New to the scene - How do you politely decline service upon arrival?

[poolstub]

Hey there, I'm fairly new to the scene and have been going around Mississauga to various AMPAs and asian girls on LL. Especially the bait ones near SQ1 area. I've been getting baited HARD so many times (girls not depicted through their listings, such as being slim and what not).

Is there like a proper way to decline service upon entry (when you see the person past the door)? I don't want to keep on paying x amount of money just for bad service and for service I'm not entirely attracted to.

I only went to two good ones that were suitable for me.

Thanks!

 

[JaimeWolf]

Just walk out. The bait & switch transgression is on them.

FYI Asian ads on LL are known to be a shitshow. I usually filter out Asian ads when searching on LL.

 

[Sajam Enjoyer]

You can say nothing and just walk away if you feel like you got baited. I know its easy to have sympathy pains from doing that, but these MPAs/SPs will forget about it.
For me, I just be honest, make eye contact and say "sorry, I don't think this will work for me". Then I walk out.

 

[SuperSport]

Hey there, I'm fairly new to the scene and have been going around Mississauga to various AMPAs and asian girls on LL. Especially the bait ones near SQ1 area. I've been getting baited HARD so many times (girls not depicted through their listings, such as being slim and what not).

Is there like a proper way to decline service upon entry (when you see the person past the door)? I don't want to keep on paying x amount of money just for bad service and for service I'm not entirely attracted to.

I only went to two good ones that were suitable for me.

Thanks!

Many guys are exactly like you, and many of those don't walk out because they did not have a plan either + lack blood pressure to cranium.

Worried about getting screamed at, concerned about being confronted, or chased down by chick which can outrun you?

Do this ,,,, simply say, "Oops sorry, I just realised I forgot my wallet in my car." If you are polite, little chance of it escalating.

 

[emptytank]

Hey there, I'm fairly new to the scene and have been going around Mississauga to various AMPAs and asian girls on LL. Especially the bait ones near SQ1 area. I've been getting baited HARD so many times (girls not depicted through their listings, such as being slim and what not).

Is there like a proper way to decline service upon entry (when you see the person past the door)? I don't want to keep on paying x amount of money just for bad service and for service I'm not entirely attracted to.

I only went to two good ones that were suitable for me.

Thanks!

Just rip the bandaid off. Just say sorry, I'm not interested, and leave. There's no gentle way to tell her she's not attractive and you aren't interested in fucking her. But remember, she doesn't want to fuck you either- she's doing it for money. So it isn't impolite to tell her you aren't willing to pay for what she has to offer.

 

[poolstub]

Thank you for the replies! I guess I'm just too nice to say no or "hurt" their feelings

 

[Mav]

Hey there, I'm fairly new to the scene and have been going around Mississauga to various AMPAs and asian girls on LL. Especially the bait ones near SQ1 area. I've been getting baited HARD so many times (girls not depicted through their listings, such as being slim and what not).

Is there like a proper way to decline service upon entry (when you see the person past the door)? I don't want to keep on paying x amount of money just for bad service and for service I'm not entirely attracted to.

I only went to two good ones that were suitable for me.

Thanks!

Don’t feel bad. Just say you’ll come back another time. You’re not obligated to stay.

I do it all the time.

 

[poolstub]

Don’t feel bad. Just say you’ll come back another time. You’re not obligated to stay.

I do it all the time.

Even after you arranged everything through text? Like that you're coming over to them for <insert name> girl?

 

[xtc27]

Hey there, I'm fairly new to the scene and have been going around Mississauga to various AMPAs and asian girls on LL. Especially the bait ones near SQ1 area. I've been getting baited HARD so many times (girls not depicted through their listings, such as being slim and what not).

Is there like a proper way to decline service upon entry (when you see the person past the door)? I don't want to keep on paying x amount of money just for bad service and for service I'm not entirely attracted to.

I only went to two good ones that were suitable for me.

Thanks!

Spas, its easy… just walk out… moment door closes, they already forgot u…

… in fact, change yer mind, go back up… they wont realize they saw u b4!

Incalls & indy sps can b more difficult… not so many dudes take da bait … they can b superannoyed when u take off… one sp had cute pic,when I got there… HOLY SH!T… Looked like a dude, almost tall as me… Im like no thx right away, took off… a very loud scream followed me down the hall about 5 seconds later!

A rather masculine sound…

But hey, not my probs, false advertising… lotsa dudes in Toronto wanna gay bj… advertize proper place… w proper pic

kindest thing = dont waste their time, once its no, say no, run away… most forget you like that… a few mebbe scream …

 

[Mav]

Even after you arranged everything through text? Like that you're coming over to them for <insert name> girl?

Yep. If she is trying to pull one on you. Leave.

 

[c1000]

have been going around Mississauga to various AMPAs and asian girls on LL.

lol, why even waste your time and theirs? It's just a reality that 99% of these Asian shops will be B&S.

Chances are slim to none you will find a k-pop look-a-like or a Jav model. You have to just accept it and move on.

