Daty With An MPA!

[Lebeautemps]

Ya know...

I have a headache today and really don't want to get into it, but your reasoning is so ridiculous I can't help myself.

(a) Ya ever think that maybe, just maybe, working girls who overcharge you are nicer to you (which you interpret as them being "happy people") because they want you come back and overpay again?

(b) So money=happiness? Maybe for 2.5min. In my experience, some of the happiest and most fulfilled individuals have a two figure bank account while those who are good for 10's-of-millions are miserable.

(c) I personally have a reputation in my line work to be the most expensive out there. Heck, most would say I overcharge Yeah, I'm good, and the market knows it. And sure, I'm all about you get what you pay for. While I treat my clients like gold, the smart ones know that the charming smile and D&G suit I show up in is on their dollar - but their wise to it! And certainly they don't retain me b/c I'm "happy". Fuck, I'm the most miserable rich bastard you'd ever meet!

(e) Do you think those that overcharge have a permanent ceiling on their price point? What happens when your $450/hr isn't quite cutting it against someone even more silly who will go in for $600/hr. Is she still going to be as "happy" to see your 75% ass? Cause that'll be your name at that point; "75%".

I could go on and on, but I've got a headache...

kkarn/

 

[Cathy]

how about the lady down the street? There are lots of non-pros out there who engage in risky behavior. Violet is right about ladies that you meet in bars and take home. After a few rounds, people do things without thinking. I find that most MP's and Sp's are more aware of associated risks and take more precautions.

I'm still laughing about Schmengie's comments about pay for play. We all pay in the end. It's like laughing at the guy who buys a treadmill when he could just go outside and walk. Why rent porn if you can just bang your girlfriend? If I go see a MP or SP, its because I want to. I don't have to worry about any head games, or nagging, or anything else that might bother me. I'm there to fulfill a fantasy. After it's over, we go our separate ways. Luckily for Schmengie, we live in a free world and he's not forced to pay for it.

 

[greennupa]

was just a little condescending. Good thing that I'm not as judgemental as she is. I wonder what I could say in return? But I won't, because I came to this site to become informed about this hobby, rather than insult people.

 

[?????????????????????]

Sophie is one of the coolest MPA's out there. Too bad she's so hard to book. I miss seeing her

 

[????t???????]

My thread on the subject captioned above, has really become a 5-star Thread which is in
Massage Palour Section
Guys keep giving your valuble view on this delicate matter. My hearty tks to all who have given their views, as well as those who read it. Safety is more important than feeling sorry when you suffer any unknown desease.

 

[KiwiJoey]

yup and some guys pay to get bossed around,slaped with whips,get treated like a dog. the point is people have diffrent tastes and fetishes and they are not forcing any one to do it . so if thats your fantasy and and someone is willing to fullfill your fantasy for a fee then there is nothing wrong with it and both parties come out of it with what they wanted.

"water comes out of the tap for free,so why buy bottled water, because we want too, me i don"t drink water from the tap because fish fuck in it"

 

[Destrucity]

I love a good open-debate. I'm sorry your headache debilitated you so badly, and I invite you to reopen this when you're feeling up-to-snuff! Of course, I can't imagine you would, because if you were thinking clearly you would never have begun this dialogue?


No, because I have never been overcharged. I was always asked for the rate which they advertized, and paid it. If they were particularily worthwhile, I'd generally include a gratuity, because in my view, currency is the sincerest form of flattery.

But presuming what you mean to say is "Do I think that SPs who charge what they feel they are worth, and receive it, are nicer people?" then the answer is yes, as I had stated previously.



Your headache must have prompted this logical-disconnect (you are arguing from a minor-to-major premise).
I never suggested anything of the sort, and concur completely that many of the happiest people I know are chronically short-on-funds, whereas most of the least-content people have more money than I could spend.

Money cannot make someone happy - it's not even a motivator in most cases. But it sure can make being miserable a lot easier to bear!

