I'm not doubting your buddy's story or the fact it can happen but I knew a girl similar to this story years back. She was fucking me bareback the entire time and we still met on her off days sometimes while she was with the guy. Some girls are just really good at putting on an act and playing guys.On the flipside, this is a high risk high reward venture.
I know someone who did meet someone at a spa, one of the major chains too.
He had seen her on and off over the years at the spa, but didn't really connect until much later. They met up outside of the spa like a regular civilian relationship a few times, she eventually introduced him to the rest of her immediate family and friends. He got her to quit the business, they did everything right including went and got each other tested for STDs that came back clear. They're now as happy as ever, she's got a regular job after finishing her higher education diploma that the spa helped her put money towards. She had an exit strategy from day 1, it just so happens to coincide with the right timing that my buddy came along near the end. They even bought a place together.
Not saying this could happen to anyone and everyone, but the small chance that it could, could happen. You just have to be careful, and see if there is a game plan for her to want to make the connection with you. In my bud's case, it was an equal thing where she planned their outings, and so did he. I'd say there was equal effort. I was skeptical as hell for him in the beginning but glad to see it somehow worked out.
For OP, it's just not worth it. You can never fully trust her and if she was still fucking other guys the whole time, would you be okay with that? Don't think too much about her giving you her number, it's business. She most likely just thought you were a good customer or likely to repeat as a regular. I'm no Brad Pitt but i don't think I've ever been denied asking for a girl's number. Christ, they think it's weird if I'm repeating and don't ask for it. If you're just looking for a casual relationship or just fucking around, then go for it. If you're not, why not just go for a civi if you're pursuing a serious relationship. If you have the looks, charm, and wits to pull a working girl, why not just save yourself the stress and frustration and go for a girl without all that baggage and bullshit with her.
Just trying to save you the hassle and hurt, you're thinking with your dick right now. It's lust not love.
So...when I first started this hobby I swore to myself to not fall for any of the girls that I see and I have seen quite a few since I started. I created a thread awhile ago about conversion and how I would like to go down the rabbit hole and become friends with MPAs. I received numbers from girls but never acted or actually contacted them back or went back to see them again just cause the girls that actually offered me their number, I wasnt really too attracted to them, though they werent bad looking. So fast forward to now and a few weeks to a month ago I see this MPA (I wont name where I saw this girl or name the girl) but dam I think I have a crush on the girl... which I have seen now a hand full of times. Call me an idiot and say what you may but dam I feel what I feel, I know everyone is going to say that the women just want your money and all that which I dont disagree with but dam I am stumped here...
FUCK SAKES LISTEN TO YOUR CONSCIENCE MAN IT'S SPEAKING TO YOU
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