🔥 My MPA wants to see me again—something real or a red flag?

[Bananafruit]

Some of you guys here are so paranoid that it's no wonder why you can't maintain any relationship and have no friends.

 

[kittyhound69]

Go fuck her . Have no regrets and enjoy. Ps
What’s her name and spa ? Lol

 

[LazyBoy]

Ok, here are my thoughts...

MPA getting creamed is not that big a deal. A lot of these girls have high sex drives, and if someone like me can get a girl to cream during the 10 seconds I lasted, then that girl was probably pretty damn close.

I've had girls ask to meet outside the spa, but it invariably ends up being a "friendly" meet or invitation to pay into her side hustle.

That she is asking for a friendly fuck is cool and panders to our egos is one thing. But meeting at her place is another. Either she has no work sense, lives with other industry workers, or its a set up.

I'm not saying don't do it. My curiosity is piqued. If you do go through with it, then booking a hotel and meeting in neutral territory is the best for both parties.

Point is probably moot now cause of the snow storm but goo luck!

 

[hookerpuncher]

Some of you guys here are so paranoid that it's no wonder why you can't maintain any relationship and have no friends.

Or we're not naive and when things sound too good they are. Sounds like you've never been scammed or robbed.

Not saying girls don't connect with guys outside spas or agencies but usually there's money involved.

 

[MorningWood]

If her shift ends at 2 am, and you have to get up early the next day, make sure you catch some zz's before you go over to her place.

 

[MacReady]

If you are single, then do it.

Like everyone has said leave valuables at home, but fucking do this. If something happens call the cops.

Everyone is forgetting that she said there would be no charge here. So, you are proceeding on that. Which means, you are not breaking any laws. You are meeting a girl you met, for a mutually consensual booty call. That is all the Police will know. And if you have no money on hand, it goes to prove that point.

In my younger days, I got offers like this, and I tried to take advantage of all of them. Most never materialized, but the few that did, adventure city.
These chicks are highly unreliable when it comes to such invitations, so what will likely happen is that you will never get her address. This whole offer will evaporate before it actually happens.
Or it will. You'll get there. Chit chat a bit, and then she'll start in on how she needs some money for this or that trying to guilt you into giving her something, without her coming out and asking. Then the choice is yours if you are paying or not. If you don't offer her anything, she will then say how tired she is, and that maybe you should do this some other time.
Either way. If you are single, it is all shits and giggles no matter what happens, and what else you gonna do that night?

 

[c1000]

I’ve had something happen I never imagined could happen to me, and I can’t talk about it to anyone I know, so I’m putting it down here to share with you all and hopefully get some perspective. To maintain anonymity, I will not share the location and girl.

I have rarely gone to the same parlour twice, and never with the same attendant. Now, I’m about to see one for the second time, and it’s because she actually wants me to (I know, I know, just read to the end).

The attendant I saw yesterday has everything I look for body-wise, and service-wise…I don’t think anyone can/should complain. She blew me away and I could tell from her face during the deed I was hitting the right notes when inside her. Her facial expressions were out of control and her movements as she rode me was pure animal, like she was getting out of me as much as I was getting out of her.

After we finished, she rested on me for a few minutes and I could see she had creamed! She told me how hard it is to be with multiple johns every day, stimulated and turned on, but not orgasm from them. Playing with herself at home after a shift isn’t the same as having the real thing inside her.

And here’s where it gets interesting: she asked me if I can visit her at home after her shift is done tomorrow night. She made it clear she just wants someone to relieve her, she won’t ask for money and no other obligation.

Obviously, I’m thinking about my safety or if there is an upsell once I’m through the door, but she seemed sincere when talking and doesn’t give out the vibe of one of those girls that try to scam you (like strippers or escort girls with pimps).

As of right now, it’s hard for me to think of not going, but interested to hear what people say and of course, I can always change my mind and cancel with her.

What's this girls ethnicity and was she born here?

 

[felixami]

Ok, here are my thoughts...

MPA getting creamed is not that big a deal. A lot of these girls have high sex drives, and if someone like me can get a girl to cream during the 10 seconds I lasted, then that girl was probably pretty damn close.

