Question Seeking Arrangement?

[hookerpuncher]

I've always been curious about these sites. Have any of you figured out how to join anonymously? Are you able to use a prepaid CC?

Never tried. They bill with a numbered company though if that helps.

 

[robi22]

I mean you can just look yourself unless you're too lazy to go through them. Plus I don't want a bunch of d bags fucking up their inboxes with stupid messages cause girls leave quick when they get overwhelmed with stupid requests lowballing them or asking stupid shit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/31b1f379-e5d0-4899-a621-e9adfe8a64f6

But there's quality out there. Just have to do your own searches and connect with them.

It's a paid dating site, I guess if guys want to look at girls in bikinis

Noticed the girl in the link joined Dec. 21st and hasn't been on the site since then - probably got bombed with messages and scared off, you see quite a few of those

There's an older article on using Seeking during Covid and tips for guys setting up profiles, messaging and negotiating. Used some of the stuff here a few times, met a couple of ladies off it, 1-2 I saw for a few years, gave them a gift($) each time and need up more fuck buddies. But Masterj669 and Toucan are right, the site has changed a lot in the last 5 years, used to be easy to find a decent girl for $200 an evening with many more if you clicked after drinks. Last time I was on a year back, $400 plus a hotel seemed to be average.

 

[hookerpuncher]

It's a paid dating site, I guess if guys want to look at girls in bikinis

There's an older article on using Seeking during Covid and tips for guys setting up profiles, messaging and negotiating. Used some of the stuff here a few times, met a couple of ladies off it, 1-2 I saw for a few years, gave them a gift($) each time and need up more fuck buddies. But Masterj669 and Toucan are right, the site has changed a lot in the last 5 years, used to be easy to find a decent girl for $200 an evening with many more if you clicked after drinks. Last time I was on a year back, $400 plus a hotel seemed to be average.

Yeah it used to be 300 when I started years ago with absolute gorgeous girls asking the high end of 500-1000.

Now girls are asking for ridiculous amounts or don't want to put in any work. I've heard blaming inflation for the increase in their ask lol

Not my problem you can't pay your rent so you resort to the site. The service itself hasn't changed that much so I'm not paying double to triple the average.

But I will agree its a paid dating site to a lot of members. I've talked to girls in the past that have treated it that way. It filters out all the bums that can't even spend 100 bucks a month on another subscription. The option for marriage minded is on the site and it lists your net worth (whether its real or fake) so they can shop around for a husband that isn't poor af

 

[Toucan]

Also here's a tip, many girls I've seen have mentioned that they are willing to go lower for a trustworthy and high quality SD.

Some are even on Seeking as their main purpose is to find a fuck buddy, and finance is a bonus. And so your overall game also has an impact on how much lower they are willing to do. My current arrangement is more into the fwb aspect, she doesn't really need the money. She wants a trustworthy person. I can forget to pay her and she won't get mad. I still pay her because that's part of building trust.

So don't be creeps, up your games.

 

[robi22]

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So don't be creeps, up your games.

Best advice

 

[Asscream]

Some are even on Seeking as their main purpose is to find a fuck buddy, and finance is a bonus. And so your overall game also has an impact on how much lower they are willing to do. My current arrangement is more into the fwb aspect, she doesn't really need the money. She wants a trustworthy person. I can forget to pay her and she won't get mad. I still pay her because that's part of building trust.

Can you elaborate on how much you pay? How the meets are? Just sex or dinner? What are their expectations?

 

[robi22]

Can you elaborate on how much you pay? How the meets are? Just sex or dinner? What are their expectations?

The best way to think of it is like regular dating, except instead of just paying for drinks/dinner you give them a "gift" later. In the past what I'd do is suggest getting drinks somewhere and just talking, getting to know each other. I'd avoid anybody who asked for a "meeting fee" ahead of time. If they do ask for something, tell them you're up for drinks, but depending on how things go (*hint*) you don't mind giving a gift. I'd suggest you ask them what they have in mind for a gift, maybe even when you meet up with them. That way you can counter-offer if they ask for an unreasonable number. At worst, you thank them for a nice time, you're just out the cost of dinner, and that's that. Next.


Also,
- never send someone an e-transfer you've never met (yes, should be obvious why, but there are a lot of scammers on the site who do that)
- if you're under 35-40 (or just look younger, in good shape) this can be a gold mine for you. According to one site, the average Seeking user is about 42.

 

[hookerpuncher]

- if you're under 35-40 (or just look younger, in good shape) this can be a gold mine for you. According to one site, the average Seeking user is about 42.

This makes a big difference to most girls. They aren't working girls that are forced to work in order to make ends meet. Most give up after trying it out for a few days cause of how demanding some guys are so they're overwhelmed by the requests and give up on the site.

19 year old's don't want to be fucking 60 year old slobs by choice. You'll find the ones that don't care about looks or age and will commit to anyone as long as they can get paid and have the "luxury" lifestyle. It really is like dating as @robi22 said so you have to schmooze them to keep interest in you. Keep in mind there are a bunch of 20 year old guys on the site so they can actually date someone their own age so unless you have some charisma and game don't bother signing up.

 

[Asscream]

What are the monthly rates like?

 

[robi22]

What are the monthly rates like?

For guys, not cheap, about $100/month Canadian now. They sometimes have discounts, but they want to keep the broke-ass guys of the site. You can join for free, you just need to make a basic profile to view the girl's profiles, but you can't message them until you pay up.

