Had a similar case with a regular, she would alway tell me she liked me different, would ask me if I liked her. I always said of course I do I would be here if I didnโt, sheโd say but do you really like me, and asked why I only see her at the spa. Ended up being straight with her, that although I do like her seeing outside the spa couldnโt happen. In the end she was ok with it, things stayed the same and eventually the thrill wore off for me and probably her, and stopped seeing as much. Funny thing is, she never realizes that I knew she had similar relationships with other guys. The point is, when ever they say just you baby, itโs never just you.