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[Social-Misfit]

Touché brother, couldn’t agree more with you on that. No future as dead end as it gets. Fk man, even though it leads to a dead end. I still play that game with the same results each and every time. Which is me cutting it off, or me doing something purposefully for the girl to cut it off.

Then when it’s over. I Fkn start again at some point after with another spa chick I’ve seen several times. It’s addictive and I hate to be a dick but I do it because I can. At that point it’s getting play for free. Well not free but at the expense of your time. When the girl wants more of it which the majority of times they do. Time to out. I try not to date them anymore and just leave that where it belongs.

Kudos to you bro, for being able to keep those emotions in check. Some of us don’t have that discipline. Im guilty of falling off the grid with that one too some times. Especially when the sessions get extra steamy.

Also the key being what you brought up. TRUST! Fk man, can’t ever trust these girls. I have to beat that in my head constantly when dating these chicks. Especially when I’m feeling like I’m getting too close. Lord really know if I’m the only guy . I’ll tell you this though they ain’t the only one that’s for sure .



It’s just like getting bonus rounds for free and the engagement becomes a drug till you d

The game is fun to play buddy, I'll give u that, and if yall have the spending cabbage to afford it, becomes even more alluring.
I like a genuine connection, agreed, just learned to turn it off before I lose my poop, and wallet. Not to say I'm perfect, far from it, still make mistakes I just don't repeat them anymore

 

[Social-Misfit]

Like we’ve all been saying in the thread, we’re all human and we all deserve to be treated with respect. A job doesn’t define who we are. Everyone gets the same respect, unless the person gives me a reason otherwise…

Haha, you never know, maybe the three of us have unintentionally crossed paths, haha!

That chemistry is what takes a session from good to great. It’s nice to find someone who you genuinely connect with (and you know it’s not just about the money you’re spending). But like KJ said, it’s a dangerous game to get attached.

Ha, most likely yes, guaranteed we've crossed the same lines, paths, vaginas, orifices..lol

 

[VinnyBulbarino]

Ha, most likely yes, guaranteed we've crossed the same lines, paths, vaginas, orifices..lol

Sharing is caring Brother SM! From past exchanges/messages, we have the similar tastes in women

 

[Bustanut]

Like we’ve all been saying in the thread, we’re all human and we all deserve to be treated with respect. A job doesn’t define who we are. Everyone gets the same respect, unless the person gives me a reason otherwise…

Haha, you never know, maybe the three of us have unintentionally crossed paths, haha!

That chemistry is what takes a session from good to great. It’s nice to find someone who you genuinely connect with (and you know it’s not just about the money you’re spending). But like KJ said, it’s a dangerous game to get attached.

Bang on brother. I respect everyone from the McDonald’s worker to the hoe on church street. The minute I get disrespected, someone’s getting kidnapped and working in a sweat shop in China dem idgaf .

Crossing paths imagine that? Fkn jks bro .

Trust the connection is wild. Once you stop going to the spa and have them wanting to see you on their clock it’s game over…..for either party depending on who falls in love first.

Real talk though, I like the fit chicks. Working out with them is wild. Until the broken English kick in. Shhhh baby girl shhhh we talk after concentrate on breathing.

 

[Bobbadoo]

Bang on brother. I respect everyone from the McDonald’s worker to the hoe on church street. The minute I get disrespected, someone’s getting kidnapped and working in a sweat shop in China dem idgaf .

Crossing paths imagine that? Fkn jks bro .

Trust the connection is wild. Once you stop going to the spa and have them wanting to see you on their clock it’s game over…..for either party depending on who falls in love first.

Real talk though, I like the fit chicks. Working out with them is wild. Until the broken English kick in. Shhhh baby girl shhhh we talk after concentrate on breathing.

I'm certainly no expert in English language, but in given scenario,
when the broken English kicks in...
" I concentrate your breathing?"
"No babe, I'll concentrate on your breathing when and after you know, we talk"
"Me don understand, you don't talk when I breathing?.."
"Shhhh..."

 

[Bustanut]

I'm certainly no expert in English language, but in given scenario,
when the broken English kicks in...
" I concentrate your breathing?"
"No babe, I'll concentrate on your breathing when and after you know, we talk"
"Me don understand, you don't talk when I breathing?.."
"Shhhh..."

LOLOLOLOL!

 

[Bustanut]

Some mpa have bad breath I can say that, on that subject, I like to ask for mouthwash when I am there even though I did before I left the house, its a good look. I sometimes get offered it after too. Hmmm did my tongue get lost along the way?

Brother, mouthwash is a super hero of a look . I don’t know man, some of these mpas got that stank stank. Like I’m talking that bad breath from pacific mall type of breath. You know those Asian skinny teenagers geeked the fk out with chapped out lips and dried seaweed in their mouth. . Dude, i never give a second chance to an mpa who got that type of breath. Yikes!!!!!!