I've had girls ask to meet outside the spa, but it invariably ends up being a "friendly" meet or invitation to pay into her side hustle.

That she is asking for a friendly fuck is cool and panders to our egos is one thing. But meeting at her place is another. Either she has no work sense, lives with other industry workers, or its a set up.

I'm not saying don't do it. My curiosity is piqued. If you do go through with it, then booking a hotel and meeting in neutral territory is the best for both parties.

Point is probably moot now cause of the snow storm but goo luck!

hotel
motel
holiday inn
is she starts acting up
then you take her friend

 

[hangul99]

hotel
motel
holiday inn
is she starts acting up
then you take her friend

Still good advice all these years later. Lol!

 

[stockup]

Some of you guys here are so paranoid that it's no wonder why you can't maintain any relationship and have no friends.

Exactly! Just wow. I'm the most paranoid fuck I know and I wouldn't hesitate to go for one second as long as I didn't have a S/O that could potentially find out. Leave the valuables at home and go get some pussy. When did life get so complicated that a guy has to over think getting laid? To the OP. Enjoy the pussy and come back and tell us about it.

 

[snoopdoggie]

Exactly! Just wow. I'm the most paranoid fuck I know and I wouldn't hesitate to go for one second as long as I didn't have a S/O that could potentially find out. Leave the valuables at home and go get some pussy. When did life get so complicated that a guy has to over think getting laid? To the OP. Enjoy the pussy and come back and tell us about it.

I love your response. We shouldn't have to overthink about getting laid. But there are so many implications involved today. I don't know if this is true, but from what I've heard, it was so much easier to find sex back in the 60's and 70's. The women were probably hornier in the 50's after the men came back from fighting the wars. That's why we had the baby boom in the 50's and early 60's. Times have changed.

 

[LuckyShot]

I love your response. We shouldn't have to overthink about getting laid. But there are so many implications involved today. I don't know if this is true, but from what I've heard, it was so much easier to find sex back in the 60's and 70's. The women were probably hornier in the 50's after the men came back from fighting the wars. That's why we had the baby boom in the 50's and early 60's. Times have changed.

Sex was so easy in this generation also, there's so many massive sluts out there begging for cock if you aren't an ugly neckbeard all of which would let you fuck them raw every time but with all the bars/clubs closed life is different now during Covid. Fucking hate life now because now you gotta go see so many different girls to find the ones that do BBFS and waste time and money on useless skanks

 

[snoopdoggie]

I don't think looks has anything to do with anything. Millions of ugly guys have been successful with sex and marriages. The HIV crisis in the early 80's put fear in women, especially the high profile people like Rock Hudson and others. Then the condom companies capitalized on this for marketing purposes. Now we have Covid that scared away top talent from the Spas. Coming back from the second war must have been great because the women didn't have anybody to fuck for years. No matter how ugly the guys were, there was probably easy free sex all around. (That's if they were lucky enough to come back) Lest we forget.

 

[Harrk]

Thanks for the comments. Going for it, but meetup postponed. She texted me today and because of the snowstorm, we rescheduled for tomorrow night.

Answering some of the common feedback-

Only go for it if you’re single
I’m single, so I’m primarily concerned about anonymity and security

She’s only doing this freebie to lock you in/extract more from you
She made clear this isn’t a money thing, so if she’s trying to build a sugar daddy relationship after this visit, I can ghost her.

Don’t bring any valuables with you
I have a burner phone, bringing limited cash and going to get a cab (not to exact location). I’m also going to check out where the place is once I get the address and see if it’s an area I feel unsafe. The spa isn’t known for having problems with questionable girls, drugs, pimples, LE, etc, so that helps my comfort level with all of this.

Do it at a neutral spot, like a hotel
On two minds about this, not because I’m cheap, but want to decide once she shares the address because I’m curious.

Where does she work/ethnicity/etc
I’m keeping the name and location private, but can say she’s Chinese in the 25-28 y/o range, been here about 3 years.

