are all angels but at the end of the day, they are human and have needs and feelings, just like us. Not all are hardened and tainted people out to squeeze every last cent from you.

The famous 'Not all' argument.

Yes, some Chinese people have blonde hair too. So, I guess telling someone that Chinese people have black hair would be wrong for us to say, right?

SMH.

 

[Ursus]

No. I’m Ursus

You all want to be me.

 

[OG_funguy]

The famous 'Not all' argument.

Yes, some Chinese people have blonde hair too. So, I guess telling someone that Chinese people have black hair would be wrong for us to say, right?

SMH.

Maybe "not all" was a bad choice of words. I would say the majority of MPAs I've met, and certainly my regulars, are not out to suck you dry...financially speaking. Perhaps the type of places one frequents has something to do with it too.

 

[Boston Man Chowder]

Completely agree but it seems any attempt to get this point across here is usually in vain...

I'm not suggesting these ladies are all angels but at the end of the day, they are human and have needs and feelings, just like us. Not all are hardened and tainted people out to squeeze every last cent from you.

These women are villified for prioritizing money. Why? It's a job to them! Getting paid is the incentive. Their duty is to make sure you leave happy. If by happy, you're expecting these ladies to fall in love with you, you're in the wrong place.

Most of us in our own careers could care less about our clients but will move heaven and earth to make sure we accomplish what they asked of us. Not because we care about their personal health and happiness but because it benefits our bottomline long term. Make them happy and they'll keep coming back or spread the word. These ladies' approach is no different.

 

[cupcrazy]

??? Who's being a dick to them?

I am referring to those people who embarrass the MPA in front of their friends.