Review DIY versus ASSISTED Happy

[Albertaman]

The Do It Yourself subject comes up often on most massage boards. It may result in confusion for newbies as it leaves them with the idea of providers who stop interacting altogether, while giving them permission to wank themselves. Not to say that there aren't some providers like this. Worst case, there may be providers who walk away, but give the poor sod permission to jerk off alone on the table. Sad stuff.

Experienced massage connoisseurs know that there are many types of providers. Among the receipt giving RMTs there is an entire range of erotic experience givers that I classify as "ASSISTED HAPPINESS". So posting this thread opener with the idea of sharing some ideas. Please refrain from posting names or information on specific RMTs, unless you are sharing directly by PM with someone you trust.

To lead off, here are some types of assisted happy experiences:

The therapist provides a great therapeutic massage, and then proceeds to make lots of contact with the balls and sides of your shaft while you are face down. On turning over, even though she never jacks you off, her forearms keep rubbing against your shaft, sometimes even using a small towel as a tugging tool, and she might even pour warm oil directly on your dick. The result is a prolonged edging experience. Whether you pop at the end or not is variable. These sessions can get intense, especially if she permits that you can touch her. All about YMMV. The key is that she is NOT giving you a handjob. Personally, I find these sessions are quite invigorating, especially if one booked a 90 minutes or 2 hour session, and it applied throughout the last half hour, after the therapeutic segment is completed.

I will share another type of ASSISTED massage technique that I experienced recently with a RMT that found particularly rewarding in another post.

Curious to know if others enjoy these types of massages.


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[Massageme13]

Can you pm me who that provider is

 

[sleeker]

Not a fan of DIY personally. I can just do that at home. May consider it if the therapist is super hot and dressed in a revealing manner but that’s not the case at XP.

 

[Albertaman]

Not a fan of DIY personally. I can just do that at home. May consider it if the therapist is super hot and dressed in a revealing manner but that’s not the case at XP.

Think you missed the whole point of the post. . DIY ain't the same as ASSISTED. Assisted experiences aren't available at most RMT's, but when they are, and both the masseuse and client share some chemistry, imagination and intelligence, the results can be pretty impressive. And a whole lot let expensive than FS deals, but nonetheless satisfying. Each to their own. I will post another interesting experience that I had recently in a future post.


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[Albertaman]

Think you missed the whole point of the post. . DIY ain't the same as ASSISTED. Assisted experiences aren't available at most RMT's, but when they are, and both the masseuse and client share some chemistry, imagination and intelligence, the results can be pretty impressive. And a whole lot let expensive than FS deals, but nonetheless satisfying. Each to their own. I will post another interesting experience that I had recently in a future post.


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Correction: a whole lot less expensive than FS experiences


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[JessesBig]

Can you pm me who that provider is

Me too if you can!

 

[Rubmegood]

Can you pm me who that provider is

Me too if you can!

I think you guys are missing the point here as well. Albertaman isn't discussing "who" he's raising the topic of "what". Please don't hijack the thread going off on "Who does what."

But back to the topic- Maybe I don't have enough experience, but from my experience "Assisted" means "DIY". There will be a lot of teasing and edging and then they pour oil on you and gently take your hand and place it strategically giving you no doubt what they require you to do while they continue to do more teasing. Sorry- not a fan!

 

[Bob the Knob]

DIY is not on my list of extras

 

[Albertaman]

Think most of you missed the point. Wanking yourself is DIY. ASSISTED is another world


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[Albertaman]

Here is another recent experience of Assisted. Good therapeutic massage, only the second time with this RMT. While still working on my back and glutes, she climbed on the table, with a thin linen half sheet between us, and proceeded to use her hands, forearms, and elbows to apply deep pressure on my butt muscles. Then in order to work more on my upper back and shoulders, she sat on my butt, still with sheet between us, and the rocking motion butt to butt was pleasant. On turning over, she used the same thin half sheet to cover my tent pole, and proceeded to give a great massage on both thighs, quads, IT bands, and then the inner thighs, hands, and forearms brushing against the base of my pole, under the sheet. As she then began massaging my chest/pectorals, I took a chance and made a suggestion. This was spontaneous, as I had not planned anything. I suggested that she sit on me, with the sheet between us, and then massage my chest. She had a pair of tight yoga pants, and with a toned figure and butt. At this moment, rejection of the idea was a genuine possibility. Till now, my hands had only grazed her thighs, sides, and rear, but with no serious devotion. Fortunately, she smiled, and then said ok, and hopped on the table. She sat on my torso, with the tent pole positioned under her camel zone, but with the thin linen sheet between us, and she was still clothed. She massages my chest, and she rocked and rocked. By now my hands held her cute bums still clothed. Must admit that I have never had a covered, and clothed pussy slide before. It certainly delays the outcome. Oddly, she really got into it too, and continued the rocking and sliding movements until I ejaculated. TBH, it was one of the most forceful orgasms that I can remember. Was it because it was totally unplanned? Or because it was totally unique to me? No idea, but it was definitely enjoyable. Was it DIY? No way. I would call it ASSISTED. With some imagination and a little bit of suggesting/prompting, a handful of our RMTs might agree to new definitions of pleasure.


