Question Seeking Arrangement?

[Toucan]

Also, those girls that favorite you without looking at your profile? Scam. Avoid them

 

[hookerpuncher]

Also, those girls that favorite you without looking at your profile? Scam. Avoid them

I always hide or block those. My hidden/block list is probably 1000+ lol

Anyone that's strictly online or platonic, busted, or out of country is instantly off my list.

 

[Johnnyutah855]

If you're going to cheat on your wife why not with some young hot co ed that will let you relive your youth. Up to you but seems like a cougar wouldn't be wise as she could be affiliated with someone you know. Some youngin' is your friends daughter worse case scenario but I'm sure you would notice that.

One issue with this that was mentioned earlier is that these girls can get attached. I was in my car one time and saw a call come in from one I had on the go. I had to think fast as to why I couldn’t take the call which thankfully save me. Needless to say be careful. As a wise man once said if you play roulette long enough at some point it’s going to land on green.

 

[hookerpuncher]

One issue with this that was mentioned earlier is that these girls can get attached. I was in my car one time and saw a call come in from one I had on the go. I had to think fast as to why I couldn’t take the call which thankfully save me. Needless to say be careful. As a wise man once said if you play roulette long enough at some point it’s going to land on green.

It’s like I gotta do a masterclass on this stuff. Most guys are way too open with their information it’s baffling. Fake name and use a burner app or phone.

If you’re together there’s no need for you to be messaging her so she can’t be suspicious of what line is on that phone. If you’re using your personal line for everything then that’s going to come back to bite you in the ass one day.

 

[Johnnyutah855]

It’s like I gotta do a masterclass on this stuff. Most guys are way too open with their information it’s baffling. Fake name and use a burner app or phone.

If you’re together there’s no need for you to be messaging her so she can’t be suspicious of what line is on that phone. If you’re using your personal line for everything then that’s going to come back to bite you in the ass one day.

That helps but only works for so long. Eventually if she has half a brain she will start figure things out and at least clue in that you gave her a fake name.

 

[hookerpuncher]

That helps but only works for so long. Eventually if she has half a brain she will start figure things out and at least clue in that you gave her a fake name.

You must suck at lying lol need to learn from those shady car salesman the tricks of the trade to lie through your teeth and make it truth.

why does she need to know your real name? Are you taking her to see your friends and family? Or maybe showing her your ID and mail? Cmon

If it’s a hotel booking you should be arriving before her and checked in already to avoid her seeing any information. When you leave just tell them to charge the card.

I think it’s incredibly easy to keep your personal information undisclosed but it’s just like the site. Majority don’t want to put in the work and get lazy.

Worse case just provide your first name. I hope you guys aren’t providing your full legal name.

 

[Toucan]

The way I handle girls who catch feels is simple. I lay out expectations before every encounter, girl agrees. They start catching feels, I mentioned our agreement, and drop them. If girls can have conditions in arrangements, so can guys.

As for it coming back to bite me, I'm single. If my future significant other somehow comes across past girls, I chalk them up as exes or past flings. FWBs need to stop being stigmatized lol

 

[Johnnyutah855]

The way I handle girls who catch feels is simple. I lay out expectations before every encounter, girl agrees. They start catching feels, I mentioned our agreement, and drop them. If girls can have conditions in arrangements, so can guys.

As for it coming back to bite me, I'm single. If my future significant other somehow comes across past girls, I chalk them up as exes or past flings. FWBs need to stop being stigmatized lol

Yes if your single go nuts. Do SA along with hinge, bumble and tinder. You can have a 14 girl rotation in one week.

 

[Masterj669]

One issue with this that was mentioned earlier is that these girls can get attached. I was in my car one time and saw a call come in from one I had on the go. I had to think fast as to why I couldn’t take the call which thankfully save me. Needless to say be careful. As a wise man once said if you play roulette long enough at some point it’s going to land on green.

Not to judge by why the fuck wouldn't you get a burner phone? Operational security is critical.

I never gave my real name and had a burner phone. Always got them to book the hotel rooms so my name was never attached. I was with one girl for a year and she never knew what my name was. It takes some planning and time to set up but far less onerous and expensive than a divorce

 

[hookerpuncher]

Not to judge by why the fuck wouldn't you get a burner phone? Operational security is critical.

I never gave my real name and had a burner phone. Always got them to book the hotel rooms so my name was never attached. I was with one girl for a year and she never knew what my name was. It takes some planning and time to set up but far less onerous and expensive than a divorce

Exactly what I mentioned.

All good when things are going swimmingly with the girl. Wait till they get vengeful and spiteful. They'll go for your personal life, dox you, extort you, etc. But others can believe that stuff will never happen and not concern themselves with discretion. All this shit can come back to burn you in the future but its seen as nothing at this time.

Hopefully your future partners don't give a shit about your previous life but I'm guessing most will keep it a secret still so best of luck keeping things in the past but you never know with some of these girls. They're in it for the money so will come back to attack you if they see an opportunity.

I had a girl say I got her pregnant when there was absolutely no chance cause I pulled out and we were using a condom. Was blaming it on stupid things like rubbing it near there or whatever. Wanted money for "emotional damages" lol. Guess what, she had my burner and a fake name so blocked her and moved on.

