What advice would the veterans give the young guys involved in this hobby?

[Proitalian1234]

MP hobby seems to be more for older gents; some of them looking for emotional attachments.
If you want literally more bang for your buck SP hobby is the route!
If you looking for emotional attachment this is the wrong hobby.

 

[Proitalian1234]

I am older but emotional attachments are for the young. I had my time
In the sun. Nothing could outdo that. I'm not looking for attachments, just a good time with a
Lovely beautiful woman.

 

[Leviathan]

March to your own drum beat. Risk is all relative. If you followed all the so called sage advice/rules and played it safe, what a boring life.

All these idiots who rage against SPs need to look in the mirror. Takes 2 to tango. You have a choice to engage or disengage at anytime. If you got suckered who’s fault is that ? Chalk it up to stupidity, insecurity or arrogant hubris. Maybe just admit you got out smarted?

Lord Kray

 

[Deleted member 79939]

Do it once a while when u are old .
When u are in your 20s, find a girlfriend.
Fall in love
Have a family
Buy a house
Get old
Go to a massage once while

 

[stripfan]

If you can manage to make friends with them, you will find your sessions more enjoyable, just because of that fact.

 

[Toomanymiles]

Unless you already have a rep of being a lithario. Don’t tell anyone you pay hoes for sex. Civies, esp young ones, will think you are disgusting.

 

[Sexygirls]

I started with one massage a month and moved up; sometimes I go 3-4 times a week.
do the math is a ton of money per year, I went from $1,200.00 at the beginning to a $24,000.00 last year

Yes, you have the "memories" but hey, you can't buy an ice cream cone with that.
Yes, this habit ruins your head, your perspective of women, your outlook on life

My Advice: Walk away from this fucking, disgusting hobby,
Save your $$$, set a target, buy a house, move in, then buy a second home, rent it
Pump you money into RRSPs, pay off your debt, pay off your CCs, you will see you have little money left to waste after covering all your expenses.

distract your self with other activities, travel, movies, family.

When you feel the urge to visit the whores. put the money into your savings. Once you see your money growing you'll want to make your stash bigger and bigger.

Walk away while you can

Thank you thats the best damn advice much respect, I just started this hobby and I question myself each time I went for a massage with happy ending. I feel like shit !