What I was suggesting and stand-by is that people who FEEL RESPECTED and feel self-respect because they believe they are being valued for their work ARE HAPPIER PEOPLE. Quod erat demonstrandum.


Similarly, in my line I am far-and-away the most expensive option. I pride myself on being worth it - and my overwhelmingly high repeat business proves it. I won't take on a client unless I believe they will generate at least a tenfold-increase in profit or savings over my consulting fees, and word-of-mouth is the ONLY advertising for me, period.

I'm sorry you're a miserable bastard. I imagine that the source of your dissatisfaction in life may be because you have a hate-on for people, and your cynicism precludes you actually enjoying the company of women?

** Note: I did not omit kkarn's point D, he appears to have miscounted, and moved from C to E directly.


I recommend reading Adam Smith's "The Wealth of Nations" written in 1776, which is a seminal treatise on the concept of 'laissez faire' economics. In this work he details a notion called 'The Invisible Hand' which describes the self-regulating nature of pricing - things which are inappropriate cannot maintain themselves in a free market.

Naturally, if an SP recognized that her time has become worth $600 per hour, she would decide (as hairstylists do) if she valued a long-standing customer's business enough to accept her previous-rate in exchange for the comfort of knowing she was sure to have a satisfying encounter.

After you have read (and hopefully understood) Smith's book, feel free to reopen the subject with me? We don't need to bore everyone else with this self-evident topic, so you should just PM me at that point.


Hope that clear up soon! And good luck with the 'miserable bastard' part too!

Philski

 

[The Ozzman]

*lol* nice!

 

[Wizzel]

Calling your own thread a "five star thread" is really kind of lame. It's like giving yourself a cool nickname like "T-Bone."

 

[CipBerGreelia]

One possibility would be the following:

SexyViolet: "I'm sorry you have to pay for love"

Xdog: "And I'm sorry you have to give head to get paid"

 

[masshole in florida]

Man that dictation software SUCKS!!!

 

[ermy]

The only safe sex is sitting home by yourself jerking off to porn.

Therefore, this hobby is about risk management.

Clients have to take responsibility for their OWN health and decide which activities they wish to engage in.

Personally I prefer Russian and Digits to DATY.

Italian's getting closer to unprotected genital/genital contact but I'll live with that risk now and again...

With DATY you MUST assume that if an MPA sees 6 clients in a shift MOST are getting it. As any hobbyist knows "I only do this with you" is total bullshit.

If you're REALLY lucky the MPA will reserve DATY for repeat clients which cuts down the risk a bit, but it's still not "safe"...

 

[Papa Alpha Oscar-lylo]

The more you know, the more you grow. Cue the shining stars and NBC PSA music.

This PSA was brought to you by those who believe in safe bodysliding.

 

[Livestrong2009]

lmao

 

[i love makeup<3]

Oh Gawd...

I can't do it. Not today.

 

[2nd In Command to Chris]

I'll play just a lil' bit'

Captain of the Debating team writes...



Shall I resolve than that in your world the advertised price is by default never overpriced [because it was advertised]? You need not "presume" what I meant, it was quite clear; if the market sells widgets for $3-$5 depending on quality and you pay $8, you've overpaid [regardless what the advertised price is]. I think you're suffering from cognitive dissonance. The good news is, there is medication for that which you can find at -
www.sexyvioletsmeds.com

I'm placing an order right now for some Zoloft to help me out with this Miserable Bastard ailment i've got going on.

 

[Extra Crispy]

Agreed. Nothing more unattractive than giving yourself props.

PS For some reason your sig. line pic reminds me of that scene in Juice where that guy holds up a bar and asks everyone to get naked.

 

[b3k@]

bro,they all do FS the differens is how much

 

[jeffrey]

shmengie,you are right on the dot

 

[Suburbia]

heehee, that's cute - who knew I ran a use car dealership and now a pharmacy! Sexy Violet will take over the world - one industry at a time!

p.s. good luck with the Zoloft, I'm sorry it was overpriced
(seriously though, no hard feelings :-D)