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[Chutch]

Amigomio,

No worries. I take long writing my posts because I do it by phone(touchscreen). I don't know if anyone has noticed. Sometimes I even press back one too many and I have to write it all over again. Sometimes I have to remember my main points.

I would say having that feeling of heading back to the States is the worst. That horrible feeling that time is almost up and is time to head back home. That has caused me to make bad decisions and not ask chicas the proper questions.

Perhaps that is the reason that those of us that are coming from the States want everything perfect and hold La Coahuila chicas to a higher standard than we do to our local providers. I don't feel entitled at all that chicas should give me great service. I'm hoping they give me the best possible service because the drive back isn't so great. At least for me.

 

[Whips&Chains]

Sorry GQ: "What concerns me most about getting sloppy seconds is getting a chica that may be jaded."

I stand corrected. Sorry about that.
Sometimes I have to read and write extremely fast when I post at the office.

Anyway, now I notice that we almost think along the same terms, but I can take more time to make decisions regarding the girls since I don't have to go back home in the States...
I understand that in the mongers case, it's "on the spot" decisions or time is up and back home again.

 

[Alexis]

Amigomio,

When I said that chicas win I meant that some monger was going to come in and pay her price. If mongers pay their price chicas win. Since you say pay your price you win. I hate to admit that I've lost my share but those "loses" were alleviated with good sessions.

What concerns me most about getting sloppy seconds is getting a chica that may be jaded. I know that some guys here are going to say that chicas are already worn out from la vida lifestyle. But I wouldn't want to get a chica right after some monger went with her upstairs. I don't trust them and they could use it as an excuse to give me bad service. Then comes if the chica cleaned herself really well after her last session but I don't think that's a problem with bg's.

On that particular win I didn't see anyone else negotiate with the chica. That guy could have blown my work with her but I foiled his plans.

Chicas that make my black list are the ones that are pushy about me taking them upstairs. Pushy about buying her a drink. The ones that get me by the arm in an attempt to take them up. The ones that are sitting or standing up and are on the lookout for a monger who they can see "la cara." Which just means the chicas who are on the lookout for a patsy.

I hate it when I've already eliminated them from any discussion of me taking them upstairs and these chicas are stubbornly making futile attempts. I just don't pay attention to them for as hot as they may be. This actually sends a clear message throughout the club because other chicas are paying attention. This cannot be any more true than at AB.

 

[David J]

Goodquestions:

"In many ways you want the chicas to court you and convince you that they are worthy of you taking them upstairs"

Yep... but they have to convince me with evrything on my side (price, extras, goodies...).


"I understand how you refuse to be bullied by them but don't you think they win in the end(as much as I hate to admit it)?"

Nope, they don't win... but again, this is only for the girls that are on my list.
The girls I start working on, those are the ones that are a flip of a coin. Trail and error, with more error than trial.

"Who wants to take a chica upstairs right after finishing off a monger?"

GQ: Sloppy seconds was the name of the game in the early 80's for me. Am used to it. Besides in those years no one used condoms with the ho's (with the exception that ho's were EXTREMELY clean in those years).


""She told the guy "tu no te decidias en llevarme para arriba y el vino y te gano"/"you didn't make up your mind whether to take me upstairs or not. He came and beat you.""

Heard that many times.... good for you. You are on the winning side.


"She doesn't know this but she's on my black list. She could try whatever she wants but is not going to happen. I've won the battle with her but not the war because I will never know how it feels to bone her. But I don't think I'm missing out on much."

You also have to let the girls know that you are good. You know the business and you have a black list.
Am not kidding. The girls more or less fear a monger that knows their way of working and also fear that said monger could pass along their bad style to others.

 

[witnessofJesus]

Amigomio,

I see your point of view that you attempt to have the chicas give in to you. In many ways you want the chicas to court you and convince you that they are worthy of you taking them upstairs. This explains the "rollo" which means "making up a lie" or "making up a story" that will unltimately favor you.

I understand how you refuse to be bullied by them but don't you think they win in the end(as much as I hate to admit it)? I mean I think is great that you don't want to give an inch. We shouldn't give an inch but at the end it can backfire. Some monger is going to come in, give her his balls, and scoop her up. He's going to mess up your fine work by doing what you refused to do. How do you protect yourself against that? Is probably a no-no to get "sloppy seconds." Who wants to take a chica upstairs right after finishing off a monger?

I probably been on both sides of this juggling act. By that I mean I refuse to be pushed upstairs and I've stepped in and took a chica away from a monger but I didn't know it until I came down with the chica. She told the guy "tu no te decidias en llevarme para arriba y el vino y te gano"/"you didn't make up your mind whether to take me upstairs or not. He came and beat you."

I don't know if he was holding out on something but that could have been the case. At the end you can have the satisfaction of knowing you didn't give in to her. Just like Diana from AB who everytime she sees me she wants to take me upstairs. It all started when she ended going upstairs with a buddy of mine. She thought I was going to go upstairs with her. Ever since then she has tried to make me give in to her just like my buddy did.

I would be dumb to think that she really wants to bone me and even dumber to go with her upstairs when she's being the "dominant" one. She doesn't know this but she's on my black list. She could try whatever she wants but is not going to happen. I've won the battle with her but not the war because I will never know how it feels to bone her. But I don't think I'm missing out on much.

