Dating a MPA after couple of visits/convos

[LittleCarrot]

i thought the whole point of this hobby was to skip the dating phase and get straight to the action.. you guys are working backwards

AHAHAHAHAHA!!!

 

[OG_funguy]

I agree that there are a lot of "pros" out there. But there are also a lot of "mostly" normal MPAs too. Personally, I think it would be easier to date an MPA from a semi-legit who's only providing basic services and not doing FS. Two of my faves are retired but I continue to see them outside the spa, no money involved, just doing normal dating stuff. I've known them for years and when they were working not once was I able to convince them to do FS at the spa (and trust me, I tried). A lot of the older ladies > 40 are single parents and most of the ones I've met over the years are not into playing games...but if you're going to do this, pay attention with your big brain and make sure you are not being played.

 

[Somedude43]

Lol, can you deal with her pleasuring other guys before coming back home. Id say not if your a younger guy. Most likely you already got feelings for her when most likely she says the same shit to all the guys. Youll get her number but it will be to talk you back into seeing her again next time. I dont think these girls wanna fuck all day all night unless they at work. Id assume its the last thing they wanna do unless they r horny. Maybe she does like you but she prob likes your money better lol. Good luck.

 

[cupcrazy]

always proceed with caution. The major obstacle is trust. Assuming you and the mpa gf met each other at the spa, do you want your gf to continue to work in a spa. Conversely, will your mpa gf concern that you will still go to spa or sp even though you stared dating?

 

[Freeuse.ca]

They make awesome side girls holy fuck stay for 3-6 months then LEAVE DO NOT MAKE HER YOUR MAIN GIRL air you do your a fucking idiot

 

[imthedude]

no

 

[Foreigner]

I’ve dated strippers a long time ago. One could make the same argument regarding them as MPAs. Reality was that if you pick the right one for the right reasons, it can be very nice. I became very close friends with 3 or 4 very lovely girls. Don’t pick the headliners. Don’t pick the tattooed white trash, and you may enjoy yourself while young.

 

[Ursus]

These girls are Predators.

They will screw you over and make you spend alot of money while they are doing it.

If you have low self-esteem and want to waste the next 12 months of your life, sure then, go ahead and date a sex-worker.

Sex-workers are sex-workers for a reason. You know that, right?

 

[dlhlfst]

I've dated a couple of MPAs. One was early 20s, the other late 20s. The late 20s one had been an MPA for a fair bit longer, but she was less of a 'pro'. She wasn't really into the lifestyle that some get sucked into. That relationship lasted a long time and was serious. The early 20s year old one was never serious and just for fun, and I didn't treat it as anything more than that.

As with anything in life, it depends on the person and what they're wanting.

 

[TheKWguy]

you clicked with someone after a few 30 min sessions where most of it is grunting and mashing of loins? wow your a smooth operator.

Try and see how far the 0$ moves improve the situation before you hit a wall.

 

[luvnewpussy]

Hi perverts,
so this post is to share an experience you had or one that your friend has had, about beginning to date a FS MPA after meeting her at a MP.
how did it start? how long did it last? did you guys end up getting engaged and married? share your interesting story please.

i ask this because i felt strong chemistry with a new FS MPA i met recently, we are the same age but i havent asked for her number or began talking. just wondering what happened in your experiences and why i shouldnt date FS MPAs.
all opinions welcomed

Your pussy wipped ..dont so it
She fucks other me for money..don't do it
She sucks cock for money.. dont do it
She will do other shit that she won't do with you for the money..dont do it

Chemistry is for the room. You must have not had new pussy for a verrrrryyyy long time.

You are pussy wipped my friend. Sounds Like every virgins first time with a woman. Or first blow job ..There all in love after. Lol ..your delusional and pussy drunk

 

[dirtyoldman]

Lol its her job to give you the illusion of chemistry and make you feel special for the half hour you paid her for. After you leave the room she doesn’t give a fuck about you

she love only your money.

 

[dirtyoldman]

Lol, can you deal with her pleasuring other guys before coming back home. Id say not if your a younger guy. Most likely you already got feelings for her when most likely she says the same shit to all the guys. Youll get her number but it will be to talk you back into seeing her again next time. I dont think these girls wanna fuck all day all night unless they at work. Id assume its the last thing they wanna do unless they r horny. Maybe she does like you but she prob likes your money better lol. Good luck.

very true she likes only your money.

 

[xtc27]

...4 sure, some MPAs are gr8, loveable girls... u can make longterm FWB & feelings...

... but, dude! Luv & chemistry = not enuf, fuck, not even REQUIRED!

Think like matchmaker; match yourself up with someone a matchmaker would pick 4 u...matchmaker would never match u with an MPA....

...& spend some time on yrslf... have enuf self-pride 2 seek excellence...

 

[Mr.YMMV]

What a loser.

 

[PC647]

There’s nothing wrong with meeting up and seeing these girls outside of the spa. Just don’t get too emotionally attached and you’re good. You are number 9 out of 20 other guys she is involved with so never let your feelings take over. Facts over feelings.

 

[OG_funguy]

If you want to know if it is "real", it is very simple: cut off the money. Treat her like a civilian.

You will have your answer very quickly.

Agreed, this is the essential test...

 

[Bananafruit]

OP hasn't even asked the MPA out. For all anyone knows maybe she's not interested in him at all.

This is like planning on buying your new McLaren when you haven't even won Lottomax let alone buy a lottery ticket.

 

[Somedude43]

If you want to know if it is "real", it is very simple: cut off the money. Treat her like a civilian.

You will have your answer very quickly.

Lol, id rather just see them at work then get played on the regular. Its not that hard to find regular girls at the bar or at the mall, in your apt building. They r everywhere lol, dont fall for the spa girls unless they really like you. I dont suspect they always wanna have 20 guys on the go givin them money forever. Id say if they dont text you out the blue they dont like you. Did they ask for you number or did you ask? Do they mind spending money on you? Or do they expect you to pay everytime? For everything? Easy to see if they r playin the game or not.

 

[Brewsky]

“Only for u bb I do this”

OP: I think I’m in love