Excellent advice - I used to regularly have 4 in a rotation according to their menstrual cycleโฆIโm down to two and looking for two to add again but can understand how one gets somewhat emotionally attached, most girls leave everything behind when they leave the door at night. Until they need to find your number to fill a space in their day to get another $40/60/80/100 billโฆor for a houseโฆ.
Have to agree here, I've had a number of SPA's as close friends and lovers. A few to my home (I'm single). The results are always the same, especially Chinese women are focused on money.
I can speak to having personal friendships with as many as a dozen girls, and had one around my life for over a year. All but this one were interested in money and building business.
When push comes to a shove (pun intended) these girls will take the money and run.
I have the numbers of well over 50 MPA's and the result is always the same, in the cases where they actually appreciate you and your friendship, you will always be SECOND to the cash.
Many of these girls have boyfriends, lovers, or friends and have no trouble spending the night with you and going on vacation with their main boyfriend the following week.
Many provide FS services and then go home to have dinner and relations with their boyfriends, who maybe pick them up at the spa right after your had a session.
My advice, accept the opportunity, enjoy the visits as available understanding that the moment they leave you, they are on to their next customer and next best friend.
So, enjoy ... but make sure you are clear that your friendship will always be a financial transaction first.
Not cynical here at all, but you must understand that these girls are sex workers and do not respond to emotional life the same way most of us would.
They are fully removed from the actions at work, verses life at home, this is work, culturally much more accepted as a job.
Hope this helps, get out there and have some fun!