 

[ali.a.j]

I'm all for helping another fellow monger.

 

[Lovelyn]

Hey thanks, GQ11. Like the Ho said, "that's quite a mouthful". LOL

Hope I can remember to use your phrase next time I'm in AB or HK with a bellyful of cerveza and tequila.

 

[Stinky F]

Goodquestions... there is this very delicate juggling job one must do with the girls.

1. They must know that the customer is the one controlling the situation.
2. At the the same time they must get the notion they are the ones controlling the situation.
Which is IMPORTANT to them since they are in the business to try in some way or another, con the customer into getting their money.

Yes, that is another way to see it, they really get our balls if they play their con game the way they want it.

In my particular reasoning, I try to reverse that con game. Since I like club girls, and I have the time to get to them, any girl that asks me "are you paying for sex" I always tell them "not on the first date, specially with strange girls... that's why I have my regular girls.... tell me if you are going to be a better choice" etc etc.

It's what we call in Spanish "rollo", a little subtle not so dirty way of B.S.ing them.
I will not allow to be bullied by her, I will be giving her a chance later on.

Like I said, it is juggling act.
Hope you understand it (if you do, please explain it to me!!!!).

 

[The INFORMER]

I'd have paid $5 not to have sex with her because she was so old and ugly

 

[sdprice84]

I agree with Amigomio on both things. These girls can't be trusted and if you ask for a gfe directly they will have you by the balls. That's why I sidestep a bit by asking them y besas?/besas?/do you kiss? or y va a ver besos?/is there going to be kisses? because like I've said this is enough for her to know that I want a gfe without really telling her. I don't think is a good idea to specifically ask her about a gfe.

The "value" of knowing Spanish kicks in with the way she answers the questions. With her tone of voice, to some extent her body language, the way she says it, among other variables. The ones I've had success with sound "honest," start to hug me and tell me along the lines of "de verdad no la vamos a pasar bien arriba"/"honest, we are going to have a good time upstairs."

For me to take a chica upstairs she really has to convince me that we are going to have a good time and that she will do what I've asked. I have passed on many chicas because I didn't like the way they told me their answers eventhough they told me everything I wanted to hear. I just didn't think they would deliver.

 

[Mike G]

Are you married? This is one of the most frequent questions asked in the hispanic community followed by where are you from? and how many kids do you have? When chicas ask me if I'm married I reply " para que chingados me quiero casar?"/"why in the hell do I want to get marry?" When I haven't seen some chicas in a while they joke with me telling me "yo pensaba que ya te habias casado"/"I thought you had gotten married."

 

[TERESA VIOLET]

How about this? Tu y yo cinco dolares. Bueno? Believe it or not, a month ago I heard a street hoe shout out to me "five dollars!" My only reply was "mas, mas!" She then said "fifteen dollars." I did not partake of her siren call.

 

[Bob]

Is this the formal way to ask a whore in a 2 bit bar, hey bitch are you on the rag?

guys try some international sign language. Point at her, to you, set a price, then slowly extend your right fist (with the thumb side up) and twist until the thumb side is now level. This is Italian for (Hey ya getting any?)

 

[Namibnat]

No. Bajaste is informal; bajَ is formal. Bajaste is the second person singular preterite form of the verb bajar.

Bajar, as you say, means to go down, to get out, etc. (When I was in South America bajar was used to speak about getting off a bus.)

 

[look is linda]

Thank you!

While "ya bajaste" would be understood when I put on my "grammar student's hat" I see that "ya te bajo" is the correct verbage, especially when "la regla" is added. (Until now I've only heard the abbreviated form of the phrase.)

Another word I've heard used is mensual (monthly) used in discussing menstruation.

 

[myopic]

One of the most frequent questions that I get asked is if I'm married. (No) Followed by "por que?" **With hands up, palms up and upward tilt of her chin** I usually answer "no se" but I'm getting tired of being asked this so here's what I really want to say in epani.

"I'm so good looking (guapo, I guess), that all the ladies are afraid of me" LOL

 

[Rachael E]

Qncyk1...

Your phrase "estas tus dias?", lacks a word;
Should be: "estas EN tus dias?"....

But yes, in Spanish a modism of it's your period is indeed "ya te bajَ"

 

[andrew j]

periods are often referred to as tus dias.

estas tus dias?

it is your days(period)?

I have never heard ya bajaste which I believe would translate to you(formal) have already gone down. I have heard "ya, ya, ya" generally after they have had an orgasm which means "enough(implied)already". Also, "necesito espacio" if they are multi-orgasmic. This literally translates to as "I need space" but is referred to as a brief recuperation period before they can orgasm again.

 

[Maggie W.]

One thing here... another way of phrasing the phrase:

Quiero trato de novia = I want GFE
and...
Das trato de novia = Do you give GFE.

And the answer to your question is "no". The girls can't be trusted.

Excuse me guys, but if you go up front and ask the girls "das trato de novia", the ho's know on the spot that they have you covered... by the balls too.

 

[Slightly Offkilter]

There are just tons of ways of saying the same things in Spanish. What matters is that the chicas understand what you want.