 

[xtc27]

Even after you arranged everything through text? Like that you're coming over to them for <insert name> girl?

Absolutely. Yer obligation = zero.

Doesnt look @ all like pics = deal breaker… which u can overlook if somehow this chick still appeals 2u…

If u gotta burner, burn it now.

Nvr give an unk new gal yer real or hobbying cell #… thats 4 verified gals.

 

[aFakeName]

Thank you for the replies! I guess I'm just too nice to say no or "hurt" their feelings

Be an adult, JFC!

If you dont put urself first, no one will...... hence why they take your money after reeling u in with the fake pics, bc they dont care about u... so its ur job to care about urself and not put up with anything ure not interested in

and ure there to nut, not to fall in love

and shes there to take ur money, not to tell her mother about what a great guy u r

walk out like a man, dont look back

 

[sy barite]

I know it can be awkward.

Over the years I've used what I hope are gentle lies that end the situation quickly and tactfully. I don't want to hurt feelings, but some of these girls set themselves up by lying about their appearance. It's a silly waste of time and disrespectful. If I don't like what I see, I ask to see everyone who is available. If they say no, or that there is no one else available, then I just say "thanks, another time then". You have to say it firmly because if they note any hesitation, they will try to make you stay. If they start to grab your arm, lower the price, or tell you how good they are at a particular service, I just let them prattle on until they've said their piece, then I let a second go by and firmly say, "thanks...NO". I've rarely had the woman go hostile, but sometimes it happens. Just part of the game.

Thailand was a great place to practice this skill, because you are inundated with so many girls trying to part you from your cash. Different vibe obviously because the volume of trade is so much higher.

 

[xtc27]

I know it can be awkward.

Over the years I've used what I hope are gentle lies that end the situation quickly and tactfully. I don't want to hurt feelings, but some of these girls set themselves up by lying about their appearance. It's a silly waste of time and disrespectful. If I don't like what I see, I ask to see everyone who is available. If they say no, or that there is no one else available, then I just say "thanks, another time then". You have to say it firmly because if they note any hesitation, they will try to make you stay. If they start to grab your arm, lower the price, or tell you how good they are at a particular service, I just let them prattle on until they've said their piece, then I let a second go by and firmly say, "thanks...NO". I've rarely had the woman go hostile, but sometimes it happens. Just part of the game.

Thailand was a great place to practice this skill, because you are inundated with so many girls trying to part you from your cash. Different vibe obviously because the volume of trade is so much higher.

Agree totally.

Key = b polite, quick & firm… then once u leave, they already forgot u… reality is, rejection happens allot, so just make yers an easy one…

My main worry = my burner # getting blocked… I do crush it now & then, but sometimes I’ve been communicating a bit using it & girls think they’ve already seen me… if I reject a gal & her HANDLER blocks me, then Im mysteriously blocked in future f/ girls I nvr met… not gd…

… just make rejection short sweet & not memorable…

 

[Muskokaman]

I say, sorry I'll come back when the girl in the ad is available.

 

[peterparv]

I can't say I've ever been in this position hobbying since I stay very vanilla, but dude...grow a pair LOL. This woman straight up misrepresented herself and you presumably took time out of your schedule to drive across the city to meet her and you are the one worried about offending her? She should be apologizing to you. Hell, if nothing else, maybe you get a discount on service if you stay!

 

[xtc27]

I say, sorry I'll come back when the girl in the ad is available.

… ok as a joke but nvr really say this… it elicits a reply, makes u memorable… just b firm, quick & outta there

 

[Apolyton]

I avoid going to incall SP. Too many disappoints, prime rib offered and find only tube steak upon arrival. Cleanliness on low end, minimal security for me. At least at Spa you have many people in a public place with greater choice and accountability. Most shit gets posted and their business may suffer. So the quality spas typically keep a better operation.

The exception, on occasion, is when I have been asked to meet up with a spa girl at her place for higher milage.

I have walked out of 2 reputable spas lately when the choices were different on the phone and in person. Mostly inadvertently. A name game problem. Cici is Mimi at another place and Bobo at the third place, but also works as Yoyo at another spa 2 days a week.

So keep it at ....what you SEE is what you get.

 

[xtc27]

I avoid going to incall SP. Too many disappoints, prime rib offered and find only tube steak upon arrival. Cleanliness on low end, minimal security for me. At least at Spa you have many people in a public place with greater choice and accountability. Most shit gets posted and their business may suffer. So the quality spas typically keep a better operation.

The exception, on occasion, is when I have been asked to meet up with a spa girl at her place for higher milage.

I have walked out of 2 reputable spas lately when the choices were different on the phone and in person. Mostly inadvertently. A name game problem. Cici is Mimi at another place and Bobo at the third place, but also works as Yoyo at another spa 2 days a week.

So keep it at ....what you SEE is what you get.

Gd 4u 4 walking… … although sounds like mebbe not their fault?

Indy SP might b more fun than those incalls… @ least u can build up some connection, & can b nicer place …