Dating a MPA after couple of visits/convos

[dirtyoldman]

Agreed, this is the essential test...

Only money money that's it's.

 

[dirtyoldman]

Lol, id rather just see them at work then get played on the regular. Its not that hard to find regular girls at the bar or at the mall, in your apt building. They r everywhere lol, dont fall for the spa girls unless they really like you. I dont suspect they always wanna have 20 guys on the go givin them money forever. Id say if they dont text you out the blue they dont like you. Did they ask for you number or did you ask? Do they mind spending money on you? Or do they expect you to pay everytime? For everything? Easy to see if they r playin the game or not.

She love only your money that's it's.

 

[DAVEBABASH]

Good point. Back in my youth before I started dating a women I liked she made it clear she wanted an open relationship. I thought I would be okay with it, but I wasn't. Turns out I am not that kind of person. I had a good deal of anguish - I respected the arrangement but I was miserable. I had too go through the experience to know it, and maybe the OP will have to as well. Sometimes being told something is not enough, you have to find out for yourself. I have a relative who dated a couple of strippers and got really messed up. He was warned, but again he had to learn for himself. He is much happier now.

Thank you so much for explaining your experience. Actually, I had similar situation. One thing is that you say to yourself that is ok to have an open relationship but real feeling about it is another important thing. As UsefulIdiot nicely stated that feeling will shape your behviour.

 

[dirtyoldman]

If you want to know if it is "real", it is very simple: cut off the money. Treat her like a civilian.

You will have your answer very quickly.

Only money money.

 

[Somedude43]

Only money money.

Suppose if u are a dirty old man its only gonna be for money money money lol.✌

 

[Ursus]

If you want to know if it is "real", it is very simple: cut off the money. Treat her like a civilian.

You will have your answer very quickly.

Any women who realizes she cant take from her man is likely to leave him - civilian or not. Women are inferior human beings. They know this. So, they look at the superior males in our society as a resource to extract from. They use manipulation to Con us into giving them things they cant or wont obtain on their own.

They also have no remorse about it because they know we, as men, are more productive and talented than they are. Just like a child doesnt feel guilty when their Father gives them things as 'gifts', a sex worker feels us men are good enough that we can shoulder whatever we lose and still carry on. Always remember - if a woman is willing to abort her own child, she doesnt have the capacity to treat you well, as the man in her life.

Women, and especailly sex-workers, are ABSOLUTE PREDATORS. They have no conscience. They dont care about anything that is good and decent in this world. Women dont have the same ingrained desire for 'doing what is right' that most men have. Women have no loyalty, they have no remorse and essentially, they are walking, talking Sociopaths that only survive because of the value we men place on the Jewel between their legs. Interact with them cautiously or they will ruin you.

Men build society and advance the human population. Women manipulate, leverage, steal, destroy everything that men work hard to produce. And I will say it again - females have no remorse for their devilish ways and intentions.

I still interact with women, but I limit my exposure and I am never suprised at the empty vessels they reveal themselves to be.

If you want to know whether this sex worker is worth your time, ask her to do something for you that requires her to invest in you. 98% chance she refuses. Then, you will realize that my words are true. You will invest in her but she is very unlikely to invest back in you. So, you end up losing when its all said and done.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Thank you so much for explaining your experience. Actually, I had similar situation. One thing is that you say to yourself that is ok to have an open relationship but real feeling about it is another important thing. As UsefulIdiot nicely stated that feeling will shape your behviour.

At the risk of getting slammed I will say a little more. After two years working my ass off to get a career going I was ready for a relationship. I was a lonely and needy boy. The open relationship did not just give me anguish, for the first (and last) time in my life I had anxiety attacks. I do not think anyone can understand anxiety attacks without experiencing them. A few months later I started seeing someone much more compatible.

 

[goodtogo1962]

I have seen 3 strippers outside the club, all 3 were looking for something. Either money or favors. I currently have one mpa that is trying to lead me to her. She has been hinting at that for over 3 years. I know she has or had a regular and she talks to me and asks me for advice and other personal issues. She was my regular during the pandemic.

 

[LittleCarrot]

i thought the whole point of this hobby was to skip the dating phase and get straight to the action.. you guys are working backwards

LMFAO man... this is by far the most profound comment of this entire website, thank you for this big slap to the face that i needed to be reminded of...
EXACTLY! the very reason why i advocate hobbying is because no one has to get their feelings hurt, quick simple straight to the action, and also freedom to be and see whoever i want...
ive been in 2 long term "serious" relationships in the past that made me deeply depressed, which is why i became so fond of hobbying... LOL I AM WORKING BACKWARDS MAN WTF?!?!

