My sympathy for "The Married Man"

[Nik]

I'm afraid to say it RS, but that's ALOT more common than you'd think. I get depressed just reading this coz it used to be me.

The last year my wife and I were together we had sex 4 times in 5 months, and she gave me a BJ 2 of those times.... and forget DATY coz she thought that was plain gross....

Of course, whenever I asked for intimacy I heard every excuse under the sun, but the bottom line was that I was a pervert, plain and simple...

... but her list of chores for ME to do around the house was never ending, and she could be VERY demanding on that front !

Towards the end of the marriage, I gave her 2 choices:

1.) Put out more
2.) Put out the same and I'll fill in with MPA's.

Gotta be honest and up front right ?

Well, neither solution was acceptable, at which point I reponded that as long as I was willing to live without everything would be fine.... coz she was getting what SHE wanted...

IE>> "nothing"

... oh and forget porn too, coz that's degrading to women, blah, blah, blah

I look back and wonder why I wasted 9 years of my life, then realize it could have been 40 years and breathe a sigh of relief.

MP's provided a short term solution to let off some steam, and now I'm searching for a middle path in my life, that will enable me to do all the things I want, like travel, buy a new Mustang etc etc... plus hobby more "responsibly..."

My decision to leave has definitely cost me financially, and I don't know if I'll be able to buy a house again, short of meeting somebody else to settle down with.

Anyway, now I can work out, go out with my friends and put on my favourite porn films whenever I feel like it ... and there's always hope of finding a GF to do stuff with...

 

[Codys mom]

Great point jetfuel. The hormones don't all of a sudden die off when you put that wedding ring on. Some guys get the seven year or the ten year itch. Others deal with 17 year cravings for something different. Men have become much better dad's and take a bigger role with the family but they still get quite horny and look at those copies of Playboy's Lingerie Editions and think to themselves "If I knew then what I know now". Many also know that the twenty something hardbody MPA or SP is only a phone call or an email away. Its kind of a social thing. You catch up with your choice lady, you live your fantasy for maybe a half hour or maybe an hour or two. You play safe. The MPA or SP makes some coin. Hopefully you are a gentleman and she enjoy your company. You get to share the touch of this incredibly beautiful hot lady who has so much going for her. Its not just her goddess-like appearance, most are intelligent, worldly and well adjusted. They realize this isn't a lifetime job, but one that allows them to make some serious dolllars within a couple of years. Life is good, lets not over-analyze things.

Studies show that Married men live alot longer and are happier than those single guys that go into their thirties and fourties (or those eternal bachelor boys) without a wife and kids.