Poll Updated tip guidelines for 2025...take the poll

[Bmofotp]

I think you misunderstand the hobby as it is practiced in Toronto. There are spas that only offer handjobs, where blowjobs and full sex are difficult to get. They are semi legitimate spas. If you want only a handjob, these girls will be pleased to perform. A holistic spa has girls that specialize in bj and full sex, and they will be neither pleased to offer hj nor skilled at it. They will be unhappy to accept $40 or $60 tip as well, unlike the SL mpas.

It seems there’s a fundamental misunderstanding of the nature of this business. Let’s clarify a few things:

A) This is NOT a hobby—it’s a service-based transaction per client with monetary compensation. A buyer and a seller agree on terms, just like any other business. The idea that services are offered on demand, like a vending machine, is simply incorrect. Proven failure and obsolete.

B) The notion of "semi-legitimate" spas is a marketing illusion created to categorize businesses in a way that suits certain narratives. It doesn’t change the fundamental structure: owners set the environment, but the providers themselves determine pricing and services. When management controls what a provider earns, that’s manipulation—plain and simple. A tool from Human Traffickers.

C) The idea that certain providers are "not skilled" at specific services is a misconception. If a provider doesn’t offer something, it’s because she doesn’t want to—end of story. This isn’t about skill; it’s about consent and personal choice. Those who agree to provide a service set their price, and that’s the transaction.

D) Pricing isn’t up for negotiation like a flea market. You don’t walk into a store, and run away with free stuff, demand a different price, or take only part of a product and walk away. If a provider sets a price, that’s the price—respect it.

E) SL and similar are .................. and have reputations for a reason, and those who understand how things work won’t need anyone to fill in the blanks.

At the end of the day, this is a business. Trying to justify lower tips by comparing different establishments doesn’t change the fact that providers determine their own worth, not the clients.

 

[OG_funguy]

Just curious, what would you guys tip for a 1hr session with a pretty semi girl who actually does a good massage for the "enhanced" BS but also BBBJCIM?

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Just curious, what would you guys tip for a 1hr session with a pretty semi girl who actually does a good massage for the "enhanced" BS but also BBBJCIM?

With or without SW?

 

[Lalallala]

Just curious, what would you guys tip for a 1hr session with a pretty semi girl who actually does a good massage for the "enhanced" BS but also BBBJCIM?

I guess my default tip for a PS+ would start at $150. So, as per @Jumpin’ Jack Flash - if included swallow then the rest of the session would be pretty good. I would tip $200+

ETA: after I reach the PS and more stage, I usually just tip based on how much I enjoy the session.. regardless of what was actually done. I also tip a bit more if I feel the girl worked hard during the session.

 

[SlipItInFast]

Just curious, what would you guys tip for a 1hr session with a pretty semi girl who actually does a good massage for the "enhanced" BS but also BBBJCIM?

$140 unless I need to include ‘danger pay’. If its a slutty semilegit where bbbjs are happening, $140. If it is like Just Relax where they really don’t happen much, I may need to overtip.

 

[Justin Cuckdeau]

Just curious, what would you guys tip for a 1hr session with a pretty semi girl who actually does a good massage for the "enhanced" BS but also BBBJCIM?

$100 on top of door fee (for BBBJ and FS).

 

[OG_funguy]

With or without SW?

No SW...but it was done with effort. After spitting out, she came back and continued to clean it up with her mouth. What would you tip for that?

 

[Lalallala]

No SW...but it was done with effort. After spitting out, she came back and continued to clean it up with her mouth. What would you tip for that?

I would easily tip $200+ for that much effort. Easy.

 

[OG_funguy]

I would easily tip $200+ for that much effort. Easy.

Damn, you are a generous guy...now I feel a bit better lol

You're talking just the tip and not the total, right?

 

[Lalallala]

Damn, you are a generous guy...now I feel a bit better lol

You're talking just the tip and not the total, right?

Yeah. Just tips. My highest tip for hh was like $400. It was mind blowing. At least for me.

 

[Lalallala]

Recently I had an MPA complain about a $400 tip for an hour session. Blocked her.

 

[Lalallala]

And then there are girls I see like Christine@iu. She refuses to accept anything more than $100 in tips from me. No matter what, she always returns the extra. Speaking of whom, I have an appointment with her at 1

 

[24hrs]

How have people not realized this guy is just talking out of his ass at this point

 

[Ambler]

And then there are girls I see like Christine@iu. She refuses to accept anything more than $100 in tips from me. No matter what, she always returns the extra. Speaking of whom, I have an appointment with her at 1

So based on your avoidance of low mileage, ie just BS, what is the menu you get for your $100 tip? Some clarity may be of use to readers here, YMMV of course. If you are hesitant to post, feel free to DM members who you feel would be discrete (me) or respectful (me) clients. Thanks.

 

[Lalallala]

So based on your avoidance of low mileage, ie just BS, what is the menu you get for your $100 tip? Some clarity may be of use to readers here, YMMV of course. If you are hesitant to post, feel free to DM members who you feel would be discrete (me) or respectful (me) clients. Thanks.

Basically full nudity without doing anything is $100 tip. Reverse nude? $100’tip.

ETA: I haven’t even gotten as much as dfk from Christine since Dec…

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

And then there are girls I see like Christine@iu. She refuses to accept anything more than $100 in tips from me. No matter what, she always returns the extra. Speaking of whom, I have an appointment with her at 1

I see you cherish your anonymity

 

[Lalallala]

I see you cherish your anonymity

Haha Amanda knows who I am and my MP handle. Doesn’t matter.

 

[BS4ME]

No SW...but it was done with effort. After spitting out, she came back and continued to clean it up with her mouth. What would you tip for that?

Damn that is rare. Easily extra $50 then depending on how enthusiastic she is on the 2nd time maybe more.

Just curious, what would you guys tip for a 1hr session with a pretty semi girl who actually does a good massage for the "enhanced" BS but also BBBJCIM?

What about BBBJ in 69 with an out of the blue, no ask surprised tounge in your asshole. Lol

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Haha Amanda knows who I am and my MP handle. Doesn’t matter.

I’m talking about anyone on here curious who you are

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

No SW...but it was done with effort. After spitting out, she came back and continued to clean it up with her mouth. What would you tip for that?

Some actually get offended when I try to give more $ on subsequent visits where more extras are done when not asked for. Explain that one