 

[Deleted member 73937]

I've always been curious about these sites. Have any of you figured out how to join anonymously? Are you able to use a prepaid CC?

I have used both Secret benefits and Whats Your Price. WYP is better in my opinion as you negotiate first and then once a price is settled on you can send a message and only that first message costs $. You can also use a prepaid visa for credits but need to be careful since you are using cdn funds to pay US prices. Caused me an issue .

At the end of the day I only made one solid connection. $400 for the date and it was all afternoon. 12 to 5. Fucked her three times and she was very horny professional milf that worked for U of T

 

[Deleted member 73937]

and yes can join anonymously with a hotmail account. They probably think i was Premier in the 1980s

 

[Toucan]

Can you elaborate on how much you pay? How the meets are? Just sex or dinner? What are their expectations?

It differs from girl to girl. Some I've met just for sex. Others I've met for dinner and then sex. Others I've met for a few dinners to build trust and then sex. Others I've met for sex, followed by hours of deep conversations. Others I've met to watch Netflix and then sex.

There's no routine like SP or MPA. They are regular civies that you just happen to have an arrangement with.

 

[Hardi]

I've always been curious about these sites. Have any of you figured out how to join anonymously? Are you able to use a prepaid CC?

Yes. prepaid cc can be used. My friend did. He had great luck there. There are different categories of girls. Some are interested in exchange of money for sex. Pay per meet. Some are looking for a connection/friendship for a monthly financial help. Does not have to be a lot. Some are just lonely and want a man to take them out, restaurants and some travel. You can find anything. All about how you carry yourself and what you looking for. I never tried it as i do not like any real connection or relationship. Just sporadic fun. But I hear from couple of my friends its worth a try. You need to have some money and time on your hand as well as energy to look for the one you like.

 

[sy barite]

Thanks guys, sounds interesting and fun, but I think I'll give it a pass. Seems like there's too much potential to make an actual connection. Sex only please.

 

[Toucan]

Thanks guys, sounds interesting and fun, but I think I'll give it a pass. Seems like there's too much potential to make an actual connection. Sex only please.

Those girls also exists, though you do have to find them... There's a few girls I've been with where all I did was meet for sex. But those never went more than 2-3 sessions, because for sex alone, you're right, I'd probably go to an MPA or SP instead. Because it's still $500 average PPM, and for $500, you can get multiple FS sessions, or one super hot SP.

For me, I'm a single guy, I don't want to be in a relationship, but I want a body to fondle when watching movies at home, followed by fun time lol

 

[Masterj669]

1. 19 year old hottie wants $200 for online
2. 19 year old hottie will meet in person but is not comfortable getting intimate
3. 24 year old hottie wants to meet then stops responding
4. 2 ridiculously hot women in 30s respond and want to sell me crypto

The list continues …

Sounds like things are different than the old days. There was some of that bullshit but that were also a lot of normal girls looking to make some money.

I got back on the site a few months ago and with a week had a 19 year old cute slim Asian chick willing to be submissive for $ 500 per meet plus hotel. It was pretty hot when I was asking her on the phone about what I could and could not do to her while I could hear her parents in the background.

Also had a cute md 20s blond who wanted 2K a month. SO figure once a week at $ 500 plus maybe a could of extra dates thrown in. Decided not to go for it though.

I think SA can still be a fun place to meet a different kind of girl but it takes a lot more work then just calling an agency.

 

[rxxxryan]

I have used both Secret benefits and Whats Your Price. WYP is better in my opinion as you negotiate first and then once a price is settled on you can send a message and only that first message costs $. You can also use a prepaid visa for credits but need to be careful since you are using cdn funds to pay US prices. Caused me an issue .

At the end of the day I only made one solid connection. $400 for the date and it was all afternoon. 12 to 5. Fucked her three times and she was very horny professional milf that worked for U of T

To each there own, but I would never pay and definitely never pay $400 to bang a milf. Just got to any bar in the suburbs on a friday night and you could easily take one home for free.

 

[hookerpuncher]

To each there own, but I would never pay and definitely never pay $400 to bang a milf. Just got to any bar in the suburbs on a friday night and you could easily take one home for free.

Agreed. Would never pay to see any girl that can be considered a MILF. Just get those girls drunk at some random sports bar and take them home.

When I see 40+ year olds reaching out to me on seeking I'm like bitch why the hell are you here. Get your life together instead of trying to be a sugar baby.

 

[hookerpuncher]

Sounds like things are different than the old days. There was some of that bullshit but that were also a lot of normal girls looking to make some money.

I got back on the site a few months ago and with a week had a 19 year old cute slim Asian chick willing to be submissive for $ 500 per meet plus hotel. It was pretty hot when I was asking her on the phone about what I could and could not do to her while I could hear her parents in the background.

Also had a cute md 20s blond who wanted 2K a month. SO figure once a week at $ 500 plus maybe a could of extra dates thrown in. Decided not to go for it though.

I think SA can still be a fun place to meet a different kind of girl but it takes a lot more work then just calling an agency.

It's always been the same but more girls asking for compensation for nothing. It's all about putting in the work and talking to girls that are worth the time.

Sometimes these girls are on there for a day and cancel the account right after once they meet someone nice and can take care of them. So being first in line and connecting does make a difference. My first ever meet off the site was this Chinese fob that never went back to the site after we met then left back to China. Sometimes these girls will be totally unknown to most users so gotta make an impact on them. Just gotta find the diamond in the rough as with most things.