 

[hangul99]

LMFAO man... this is by far the most profound comment of this entire website, thank you for this big slap to the face that i needed to be reminded of...
EXACTLY! the very reason why i advocate hobbying is because no one has to get their feelings hurt, quick simple straight to the action, and also freedom to be and see whoever i want...
ive been in 2 long term "serious" relationships in the past that made me deeply depressed, which is why i became so fond of hobbying... LOL I AM WORKING BACKWARDS MAN WTF?!?!

Wasn't it Charlie Sheen who once said he doesn't pay them for sex, he pays them to leave.

 

[OG_funguy]

Wasn't it Charlie Sheen who once said he doesn't pay them for sex, he pays them to leave.

Yep...

 

[hangul99]

Yep...

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Legend. Lol!

 

[Happyman]

Even MPA is afraid of getting into emotions. I asked a MPA in Flirt, why didn't a young girl like you, not went after a sugar Daddy and worked as a MPA. She told me that it was not easy to work for a sugar Daddy because there would be emotions involved. While working in Flirt, it was a job and it finished when she left the place. To work for a sugar Daddy, the game could be on and on, and too much for her and most girls. In a way, dating a MPA is like playing fire, a game not for everyone.

 

[xtc27]

Yep...

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...words 2 live by... worth repeating! Allot!!!

...Nice 2c @LittleCarrot lightbulb moment...

 

[Ursus]

At the risk of getting slammed I will say a little more.

That's your problem - right there!

'At the risk of getting slammed'?

Why do you care what men on a sex forum think of you?

Read my posts. I dont care - even 1% - what the members of this forum think about me. I dont care what my Wife thinks of me. I dont care what Angela520 thinks of me. I dont care what Asian Angela thinks of me. And I dont care what my neighbour or my Mother thinks of me.

Live your life based upon your own self-judgement.

No one cares about you and they will only slam you for their own personal interests and motivations. It doesnt matter in the end. You are insignifigent and so are they - so are all of us.

We all die and turn to dust. And nothing we do will be remembered within a few generations that develop after we leave this earth.

When my Grandmother died a few years back, she left this earth a very wealthy woman. But before she passed, she told me she wasnt going to leave me a penny. In fact, she didnt even leave me a note to say good-bye, didnt mention me in her Will. Its as if she never knew me. What she was actually doing was communicating to me, indirectly, that she hated me. But I didnt care. I dont care now and I never will care what she thought of me. It doesnt matter in the end. Human beings are assholes and they give very little value to others throughout their lives.

 

[Shaved]

If it’s genuine, you’ll know. She won’t take/want your money. She’ll ask to see you outside of work. But it will never be simple or easy as you hope and you’ll be worse for it. Lol.

 

[OG_funguy]

When my Grandmother died a few years back, she left this earth a very wealthy woman. But before she passed, she told me she wasnt going to leave me a penny. In fact, she didnt even leave me a note to say good-bye, didnt mention me in her Will.

She probably didn't leave you anything because you thought she was insignificant and didn't care what she thinks...

 

[sy barite]

Almost...but not quite feel sorry for you O.P. What kind of responses did you expect to get here?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

That's your problem - right there!

'At the risk of getting slammed'?

Why do you care what men on a sex forum think of you?

Read my posts. I dont care - even 1% - what the members of this forum think about me. I dont care what my Wife thinks of me. I dont care what Angela520 thinks of me. I dont care what Asian Angela thinks of me. And I dont care what my neighbour or my Mother thinks of me.

Live your life based upon your own self-judgement.

No one cares about you and they will only slam you for their own personal interests and motivations. It doesnt matter in the end. You are insignifigent and so are they - so are all of us.

We all die and turn to dust. And nothing we do will be remembered within a few generations that develop after we leave this earth.

When my Grandmother died a few years back, she left this earth a very wealthy woman. But before she passed, she told me she wasnt going to leave me a penny. In fact, she didnt even leave me a note to say good-bye, didnt mention me in her Will. Its as if she never knew me. What she was actually doing was communicating to me, indirectly, that she hated me. But I didnt care. I dont care now and I never will care what she thought of me. It doesnt matter in the end. Human beings are assholes and they give very little value to others throughout their lives.

I am starting to feel sorry for you, your life has been unkind. Yes there are a lot of assholes, but most people are just self interested, and generally pleasant to deal with, and occasionally are really enjoyable to spend time with. The trouble with being tough is that in protecting yourself you push everyone away from you, get bad reactions, and in turn those reactions reinforce your cynicism. I think a hug (and maybe some MDMA) would do you a lot of good.

 

[Nandor De Laurentis]