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[deepbrowneyes99]

Here is another recent experience of Assisted. Good therapeutic massage, only the second time with this RMT. While still working on my back and glutes, she climbed on the table, with a thin linen half sheet between us, and proceeded to use her hands, forearms, and elbows to apply deep pressure on my butt muscles. Then in order to work more on my upper back and shoulders, she sat on my butt, still with sheet between us, and the rocking motion butt to butt was pleasant. On turning over, she used the same thin half sheet to cover my tent pole, and proceeded to give a great massage on both thighs, quads, IT bands, and then the inner thighs, hands, and forearms brushing against the base of my pole, under the sheet. As she then began massaging my chest/pectorals, I took a chance and made a suggestion. This was spontaneous, as I had not planned anything. I suggested that she sit on me, with the sheet between us, and then massage my chest. She had a pair of tight yoga pants, and with a toned figure and butt. At this moment, rejection of the idea was a genuine possibility. Till now, my hands had only grazed her thighs, sides, and rear, but with no serious devotion. Fortunately, she smiled, and then said ok, and hopped on the table. She sat on my torso, with the tent pole positioned under her camel zone, but with the thin linen sheet between us, and she was still clothed. She massages my chest, and she rocked and rocked. By now my hands held her cute bums still clothed. Must admit that I have never had a covered, and clothed pussy slide before. It certainly delays the outcome. Oddly, she really got into it too, and continued the rocking and sliding movements until I ejaculated. TBH, it was one of the most forceful orgasms that I can remember. Was it because it was totally unplanned? Or because it was totally unique to me? No idea, but it was definitely enjoyable. Was it DIY? No way. I would call it ASSISTED. With some imagination and a little bit of suggesting/prompting, a handful of our RMTs might agree to new definitions of pleasure.


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Wow… that sounds erotic ..

I would be totally game for this
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[Albertaman]

Unfortunately, I am getting PMs asking the same questions.. who? Etc etc. The reason for my posts is to provide more ideas for those who truly enjoy massages to explore a bit more of themselves, and to help the occasional open minded providers explore a few more possibilities. Everything is not about full service copulation, nor about hand jobs. Given the sad state of affairs at many AMPs, surely a few connoisseurs are willing to put in the effort to try some things on their own. Discover new experiences. Seek new grounds. Good Luck.


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[m694ever]

I remember a lady who was a bit shy working at that MP on Argylll that closed for the LRT expansion. Saw her a few times and she only did BJs. One day she wanted to watch me diy. She had this thing for it and pretty soon we had a mutual diy session. Then another and another. Never got tired of her getting herself off. Then one day as it goes. Poof she disappeared.

 

[Albertaman]

These are not easy times when one has to discern a smile or a frown by looking at the eyes only. But I do feel that there is more potential in the RMT world than in the menu driven, money grabbing AMP world.


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[Guy2013]

I remember a lady who was a bit shy working at that MP on Argylll that closed for the LRT expansion. Saw her a few times and she only did BJs. One day she wanted to watch me diy. She had this thing for it and pretty soon we had a mutual diy session. Then another and another. Never got tired of her getting herself off. Then one day as it goes. Poof she disappeared.

Ah yes, Prestige Massage, spent many a happy hour there. My favorite was Mystique. a taller brunette with lots of ink and a killer body

 

[Rubmegood]

Nice try, Alberta man but this thread's not gonna fly.

 

[Albertaman]

Nice try, Alberta man but this thread's not gonna fly.

Nothing has to fly. . Sharing ideas. I am having fun without blowing my wallet.


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[bigbill]

If you're into exhibitionism, the assisted-DIY can be quite erotic and stimulating. There are a select few providers that not only do this "assisted" DIY, but seem to revel in what you're doing, which can feed some needs/desires. There are also many that seek CFNM situations, with varying degrees of interaction. I don't kink-shame anyone and if something works for you, go for it.

 

[sleeker]

If you're into exhibitionism, the assisted-DIY can be quite erotic and stimulating. There are a select few providers that not only do this "assisted" DIY, but seem to revel in what you're doing, which can feed some needs/desires. There are also many that seek CFNM situations, with varying degrees of interaction. I don't kink-shame anyone and if something works for you, go for it.

Id be down for CFNM if the SP dressed well. Sunny comes to mind but nobody else really.

 

[luckydog]

Assisted happiness is a good term and agree it is not just DIY. The experience I am thinking of is usually 90 minutes and is a blend of excellent massage and stellar teasing, incredible reach under, finger tips and the edge of her hand sliding between the butt cheeks, and frequent caressing of the balls. On the flip it is 20 minutes at least of massaging my balls, hands sliding over the LG and my hand between her legs from behind (over her yoga pants or uniform. She rocks back and forth and seems to like the pressure I provide there. When I look up at her she is totally focused, her eyes on what her hands are doing and the look on her face is erotic, hot, never clinical. Eventually she places my hand on the LG and then massages my balls until I explode and she is watching this with a lot of interest and rocking on my hand. While I do want the full meal deal, and get that elsewhere, I have to say my experience with her is very erotic and pleasurable. I like different experiences and this is one of them. When I am spent, she cleans me up and finishes me off with another 20 minutes of massage.

Dont ask me who. My point here is to describe my experience with assisted happiness. Good post Albertaman.