 

[Bustanut]

If I ever find myself with huge piles of money I might try being a whale for a day as an experiment. But I would soon be disillusioned. This old fool wants to feel like SWs actually like me.

Guy, imagine doing that? Holy these fat guys need to know that being healthy is being wealthy. Trust me!!!!

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Guy, imagine doing that? Holy these fat guys need to know that being healthy is being wealthy. Trust me!!!!

At my age, 61, you can see huge differences between those who take care of themselves, and those who do not. Most are on four or more prescriptions. For me just one, testosterone injections every two weeks (if you have low T, TRT is a game changer). Many have major physical issues. Except for some old injuries I do not. I am far from perfect, but I try to eat well, am reasonably active, and I have been taking supplements since I was a teenager. My only vice is THC gummies - I love them! I do drink, but not that much. When I get lazy with my routines I put on weight, but this bothers me enough that I will then return to good habits. There are those who make bad choices, but there are also those who are unlucky DNA wise who have to work much harder than everyone else to stay healthy. Life can be quite unfair, but we have no choice, you have to have good long term habits to avoid a lot of physical problems.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

At my age, 61, you can see huge differences between those who take care of themselves, and those who do not. Most are on four or more prescriptions. For me just one, testosterone injections every two weeks (if you have low T, TRT is a game changer). Many have major physical issues. Except for some old injuries I do not. I am far from perfect, but I try to eat well, am reasonably active, and I have been taking supplements since I was a teenager. My only vice is THC gummies - I love them! I do drink, but not that much. When I get lazy with my routines I put on weight, but this bothers me enough that I will then return to good habits. There are those who make bad choices, but there are also those who are unlucky DNA wise who have to work much harder than everyone else to stay healthy. Life can be quite unfair, but we have no choice, you have to good long term habits to avoid a lot of physical problems.

I am 59 at 15% body fat. I work out sufficiently and love nutrition. I find staying in shape is 80% diet. You can't outtrain a bad diet. I get regular bloodwork and my doctor says don't change everything optimal. Had two new parts put in but still will enjoy a physical and technical job and active lifestyle. Never got laid as much as when I lost 60lbs in a year. 3 or 4 years ago. I'm usually leaner though. Proud to be fit. Thanks for your sharing

 

[Bustanut]

At my age, 61, you can see huge differences between those who take care of themselves, and those who do not. Most are on four or more prescriptions. For me just one, testosterone injections every two weeks (if you have low T, TRT is a game changer). Many have major physical issues. Except for some old injuries I do not. I am far from perfect, but I try to eat well, am reasonably active, and I have been taking supplements since I was a teenager. My only vice is THC gummies - I love them! I do drink, but not that much. When I get lazy with my routines I put on weight, but this bothers me enough that I will then return to good habits. There are those who make bad choices, but there are also those who are unlucky DNA wise who have to work much harder than everyone else to stay healthy. Life can be quite unfair, but we have no choice, you have to have good long term habits to avoid a lot of physical problems.

Wow! Thanks for sharing brother. Very well said. Life is all about choices. I admire your aspiration for good habits and knowing when enough is enough. I’m sure I speak for us all when I say your post, hits home. Thank you .

 

[Bustanut]

I am 59 at 15% body fat. I work out sufficiently and love nutrition. I find staying in shape is 80% diet. You can't outtrain a bad diet. I get regular bloodwork and my doctor says don't change everything optimal. Had two new parts put in but still will enjoy a physical and technical job and active lifestyle. Never got laid as much as when I lost 60lbs in a year. 3 or 4 years ago. I'm usually leaner though. Proud to be fit. Thanks for your sharing

damn bro, 59 and 15 percent body fat. That’s insane. Kudos keep up the good work. Can’t out train a bad diet no doubt that’s why I fast .

 

[Bustanut]

I'm on the senior side of life, a bit overweight but I still get reasonable mileage ... why? Because I do all the things that Bustanut says... it isn't rocket science, just great advice that costs nothing, but reaps substantial rewards. Thanks for putting this out there, I'm sure many MPA's will appreciate anyone taking your suggestions on board.

Brother, mad respect and thank you again. I just read this one over. You being in your golden years and still running game shows how well crafted and well put together you are. Hope the mpas read this and recite it as a prayer. So they give extra mileage to the Brothers when they come in. Knowing we don’t just put money down on the table we put work in to get the extra mile.

 

[Bustanut]

I've seen it they will get some crazy, old, fat european that can't get off. He wants several hours they don't stop and it causes injury. Seen it on more than one girl

Bro, that’s crazy. I have yet to experience seeing this. Let alone hearing about it. The dude probably enjoys pain. I enjoy when an mpa goes extra hard on the deep tissue. That’s the pain I like.

 

[startbeforeIfinish]

Bro, that’s crazy. I have yet to experience seeing this. Let alone hearing about it. The dude probably enjoys pain. I enjoy when an mpa goes extra hard on the deep tissue. That’s the pain I like.