 

[hookerpuncher]

As I predicted there's a surge of French Canadians on the site. I look at each one and see scam artist tattooed across their giant foreheads.

Quality of girls has dropped substantially recently.

 

[Jokingaces]

For those looking to meet young SBs I may have an alternative for you but must be young’ish. DM me.

Most if not all are down for BBFS.

DM’d bro. Happy Sunday

 

[papayadulce2017]

Very good friend of mine who is from the US and comes to Ontario a lot on business uses secret benefits and whatsyourprice and does the PPM thing and changes every few months with these girls and has some super quality girls. There is a bit of a social play when talking with the SBs but he has been very lucky with his findings.

 

[Newbiedog]

For those looking to meet young SBs I may have an alternative for you but must be young’ish. DM me.

Most if not all are down for BBFS.

Dm you now too…tks bro!

 

[Toucan]

Found this amusing Twitter thread full of "high end" SPs complaining about platforms like SA lol. Never seen so much entitlement, greed and gaslighting in a single thread before.

Highly recommend opening and reading the replies lol.

https://twitter.com/x/status/1614323711640731649

 

[Sybarite]

Found this amusing Twitter thread full of "high end" SPs complaining about platforms like SA lol. Never seen so much entitlement, greed and gaslighting in a single thread before.

Highly recommend opening and reading the replies lol.

https://twitter.com/x/status/1614323711640731649

Very amusing!

My fave reply: "I never understood why anyone would want overnight. It's like sleeping with your burger wrapper after you're done with it."

 

[robi22]

Found this amusing Twitter thread full of "high end" SPs complaining about platforms like SA lol. Never seen so much entitlement, greed and gaslighting in a single thread before.

Highly recommend opening and reading the replies lol.

https://twitter.com/x/status/1614323711640731649

That's crazy But I'm sure they feel the same way about any kind of "competition".

Btw, is anybody finding we're getting a bump in new girls showing up on sugar sites after the holidays? I was seeing a lot in the Nov/Dec, but was was hoping there would be more new leads once the Christmas/New Years bills come in, but so far it's been slow.

What Are the Most Popular Times of the Year to Find Sugar Babies?​

• Early November. This could be Black Friday and the whole holiday season. Once December hits, most ladies are probably into Family stuff, so start looking right at the end of October.
• Early September. The period from near the end of August to around September 10th seemed to be popular – it makes sense, being the start of school, and ladies are looking for some extra income.
• April/May. Again school-related, with most exams ending around May, thoughts turn to summer fun and adventures – which might cost money!
• February 11 (a few days before Valentine’s Day). Not sure why. Maybe they are just looking for a bit of romance?

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[Toucan]

That's crazy But I'm sure they feel the same way about any kind of "competition".

Btw, is anybody finding we're getting a bump in new girls showing up on sugar sites after the holidays? I was seeing a lot in the Nov/Dec, but was was hoping there would be more new leads once the Christmas/New Years bills come in, but so far it's been slow.

Sugardaddy Tips for 2022 - SugardaddySuccess.com

What's the best time to look for s sugarbaby? What's a good first message? We've got some tips for guys trying out the sugarbaby scene.

www.sugardaddysuccess.com

I did notice that. While I haven't been actively shopping as I have a nice thing going with someone, I still look at Seeking just for fun. It does seem to have hit a lull. I don't know about SDM as I don't really use it.

 

[robi22]

I did notice that. While I haven't been actively shopping as I have a nice thing going with someone, I still look at Seeking just for fun. It does seem to have hit a lull. I don't know about SDM as I don't really use it.

SDM is SugarDaddyMeet, according to their website, they've been around since the early 2000s.
Pretty much the same setup as Seeking, free to join and view profiles, private messaging, pictures/video, etc.
The main differences are that Seeking has a bigger membership (it's best-known, after all), but SDM has lower membership costs and fewer restrictions around texting things like PPM. Though I still like to get off the site onto Snap or texting once figured the girl is serious.
I find a lot of girls have profiles on Seeking, SDM and Secret Benefits too.

 

[robi22]

Has anybody found a bump in the number of girls posting on these sites since school started? OSAP only goes so far

Just a couple of tip for guys looking on these sites.

- search by recently active. Some girls create accounts and leave after a few days
- avoid anybody who is looking for "virtual/online/not ready to meet" - some are actually really new, but a lot are just looking to sell pictures
- If they ask for money upfront or eTransfers, avoid them. I've done Uber trips for people to come to my area, but that's the limit.
- avoid "hooker language". Most of these girls will think you see escorts if you are talking about CIM, BBBJ, etc. Start off with how you'd speak to a regular girl you met on Bumble or Tinder.
- 20-28 is the sweet spot for sugar babies. Not to say there aren't some fun ladies you'll meet outside, but in my experience, older ones can be jaded, and younger ones are flakey (or worse, lying about their age)
- Try not to piss the ladies off, especially on Seeking. They can get your account banned if the moderator feels like it. Just ignore it and move on.

I have some leads if anybody wants them (I don't want to post publically as they're not escorts). This blog also has some good points: https://www.sugardaddysuccess.com/sugardaddy-tips-for-2020/