Don’t fall in love/stuck in relationship that fucks up your life
I’m going into this with a clear head and I wouldn’t partner with someone like this for various reasons, so I’m not worried (thank you to the anonymous friend for sharing his experience with this).

Also, something else that no one brought up that I realized today: I better bring my own condoms lol

She’s working you, how is she not getting off at a shift and needs more when she’s done?
Not all of the clients do FS and the ones that do, she’s servicing them and not necessarily creating pleasure for herself, some are uncomfortable experiences.

I have thought about how emotionally and mentally sound she is, but if I have this visit in the right circumstances, I can easily back out/leave and ghost her if it doesn’t feel right.

I’ll update after tomorrow, fingers crossed

 

[luvdafurburger]

Thanks for the comments. Going for it, but meetup postponed. She texted me today and because of the snowstorm, we rescheduled for tomorrow night.

Answering some of the common feedback-

Only go for it if you’re single
I’m single, so I’m primarily concerned about anonymity and security

She’s only doing this freebie to lock you in/extract more from you
She made clear this isn’t a money thing, so if she’s trying to build a sugar daddy relationship after this visit, I can ghost her.

Don’t bring any valuables with you
I have a burner phone, bringing limited cash and going to get a cab (not to exact location). I’m also going to check out where the place is once I get the address and see if it’s an area I feel unsafe. The spa isn’t known for having problems with questionable girls, drugs, pimples, LE, etc, so that helps my comfort level with all of this.

Do it at a neutral spot, like a hotel
On two minds about this, not because I’m cheap, but want to decide once she shares the address because I’m curious.

Where does she work/ethnicity/etc
I’m keeping the name and location private, but can say she’s Chinese in the 25-28 y/o range, been here about 3 years.

Don’t fall in love/stuck in relationship that fucks up your life
I’m going into this with a clear head and I wouldn’t partner with someone like this for various reasons, so I’m not worried (thank you to the anonymous friend for sharing his experience with this).

Also, something else that no one brought up that I realized today: I better bring my own condoms lol

She’s working you, how is she not getting off at a shift and needs more when she’s done?
Not all of the clients do FS and the ones that do, she’s servicing them and not necessarily creating pleasure for herself, some are uncomfortable experiences.

I have thought about how emotionally and mentally sound she is, but if I have this visit in the right circumstances, I can easily back out/leave and ghost her if it doesn’t feel right.

I’ll update after tomorrow, fingers crossed

...and no one has told you to make sure you don't knock her up yet!?
Like Mike Tyson says "everyone has a plan until she starts pussy sliding" ...or something like that.

 

[Harrk]

...and no one has told you to make sure you don't knock her up yet!?
Like Mike Tyson says "everyone has a plan until she starts pussy sliding" ...or something like that.

I’ve heard horror stories of condoms with holes poked in them. Not from MPA or SPs, crazy girlfriends and FWBs. I don’t plan on being a statistic

 

[Old No. 7]

Thanks for the comments. Going for it, but meetup postponed. She texted me today and because of the snowstorm, we rescheduled for tomorrow night.

Where does she work/ethnicity/etc
I’m keeping the name and location private, but can say she’s Chinese in the 25-28 y/o range, been here about 3 years.

I’ll update after tomorrow, fingers crossed

I hope it works out to be a good experience for you.
The fact that she's Chinese adds one more small wrinkle (possibly).
She may be looking for a Canadian husband.

 

[snoopdoggie]

I can't believe you're still going through with this. If you have to go through all this stress on trying to decide whether or not to go ahead, then it wouldn't be worth it for me. Relationships either sexual, or not, shouldn't be something to sit on the fence about. If you're not 100% sure about someone, then it isn't worth the stress you're going through. I usually go with my first gut instinct. If my instinct says no, then the answer is no. Good luck either way. I hope you survive your ordeal.

 

[Wolfof6]

Bring some hot sauce too buddy, like Drake

 

[LuckyShot]

Yeah there is still a small part of me that thinks if she isn't Chinese-Canadian that she is going to have some sort of camera set up or try and take the condom off or use one that has holes in it to blackmail you for either $$$ or like others said a husband