I like deep tissue too. I say you can't hurt me. There is a number of good techniques these girls have. I like it at the end when they start banging on me. I've had very good thai massage in Thailand authentic 2hrs and it matches. I'm talking independant girls especially from china.

 

[Bustanut]

I like deep tissue too. I say you can't hurt me. There is a number of good techniques these girls have. I like it at the end when they start banging on me. I've had very good thai massage in Thailand authentic 2hrs and it matches. I'm talking independant girls especially from china.

Deep tissue is the best for people who like to work out. Dang bro, you like the banging at the end? That’s the only part I don’t like haha. Chinese girls imo do it best. They just know when and where without you telling them anything.

 

[krayjee]

I am 59 at 15% body fat. I work out sufficiently and love nutrition. I find staying in shape is 80% diet. You can't outtrain a bad diet. I get regular bloodwork and my doctor says don't change everything optimal. Had two new parts put in but still will enjoy a physical and technical job and active lifestyle. Never got laid as much as when I lost 60lbs in a year. 3 or 4 years ago. I'm usually leaner though. Proud to be fit. Thanks for your sharing

At my age, 61, you can see huge differences between those who take care of themselves, and those who do not. Most are on four or more prescriptions. For me just one, testosterone injections every two weeks (if you have low T, TRT is a game changer). Many have major physical issues. Except for some old injuries I do not. I am far from perfect, but I try to eat well, am reasonably active, and I have been taking supplements since I was a teenager. My only vice is THC gummies - I love them! I do drink, but not that much. When I get lazy with my routines I put on weight, but this bothers me enough that I will then return to good habits. There are those who make bad choices, but there are also those who are unlucky DNA wise who have to work much harder than everyone else to stay healthy. Life can be quite unfair, but we have no choice, you have to have good long term habits to avoid a lot of physical problems.

Very impressive young guys..

I am turning 77. I never think I am old. I looked in my late 50s with a body of 40, with some left over 6 packs. I run stairs every morning followed by a few push ups, a few sit ups, and play golf 4-5 times a week carrying bag and walking. Pls remember...Muscles are made to move, use it or lose it. Stress is the number one killer. Don't stress for small things and don't worry about things beyond your control. I never worry about what others think of me. Health is wealth. Stay fit, live happy and healthy. Be kind to others, help them whenever you can. Life is too short. We all have expiry dates, Enjoy it while you can..

 

[Bustanut]

Very impressive young guys..

I am turning 77. I never think I am old. I looked in my late 50s with a body of 40, with some left over 6 packs. I run stairs every morning followed by a few push ups, a few sit ups, and play golf 4-5 times a week carrying bag and walking. Pls remember...Muscles are made to move, use it or lose it. Stress is the number one killer. Don't stress for small things and don't worry about things beyond your control. I never worry about what others think of me. Health is wealth. Stay fit, live happy and healthy. Life is too short. We all have expiry dates, Enjoy it while you can..

Wow! Spoken like a true zen master. 77 and still running game. I salute you and couldn’t agree more. You have an impressive regime. This is something people should really learn from. I love how we are all integrating the aspect of being healthy both physically and mentally.

Mindset is everything, for those young bucks reading this. You better take the note pads out and get started on this path to being healthy.

For me i start everyday with a sense of gratitude and appreciation for the life I live. I’m at the gym everyday first thing in the morning. Lift weights followed by crazy cardio. It’s fuels my day. I take one rest day every other week. The muscles and veins are a bonus. It’s what working out really does for me mentality. Once I’m done at the gym I mediate. Think about what needs to be accomplished for my day and then go take care of it.

A lot of dudes in this hobby just go for the sake of being wacked off. I go more so as a treat once I feel I earned it or to relieve stress. Stress is the absolute worst. When you stress everything goes out of wack. Try and remain calm at all times. The less worries the better.

 

[Sybarite]

If you are not the most handsome; if you are not the most fit; if you are not young anymore, this is the hobby for you!

As long as you are clean, gentlemanly, appreciative, and tip for great service, the right girls will still treat you like kings regardless...

In many ways that's actually the entire point of the service! This is not dating!

 

[Bustanut]

One more thing to touch up on what @krayjee mentioned. Which is we all have an expiry date. At any given time everything can be taken away. Don’t take what you have for granted. Enjoy everyday and make the most of it. I’m currently in Europe right now enjoying the fruits of my labour. Travel and see the world if you go with a baddie that’s great. If it happens to be a spa chick you TRUST even better. If not just pick a girl up along the way .

Back on topic I also want to add for more mileage scrub your damn feet. I forgot about this one. People who have crusted feet who don’t exfoliate them, end up giving the mpas a nightmare about feet. The dead skin that doesn’t get scrubbed off is a fkn disaster to look at. I mean fk a lot of people hate feet and I’m one certainly one of them. With that being said guys, please scrub your feet. If you do it will add to your mileage. Chicks pay heavy attention to detail.